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8 years ago
the clothes aren't even pink. or at least they don't have to be.
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8 years ago
this all presupposes
a) she answers her phone
b) texts back
c) is a rational human being
none of which are usually true.
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8 years ago
trust me, the hot attractive dumb blonde is dull as hell if she is really stupid.
reminds me of the eloy from The Time Machine
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8 years ago
strippers will ask you for a card to get you to leave them alone.
they end up in the trash or on the floor. NO ONE CARES ABOUT CARDS
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8 years ago
here is the text from "Stay Away"
"the lights were totally out and all I could see was her shadow. Got closer... yeah... pretty fat. Not in a pretty way... just her stomach was bigger then her boobs. She kept the lights off... know she was embarrassed but not embarrassed enough to take the cash.
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She didn't do anything... just got in the fat saddle, rode her for 10 minutes and that was it. She got up, getting dressed and I'm getting pissed, not showing it... just knew it was a worthless 250 I just spent. Then she started complaining about those other men, calling everyone douche-bags and worthless pieces of shit for having to pay for sex. No second pop, no fun,. just ride a fat chick who is past her prime and more interested in eating then being an escort.
She had a great boob job... if you consider it years ago... now it's just a fat mess that is not worth the money, attitude and bullshit. She belongs in the 80 bucks for a quarter hour crap, not 250 for an hour that you will never see."
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8 years ago
one of the only links left (first image was in 2009)
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lgd871PBRS1qf8zx3o1_250.jpg
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8 years ago
some strippers really mean it. some don't.
it' rare that the ones that mean it will be able to get their act together to a) respond to a text b) make plans c) be where they say they're gonna be.
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8 years ago
I was thinking the same think VBD.
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8 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
today's dancers have no concept of how to 'entertain' a customer. in the past, customers would come in to the club and the dancer would listen to him vent, and then indulge his fantasy. the dancer would be young and attractive, and while she was listening, she would give the customer the impression that he was still attractive.
now, the dancer tells the customer the hardship story (boyfriend that abuses her, bills due, dui, drug addiction, children without good clothing, school, christmas, ) and expects the PL to give her money.
When I go into a club, I want to forget about stupid people and stupid mistakes that they make, not reminded of them (and oh my God the stupid tattoos!)
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8 years ago
this explains it:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fFzKi-o4rHw
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8 years ago
the logic is not there most of the time.
granted, a whale that comes through with the cash is always better than having to work the club.
but, i've watched girls sit with someone for HOURS just to get a $300 VIP.
i find it puzzling that in the time it would take her to earn $300 (30 $10 table dances or 15 $20 couch dances) she's wasting her time kissing up to someone.
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8 years ago
if it's not a 'wanna dance' girl, it's a 'want some company' girl
Dancers ask the same questions. not because they want to run game, but because they are in auto-pilot.
most won't even remember anything about you including your name once they move on.
1) what's your name
2) where are you from
3) what do you do
4) come here often
5) are you having a good day so far
the girls that make the most money remember every last detail about you, and ask about you when you come back in.
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8 years ago
Having dealt with drug abusers and alcoholics on this level, I feel your pain Gawker. Sadly, your ATF will not remember any of the trouble she caused you.
In your case, you might benefit from the Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby or Seeking Arrangement websites to find someone rather than 'put up' with all the SS you encounter at the SC.
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8 years ago
it's not just the one decision. it's every decision they make after that as well. each decision becomes another point of no return.
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8 years ago
probably artist availability and cash availability.
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8 years ago
filmed in Atlanta. possibly the Gold ROOM nightclub. Some of Atlanta's strippers are in that movie.
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8 years ago
they have been brainwashed by the "music and lyrics" of the club.
it's difficult to have a conversation with a girl that is intermittently rapping lyrics of the "song" playing.
it used to be that the girls would try and seem interested in you, laugh at your bad jokes, remember what kind of work you did, and present the fantasy girl to you.
now, you're lucky if they don't present their entire financial dilemma to you (complete with lack of child support from deadbeat boyfriend/sperm donor), rent, probation, methadone, outfits, tattoos, hair, nails, drugs.
the disconnect is not because they're younger than us. it's because their background (especially being in a strip club) is radically different, and their priorities and work ethic are not the same.
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8 years ago
there are cameras in the main areas at popular Atlanta clubs. These are used to discourage theft.
there are no cameras in their VIP room areas. it would make the club liable for any illegal activity that might occur.
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8 years ago
you never loan money to a stripper.
they never pay you back.
when the rent's due again, or the car payment's due the next month, they'll ask again.
there's usually a lot of drug abuse going on when they need a "loan"
one stripper used to text me every month when her probation was due the next day. sorry.
if you do it once, and refuse to do it again, suddenly you become the bad guy.
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8 years ago
hooters waitress is common. it's kind of like stripper in training
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8 years ago
the night crowd at follies hardly use the vip rooms. it's all a competition to them (the guys) as to see who can make it rain more.
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8 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
if she's an 8 or 9, but she is dumb as a box of rocks, it's a turn off.
i had a CF (8.5) that I took to VIP a few times. had a great time. at least until she opened her mouth to talk.
then it was all about outfits, nails, hair, shoes, and gossip.
she doesn't need to be a rocket scientist, but she should at least be able to carry on a conversation about something other than vanity.
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8 years ago
he's the same guy from Tattletale during the week nights. he keeps the ones for the night shift at Follies where the urban clientele likes to make it rain
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8 years ago
move on. it's a strip club, not a dating service.
the boyfriend has a lot on his plate without his stripper girlfriend being texted outside of work.
she doesn't want to hurt your feeling, but lies hurt more. don't put her in a position that ruins your ITC relationship.
accept the fact that most dancers lie to keep them isolated from the PLs. hence, stage names.
most clubs used to prohibit phone number exchange in the club. the clubs still have a policy of not allowing a dancer to leave with a custy, and sometimes bouncers will escort the dancer to the car.
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8 years ago
they waste it on new tattoos. they usually have kids from different fathers, none of which have jobs, or want to pay child support, so they end up supporting their family all by themselves.
they buy purebread dogs, usually pitbulls, which makes it impossible to find a place to live because of pet fees and dog breed restrictions.
they drive drunk and will often get a dui. so a lot of their money will be spend on court costs, probation, and a new car.
they like to find places to stay that are easily 40 or 50 miles away, so the commute costs them a fortune.
they have a boyfriend in jail, either because of domestic violence, drug sales, or any number of valid charges. so even more money goes to lawyer fees, probation, or child support the boyfriend's other baby-mama.
i've even heard of situations where the boyfriend will come into work with her, wait until she makes some money, and then take her money to buy dances from other girls.