Comments by neoguy (page 4)

I feel better going to the club tonight. Was starting to feel wrong, but now...I will spend more than I originally planned to. Now, where is the bank card?

I do not have a real possessive dancer, but I do have a favorite and most of the others know to stay away when she is around. But when I want a change up, i just go on days she isn't around..no worries!!

My own computer, through their network. I only came on TUSCL a few times from work, now I just wait to get home...after everyone goes to sleep. This would not be acceptable to the S/O.

I have wanted to post more personal things on here, but have worried that a few of my favorites would find me here and not be happy with me.

I stand because I get tired of sitting, want a different view or I am thinking of leaving and want a good reason to stay. Usually the good reason will find me. You know, it is nice sometimes to slip your hand around the girls waist and her around yours. Sometimes they are plumb tired and just want to lay their head on your shoulder for a few minutes. This is always nice as again, they are more human for a few minutes and not the stripper in my lap.

I have ran across several strippers who use the real names (Or atleast that is what they tell me, lol). Though I ask every dancer what her real name is, they don't seem to care telling. Really, what can I do with a first name anyway?

Just recently I had one dancer put her tits in my mouth which was great, but she was very worried about the bouncer seeing us, so it didn't last too long. Two days later I went back and found a different dancer who had no worries at all. We did three dances and I couldn't keep her tits out my mouth. Both of these were done in the main room, but I made sure the second dancer was with me in the corner. First gal asked for a tip before I ever took out the money to pay her, the second gal didn't even mention a tip. Now which one will get me back again??

I move around alot while in the clubs. Many dancers will laugh because they see me at the bar, 15 minutes later I am at a table, and a little later I will be caught standing near the exit. I actually find myself talking to more girls when I am standing then when at the bar. While standing, they will ask if I am leaving..."hey, don't you want one dance before you leave?". If I say no, many times they will just stand there and talk. This is where I get to know many dancers as it seems like they stop the stripper talk and just shoot the breeze. I also end up talking with the wait staff and bouncers there...always good to know the help.

Ice breaker/small talk I cannot remember being asked the question in months. I am sure the ring on my finger tells it all.

The quick answer is, no. It is not cheating. What it could lead to though is cheating. If my favorite would let me, you better believe I would cheat, and not feel guilty one bit. So then the true answer is yes, for me!

I love how the vice cop struggled through and did a complete job of getting the bj, just so they could arrest a few strippers. He deserves an award for valor on the job while setting himself apart from all of the "other" patrons. Your city thanks you!

I do not let a dancer claim me, well except my favorite. I have told her to interupt me if I am with any other dancer, whenever she wants. And I have told the other dancers that she has permission. My fav tells me it is not right for her to do it, but she will just kinda walk over and whoever I am with knows it is time to go.

I do not smoke, so the smell of smoke is always strong to me, but my fav never smells badly of smoke, she always does a great job of hiding it. When she walks up behind me, I know it is her before she ever touches me or says a word!

No smoking in public buildings up here, so the dancer's scents are very noticeable. My favorite wears vanilla alot, amounst others. There is one dancer who's scent you can smell from 25 feet away, and it is FABULOUS. Too bad you also go home smelling like her. Did that once, now I do not get dances from her, even though she is beautiful, sexy and gives great LD's.

For me it is the one who IS the good girl, who WON'T do more then give a great LD. She keeps saying she wont do anything, ever. She is the one I want. If a dancer is willing to do whatever you ask, I don't want her. I guess it is the challenge that is the best. As imnumnutz says, the unattainable ones.

It has spread a little further than I would like. My brother in law who encouraged me to go in the first place. Now it is my brother, two sisters, nephew and manager in the office. I know, sisters?? Brother in law told her as he went with me a few times, but she never talks about it to me. My brother goes regularly with his friends. The other sister could care less...she just tells me not to fall in love with any of them, otherwise, do whatever makes me feel good, life is too short...lol. Gotta love my family. Office manager guessed it as I was always leaving the office early, he just laughs.

"Do you want us to talk you in to it or out of it?" Neither, i wanted your honest opinions. I am realitively new to the club scene. Just started back recently after almost 15 years of staying away.

I will say there are times I just go for the atmosphere. Many times going in I hear the music pumping, the smell of perfume in the air and it gets me geared for a great time. Just about everyone of my friends and family would be shocked beyond belief to find out I go to strip clubs. So the atmosphere is sometimes enough for me to have a great time.

I've only seen the brothers do this, and to be honest I used to think of it as disrespectful. I talked to many white girls and they don't even get it. I talked to a young black gal about it. She told me it is not a show of disrespect at all. I agree with what samsung said "How would you like it if you had to pick up your paycheck off the ground!?" . (I have seen a few white dancers leave some dollars on the floor because they feel is is a show of disrespect to throw it at them and not put it in their garter) The last time I seen it, it was a bigger black dancer crawling around on the floor on all fours. The guy stood at the edge of the stage and threw them all over her. She had them in her hair, on her back...she was bigger (not too fat) and they were in the rolls of her back as she moved. I would say he used 25-30 bucks. For three minutes worth of work, I would say any dancer would be fine getting 30 bucks like that....but I would never make it rain. I will tip 2-3 bucks at the stage for someone I like and $5 to let them know I want them to stop over, where I would then spend more on them up close. I guess I go to cheaper clubs, so all this is typical amounts.

I started going for the eye candy, turned into wanting "some" extras. Now I am looking for the GFE. I found the one, just trying to sway her now. She is pretty good at turning all advances down by numerous guys, but I will keep trying.

Wednesday are the best for me.

It has been cold with high winds in NE Ohio lately, but it wouldn't stop me from going to the club. The only bad thing is having cold hands to touch the girls. I will actually hit the restroom first thing and always wash up with the hottest water they have. I think the girls appreciate it...i never have cold hands. For what I wear...I like to wear dress pants. I tried jeans but found they were just no good for me. I would never think to wear shorts though, even in the summer.

Great gal at the club always has a smell. I just let her finish and move on. Thinking it was just a fluke, i got another dance from her a different day...same smell. I have told my favorite about her thinking maybe she would talk to her. If not for the smell, she would be great. Fun personality, great moves, but...

Maybe they will think you are cool and they should work with you..ha

My favorite can sell me on anything, the others need to work to get my money. I asked my favorite early on when i met her how she likes to be touched and she shut me down real fast. I guess it was too soon to be asking that. You just have to be able to seperate the ROB's from the others. I might get a dance from a ROB to try her out, but once I see what she is about I shut her down.