Dancers as interrogation artists
goosman
On A Booty Hunt
The number one question dancers ask is "wanna dance". But after that, what is the second most prevalent questions you hear? For me it's some variation of Where are you from/where were you born
Another question why do they ask questions? A lot of times its to make small talk, I get it. But sometimes it seems as if they are doing a little interrogation to run game. What are they trying to find out & why?
Another question why do they ask questions? A lot of times its to make small talk, I get it. But sometimes it seems as if they are doing a little interrogation to run game. What are they trying to find out & why?
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Dancers ask the same questions. not because they want to run game, but because they are in auto-pilot.
most won't even remember anything about you including your name once they move on.
1) what's your name
2) where are you from
3) what do you do
4) come here often
5) are you having a good day so far
the girls that make the most money remember every last detail about you, and ask about you when you come back in.
I'd concur with second most common be some variation of where do you live.
"I saw you here two weeks ago, didn't I?" No.
"You look familiar, you're been in here before / didn't I give you some dances before?" Depends
"It's been awhile, how have you been?"
"Did you finish that thing / do that thing we talked about the last time you were here?"
^^^ many of the better ones remember my convo from a couple months ago.
"And then what happened?"
^^^ common tactic, effective for convo
If I want to start getting along with a girl, I tell her about myself, anticipating all the things she will want to know, but might feel she should not ask.
SJG
Normally, once we've gotten each others' names, if the girl is not familiar to me, I ask her how long she's been working there, and then immediately steer the conversation to my favorite topic -- strip clubs. If she's been working there a while, I tease her about avoiding me for so long, she teases me back, and then I steer the conversation to my next favorite topic, what kind of shot she'd like to do with me.
Eventually, she does get to ask all her qualifying questions, but I typically like to carry the conversation for the first 10 minutes to see how she responds and decide whether or not I want her to sit there the rest of the night or not.
I've been presented with so many different approaches with different outcomes that I'm not sure it even matters what gets asked or doesn't. Like joew said it's routine for them. One Ive done dances with and even listened to her talk about her hobby the first time we met approached me with the same line she did the first time, "You look like you play sports...did you play this, blah, blah, blah."
I can imagine if a bouncer asked customers while leaving if they were sober all the responses he might get. Some might not be nice. I treat dancer questions like an optional choice response. Lie, tell the truth, or make up crap. I do remember if they really like the story you told, be careful if they may want you to repeat the story in another week. I can't remember every story I told from one week to the next. I told a story so good one time, that the dancer told other dancers and wanted more information the following week and wanted me to tell several of her friends.
Wow, is your dick really that big?
Will you fuck me? No charge.
Will you give me a ride home?
how did you here about us
the most famous Are you a cop
You: My name is...
Her: Is that your real name or stripper name?
I've been asked that twice. Got a BJ both times.
Her: Is that your real name or stripper name?
I friend of mine said when she said her name was Mercedes "So your parents knew you were going to be a stripper the day you were born."
The ones that are more serious about their dancing & see/treat it as their one-person micro-business are probably trying to size you up.
A few times total, I have been too tired to verbally entertain the girl. That always pisses them off. Then usually they will never talk to you again. But again, just a couple of times max has that happened to me.
Usually girls on their best behavior smile and nod at everything you say. So in my own way, I am sure to tell them everything they will want to know, so that they don't have to ask.
I interject one caveat, at one club the girls smile and nod at everything you say, until you tell them where you live. Then they interrupt and tell you where they live.
First time I though to myself, "She must be getting a bit tipsy and not realize how that sounds."
That was my first experience with the underground circuit of more extreme clubs. The girls know exactly what they are doing. And they really do know how to make a guy feel like a king.
SJG
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SJG, when I say I "lead the conversation", I definitely do it differently than you, I reckon . I have no idea what they will want to know, and they're adults so they can ask if they do want to know... you risk blabbling on and on interminably if you just perform a soliloquy on what you presume they want to hear. When I say "lead the conversation", I mean I lead it into fun topics that are completely interactive, I definitely don't monopolize the conversation, talk about myself at length on the assumption that that's what she needs to know about, etc. I just want to get us to conversations where we're both laughing and telling stories
Well, all I can say is that in my experience, girls are always judging and screening guys. It is completely unfair, and all of it is double edged. But in my experience, there are things a girl needs to know before she will open up to a guy. She will talk about herself, and generally women are quite open. But she needs to hear certain things from the guy first, he has to make the show of openness and non-defensiveness. And in my experience, there are some types of things which girls perk right up to.
Yes, it is all unfair, but if you want to deal with them, you need to learn how to meet their expectations, while at the same time not letting them think that you can be pushed around or interrogated.
And yes, having fun with them is fine, but it also depends on what you and she think are fun. I have always found that girls really do respond positively when they can see that you are making at least a bit of tactful effort to impress them.
And again, it depends upon what sort of an outcome you want. Do you want the girl to take real interest in you, and in a completely civilian way?
I treat all girls as civilians, and it all situations.
SJG
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