Many folks are a bit more discreet, not mentioning names and only alluding to extras.
I've had folks PM me about a girl mentioned in a review, but if you don't have a lot of reviews/messages, I don't respond because it could be management, another dancer, or police.
Love anal. Back in college I did it with my girlfriend for the first time (for both of us). One of the many reasons I married her!
After a 12-year "anal dry spell", a few too many drinks and we did anal twice last month. I love this woman.
(But I still love strip clubs).
Just to be clear, I certainly don't think there is anything "wrong" or "dirty" about strip clubs, and I would strongly defend my hobby to anyone, but all the same, I would prefer a co-worker, neighbor, or other friend of the family did NOT see me entering (or my car parked outside).
It's just a conversation I don't even want to get into, especially as the father of young children who often supervises playdates of other children at my house (the whole "strip club = pervert" view that some religious folks may have).
My wife knows I love strip clubs (and porn), but she doesn't know how often I visit the clubs (I believe her view is it's fine with "they guys" but weird if you go alone). Porn she is fine with and figures it makes for a happier marriage.
I strongly believe this makes for a better marriage, for the reasons others have cited above. I get the excited of being up close with other naked women, with none of the marriage-destroying risks that come with real relationships. It's just fantasy. I also make sure not to cross a line (much tougher in the more liberal clubs with extras).
Nice curves. You look like a real woman and I'm attracted to real women, not some "male juvenile fantasy".
As I used to tell my friends, thank goodness we're not all attracted to the same type of girl, different strokes for different folks.
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