The "Married?" Question
mgkreb
Tennessee
Many dancers will invest a little conversation time prior to the "wanna dance" question. Almost invariably, most will ask, "Are you married?" Opinions please:
a) Is there an underlying reason they want to know, or is it just something to talk about?
b) Does it really make any difference to them one way or the other?
c) Is there a "stripclub-correct" answer, regardless of your actual marital status?
a) Is there an underlying reason they want to know, or is it just something to talk about?
b) Does it really make any difference to them one way or the other?
c) Is there a "stripclub-correct" answer, regardless of your actual marital status?
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b)it makes no difference.
c) that is up to the individual. They always get the truth from me. DIVORCED.
I agree with consensus, with some caveats:
a) Just conversation. (Plus, dancers have told me I "look married" whatever that means)
b) Really doesn't matter, especially if just a one off visit. (However, a Fav once told me that she prefers older married guys as regulars - less drama, no interest in trying to date her, etc. If it happens on a repeat visit, she might be trying to see if you fit her target demographic, and if she should invest more time to cultivate you as a regular).
c) I usually just hold up my hand and show them my wedding ring. (A few years ago on our anniversary my wife picked out new wedding rings, which are very distinctive. Once when I did the ring thing, a young dancer went all gaga over it, insisted on showing it to all her dancer friends in the club, and then the whole time she sat with me kept rubbing the ring with her finger. That was weird.)
2 Probably not, but you never know if some have a different view of marrieds versus singles.
3 Strip club correct answer is say whatever you want, the truth is probably better.
A) I've heard from a few dancers that singles tend to want more for less, while marrieds are more likely to not complain about reasonable prices. A group of circa five does not a statistical universe make, though.
B) In the long run, apparently not, according to those I've asked. Except for their strategy in how they then make the most money off the guy. :)
C) As I said, I always answer honestly. I don't see any reason to lie about it, and I've never had any any reason to suspect that a dancer failed to offer me a dance, or anything else, because of my answer.
B. No real difference for most of them.
C. I don't think there is a "strip-club-correct" answer, and I always tell the truth (single).
b. They could care less (contrasted with some bitch in a bar) - their concern is getting your money. Its all about the money for them (and maybe some strange dick along with otc money) and of course they don't want any drama or somebody fixed on interfering with their private life.
c. There is no correct SC answer. Married if otc then motel. Single if otc they may come to your place. I just tell them the truth - "I come to SC for stress relief, relaxation, entertainment." Sometimes I may mention wife just wants business relationship. Their focus is money and possibly tapping you as a good atm regular. I spent a whole summer spinning my wheels on the bar scene (flaky gals, ugly bitches, too many men) and when I started going to SC's it was a totally refreshing ballgame. They were coming after me instead.....or essentially my wallet LOL. SC's beat the hell outta the bar scene or even worse trying to mess with some slut at work.
If you wear a wedding ring, that question will no doubt come up more often.
They might figure a single guy doesn't have to explain where he's spending his money. Maybe he's a potential regular.
I cannot remember being asked the question in months. I am sure the ring on my finger tells it all.
Her: "You married?"
Me: "No"
Her: "Why not? A cute guy like you?"
Me: "Haven't found a stripper who'd want to marry me yet"
It makes for a good icebreaker.