I've invested two dates in a 45 yo MILF. I dated her the first time because she's 10 years younger than me and is a red head. I dated her the second time because I found on the first date that she has GIGANTIC tits.
Under my rules we fuck on the third date. So I was planning to invite her to my house for dinner. If she refuses then I move in to other MILFS. If she accepts we fuck.
The problem is that on the second date it became clearer that she's pretty fat. She wears loose fitting dresses so it's hard to tell specifically. But I'd guess when I see her naked she'll be a 5 on a 1-10 scale of fatness. Not grossly obese or anything but clearly overweight.
I like skinny young girls. But I also love big tits.
My concern is that I'll see her naked and the little head will want to stay asleep. I haven't ever fucked a fat girl. I don't like fat. It's a turn off. I don't like thick. But I love big tits.
I know her tits are probably saggy from gravity and age. But I actually like saggy tits sometimes. So that's not a turn off.
All we have done so far is kiss and some light petting. She kisses really well. Her face is not unattractive but not great either.
So my question, especially for guys who fuck MILFS regularly, is whether I should fuck this one or let her go. Specifically, are big tits enough to compensate for fat? Are the big tits likely enough of a turn on to compensate for fat, or is the fat likely such a turn off that I should pass on this one.
For a pretty stripper with big natural tits but somewhat overweight, I might get a few dances to allow me to play with the tits. But I'd stop with a few dances.
If I were extremely horny I would clearly fuck her fat and all. But I get lots of stripper pussy so I'm not needy. I'm just experimenting with free MILF pussy to see if it's a worthwhile supplement or not.
I'm also wondering, do 40-55 yo MILFS know that they're supposed to give a guy a blow job. Or do I need to educate them on that point?
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last commentAlso, I have a couple of dozen other MILFS who want to date me so there are lots of other candidates. But they will requiring some dating before they are fuck ready.
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In my opinion, GIGANTIC tits aren't enough to compensate for anything, and are a turn off in and of themselves except on a very beautiful woman. Christina Hendricks manages to pull it off; not too many others do, for me.
"Fat", except for obesity, alone isn't a turn off. A pretty girl is a pretty girl, even if she exceeds "normal" weight standards.
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One of the most awesome side benefits of having sex with strippers, is that it allows me to more-easily pass up MILFs when I know I"ll regret having sex with them later. I've never regretted taking a pass on a really-not-attractive-enough MILF. Thank you, strippers!
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A fuck is a fuck is a fuck. That being said, I'm glad you have all these other options. I agree with George, I've fucked 2 fat women in my life and that was when I was young and horny. These days I'm picky. Do what you want, John. Don't worry, be happy !!!
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Instead of going for a homerun; go for a double; take out her tits and see if you enjoy them; if you don’t; then no need to proceed.
Chubby girls can be very accommodating and giving; just turn down the lights a bit and enjoy their willingness and more cushin for the pushin.
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Fuck the milf's john! DS3! DS3! DS3!
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MILF's? First Date YES!
SJG
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Without actually seeing a pic of her it's real hard to say. Big tits are great but just because they're big does't mean that compensates for fatness. Remember, tits are just fat cells. A pretty face and great personality DOES compensate to some degree for some extra weight but only to a point. An extra 20, 30 or even 40lbs might not be a deal breaker if she has a gorgeous face. With huge tits 10lbs of that could easily be in her tits. The rest is usually in a woman's hips and thighs with the remainder in her belly so while someone may be 160-180lbs or so it may be spread out and she carries it well if she's not 5' tall. But like I said, it'd really take a pic to give a yes, no or maybe answer.
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JS - I've told you more than once, you can't compare MILFs with 20 year old strippers. There are a handful of MILFs out there that compare, but you're probably not going to find them on a dating site.
For example, on a standard 1-10 scale the best MILF you could possibly find would be a 7.
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I would not waste my time on a 45-year-old fat MILF when I can have fun with 25-year-old strippers.
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I have a rule - that I've never broken - and it's a bit different from the current opinion. If a woman offers me pussy - I don't turn it down.
I've fucked all body types - and fat women can be great fucks.
There's an old joke about fat girls and mopeds - they are both fun to ride until your friends see you riding them.
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Nothing wrong with fucking a chick with some extra pounds. If you are going to deal with milfs in their 40's you have to understand you won't find a lot without some extra poundage.
My first gf after my divorce wasa 42 year old hot cougar who fucked my brains out for 2-3 months and she had a hard body. But I haven't seen many like that.
I'm not quite where cashman is. If a girl offers pussy I'm generally not going to turn it down, but I do have certain standards and there are some women I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.
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Rh48hr - I suspect most guys aren't in that place. I am a total hound for pussy. I have fucked some women that you wouldn't touch with a 50 foot pole - covered by 10 condoms. So my standards are non existent!
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Your post sounds like you are trying to talk yourself out of it. You already know what to do
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I agree with K.
If you decide to go through with it, you may back out once you see all the rolls in the bakery. Or, you may do the deed and realize you can't do it again. It may not be worth the drama, because she probably wants to date you.
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Cashman - lol I get it.
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She sounds borderline
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Don't over-think this. Just go ahead and fuck her, then you'll know.
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Thanks for the advice. But I do wish there was some sort of consensus. Half say fuck her, half say don't fuck her, and several on both sides make sense.
In any event, after tonight's visit with my new DS candidate, Im inclined to say no fuck. Instead, I'm going to look for a MILF more to my liking. I think I've been focusing exclusively upon MILF looks and Shailynn is right, MILFS can compare to strippers. I need to look for a MILF who is more chill, who I genuinely enjoy being with, and who also has massive tits.
Of course it's all up to the little head and he can change his mind at any moment.
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Now that sounds like a good strategy. Hold out for a better MILF and enjoy your strippers until you find her.
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You have a good plan. It's mostly up to the little head. If you don't get aroused by this milf - then it's not happening - so that is a good barometer.
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So maybe my opinion doesn't matter cause I'm not out screwing MILFs or strippers but I think many of you glazed over the point that she is a red head. To me, that puts a whole new factor into the equation. Like Papa said, take those tits out and work them and watch as she dives after your little head. I'm guessing you are going to have a great time and won't even have to shed her clothes. Let your little head be your guide. LOL!
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A lot of fat girls have big tits. They usually sag, especially with a woman in her 40s who has had kids. I'm guessing that the only thing making those titties look so upright and plump is a heavy duty bra with a lot of under carriage support.
It's very unkind to toy with a lonely woman in her 40s. If you don't think that you'll want a repeat after seeing her naked, then you should probably just move on. Shit like this is exactly why I will never date again if my wife decides to leave me. I did my trip through MILF land (albeit younger hotter MILFS in their early 30s) before I met my wife and I have zilch interest in revisiting that land in my 40s and up. They tend to be lonely and get hurt too easily.
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dugan nailed it.
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"There's an old joke about fat girls and mopeds - they are both fun to ride until your friends see you riding them."
I was going to write the same thing, but there is another way they are similar too. We have all done it.
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John, if you haven't already, fuck your big titty MILF. If nothing else you can titty fuck her gigantic tits and splash her face with a load.
Remember why all the young girls like to fuck us older guys. We know what we are doing - experience counts. It often works the other way too. I had a mid-40s MILF I was seeing last year. Smoking hot, but also knew her way around a cock. Best fucking of my life, of course she was also a squirter. But what the hell man. As long as the little head agrees put it to her.
The only really fat chick I ever fucked was in college and I got tired of her chasing me. So I took the plunge. Very tight pussy - which I attributed to lack of use? It did the trick. But she had almost no tits at all so I was not interested in repeating. Your MILF with the gigantic tits probably knows how to suck a cock real well too. Small investment, potential big return. And if it doesn't work out, you can still make it to the SC in time to find another DS candidate.
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Corvus, you must have been really out of shape in college, if you got tired from a fat girl chasing you. They don't run that fast!
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Damn, who knew Rick Dugan has a heart after all, nice reply RD.
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@DaOnion, lol. Good one.
Specifically, I called her bluff and fucked her brains out. Lol
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Agee with Rick, having dated MILFs too. I can't do that to the lonely ones either.
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