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Ahem, that would be forum, not form in the previous comment, But perhaps form is a big part of this hobby in another context. i just appreciate all the variations, unlike some who are so obsesssd on one physical characteristic that they can't appreciate the many differeent variatins of women. Did I mention that I'm an ass man from way back Wait a minute...

Good point Farmerart. I have not been participating in this hobby or in TUSCL much lately either because my other life activities and obligations have been pressing me for time. But eventually weariness and the need to escape brings one back to TUSCL. Where else can we find the erudite and and idiotic in the same form with a common interest? Ironic isn't it that this frivolity is real work for the dancers, although not in the real world.

Sometimes clubbing is best when it's your secret. You tried to share your secret habit with your girlfriend and it blew up in your face. The facts as you present them here suggest two things: 1) that you don't realy know her that well and 2) that perhaps you lack the capacity, maybe even maturity, to respond to the situation you created. So ask yourself if you are really ready for a longterm relationship. If you are then deal with the fact that this woman, if you want her in your life, is not into the SC habit that you are into. That's OK, if you can just deal with it and be good to her in a relationship and keep your clubbing on the side. If you can't deal with both separatley, then maybe you need to ask yourself if this is the woman for you--or if you are the man for her. Clubbing isn't bad, obvviously very rfew here are going to argue too much with you about that. But its a big world and not everyone agrees with that perspective on strip clubs. So your big questio is--can you live/love a woman that disagrees with that? ...and still feed your habit while respecting her? Clubbing is a fun night out for boys, but only men can deal with it in the longterm real world context. This is one of those "know yourself" moments but also a "know her too" moment. You have to deal with both moving forward.

I'm an ass man from way back. Doesn't mean I dont like the other end, that's always best. But there's nothing sexier that a cute ass pjmn a sexy woman, and there's a lot of latitude on what makes a cute ass. And once you get caught up on whats cute and turns you on, you never know.

IME the part-timers are less fun to be with. They have less invested in them by customers they don't see that often, so there is lower incentive to match what full-timers do. There are exceptions to everything, I suppose, which would acconnt for the reports that counter this(any I may have some of them myself!).