Disconnect
larryfisherman
California
Do you guys ever feel a disconnect when talking to these younger strippers?
I'm still relatively young (26), but sometimes when I talk to these strippers from ages 18-22, I feel a big disconnect. We're not interested in the same things, I can't relate to them. They're a little immature (but aren't we all at that age). They even sound like kids when they talk. I know I was that way at their age, but sometimes I wanna tell them come back to me in three years when you've matured and seen some life.
A stripper I was talking to the other day (she's 21) was talking about how she goes to the nightclub every weekend. I was thinking to myself, man I haven't been to a nightclub in four years, I'm so out of that.
I'm still relatively young (26), but sometimes when I talk to these strippers from ages 18-22, I feel a big disconnect. We're not interested in the same things, I can't relate to them. They're a little immature (but aren't we all at that age). They even sound like kids when they talk. I know I was that way at their age, but sometimes I wanna tell them come back to me in three years when you've matured and seen some life.
A stripper I was talking to the other day (she's 21) was talking about how she goes to the nightclub every weekend. I was thinking to myself, man I haven't been to a nightclub in four years, I'm so out of that.
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For the younger ones (I'm old enough to be their father now) I find it works best if I treat them like a giggle, jiggly, bubbly distraction and just enjoy the show / just enjoy the ride.
I think this is why some of the old dancers -- whether older is 27 or 32 or 37 or 42 -- still make bank at some clubs. For some customers, these dancers are preferred to talk to as a young, but still relatable, woman.
Even with the young ones, I still manage to find something interesting for the two of us to talk about. I think even with these platonic conversations, the convo should steer somewhat into seduction territory. That helps to sell dances, GFE play in the front room, or OTC p4p, I suppose. Civilianize, but seduce!
For me, I either:
1) regret trying to get into meaningful convos w/ them b/c the more comfortable they get the more their crazy and dysfunctional side that comes out
2) I can only think w/ one head at a time - if my big-head gets engaged in "meaningful conversation" my little-head has no interest and goes to sleep - and I go to SCs to have my little-head stimulated not my big-head
it's difficult to have a conversation with a girl that is intermittently rapping lyrics of the "song" playing.
it used to be that the girls would try and seem interested in you, laugh at your bad jokes, remember what kind of work you did, and present the fantasy girl to you.
now, you're lucky if they don't present their entire financial dilemma to you (complete with lack of child support from deadbeat boyfriend/sperm donor), rent, probation, methadone, outfits, tattoos, hair, nails, drugs.
the disconnect is not because they're younger than us. it's because their background (especially being in a strip club) is radically different, and their priorities and work ethic are not the same.
" I regret trying to get into meaningful convos w/ them b/c the more comfortable they get the more their crazy and dysfunctional side that comes out"
That is good points to you
I take that completely back. I didn't mean I relate to them -- I generally don't. What I mean is, I have very fun and engaging conversations with them.
Also bear in mind a lot of 18-20 year Olds haveny honed their sales skills. They get dances for showing up and being cute.
She has lost her license for the foreseeable future so I drive her frequently and I can't stand the fucking rap music she gets on the car radio, so we negotiated playlists on my phone which we play - Coldplay, Eminem, Jewel, Three Days Grace, etc.
she is in the process of moving to Floriduh and will still find drama in her life, I'm sure. She's going to be in Fort Pierce initially and wants to continue dancing, but I don't see any clubs listed on here for Fort Pierce. Any clubs nearby?
But seriously, the ability to hold a conversation with the girl is directly proportional to how good her dances are ... as a general rule. There are always exceptions.
A french connection with a dancer is even better