Too possessive?
gk
Florida
Thursday, January 7, 2010 5:05 PM
Have you run into possessive dancers? I have and I don't like it. I'm not talking about ATFs, which are on another level, but a fav who you've spent multiple lapdances/private dances/maybe even a few OTC encounters with who makes a claim on you in the club in a manner designed to scare off other dancers.
This has been happening to me lately, a fav who wants to be a ATF but isn't is getting obnoxious about my interest in variety. But variety is one of the reasone why we do this, right?
Well, the other day I stop in at one of my regular clubs and Miss Obnoxious comes right over to stake her claim even though she's got unfinished business to attend to. Ordinarily I wouldn't care and would welcome it. But today she needs to learn about independence. So I start talking to other dancers to purposely let her know that I do business with whoever I want to. W
I invite another dancer who I want to get to know over for a drink to steam things up some more while Miss O is on the stage dancing. She gives me and the other dancer (who she's been bad-mouthing for some time) some wicked stares. I lean over to the dancer I'm sitting with and tell her that I'm getting a kick out of seeing her (MissO) get mad.
Sometimes dancers take too much for granted. I think exclusivity is a high summitt that only a few dancers can reach.
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