Comments by bumrubber (page 2)

I don't think there's a pattern. The one I'm involved with has been doing it a long time, knows where/when she can make money without too much hassle, and just does that. These days it's 1-2 weekends a month. She's good enough that her clubs are glad to have her whenever she chooses to work. She has two other regular jobs, plus some odd gigs. Her dancer pals are pretty much the same.

At that Myrtle Beach club next to Derriere's, a crazy drunk chick was all over me from the stage, putting her tits in my face, throwing her legs over my shoulders (Idiot DJ yelling, "The pussy, the pussy!"), then finally jumping into my lap and giving me a lapdance. All for like two bucks. She glommed onto me for a couple of hours. I had more action on the main floor for free than in the back for a stack of benjamins. I'm not sure what her deal was, besides being drunk and crazy. Maybe she really was horny, and liked me a little.

My GF is a dancer, and my only SC activity these days is with her. She buys me dances to tease me, but if things went too far she would be upset. There are dancers she has asked me not to interact with at the clubs we go to and in the group she works with and stays with in Las Vegas. Even the "nice" ones might try to get her man, just to entertain themselves. She's quite conventional in her love life and would be very hurt if I cheated on her. Strangely, some women seem to like the idea of a man of huge sexual appetite and experience, but despite that chooses THEM. Makes them feel extra hot I guess.

My GF buys me dances to warm me up for later. It's kind of weird but definitely good.

Spent $500 going out New Year's Eve with my girlfriend, and by the time we came home she was too drunk to do anything else.

I had a rather drunk girl sit with me half the night on the main floor, giving me more action for the price of a couple of drinks than I probably would have gotten in the LD area. I wound up with an extended lapdance, grope and makeout session for like twelve bucks.

3 in Myrtle Beach. Derriere's, the one almost next door to it and the other one just on the other side of 17, whatever they're called now.

On the balcony at her condo in Myrtle Beach, overlooking the ocean while the sun was rising. It's up high enough that probably no one would see unless they knew where to look. I met this girl from a lapdance but later got to know her at the gym and dated her awhile. So I don't know if it counts.

I've spent a lot of time in Vancouver. Strip clubs are tame because prostitution is legal and people can get sex elsewhere. As noted above, there are online forums for that. Bars and nightclubs there are crawling with pros too, like they are in Vegas. I've been hit on (ie, hit up) almost every night out.

Not "dancers" but 2 different girlfriends who were amazing happened to be very good dancers.

I like the artsy girls and the personas and looks and costumes they come up with, so I compliment that. Most guys just tell them they're hot, but they'd rather hear about originality and cleverness. Tell 'em you like their look, and why, "You're so space-age Barbarella," or something like that.

In Vancouver BC I overheard a transaction between a really hot twentysomething waitress and two guys in their 40s who offered her $5k to spend that night on a boat and do both of them.

Mostly making conversation. Maybe feeling out your overall situation, not any particular thing, which may be different for different girls.

Don't trust 'em, resent paying for it, & won't do it.

I don't like being out of control, especially in a SC where I feel I need to keep my wits about me. I'll have a couple of drinks - 2 - with the girls or with friends, but that's it.

@motorhead: I've heard that the woman formerly known as Amber Lynn is a stripper in the North Hollywood area, and that she still looks great.

I've seen several patrons so drunk they peed all over themselves, including one of two college age girls who came in with a bunch of guys then passed out. Everyone just left them there.

I've always gone a few times a year, except when I've have a girlfriend and didn't go at all for 2-5 years. Exception to that is with the current girlfriend, who is a stripper. So I go at the normal rate, once every couple of months.

Shadowcat, I got the same story from a gal in Myrtle Beach, who said she was visiting from Columbia PP (same owner as the MB club). When I got the story, it wasn't her first night, but it WAS Iraq.

One strike is enough for me. If you have a bad experience, what makes you think it will be better next time?

rickdugan, I think you're giving them too much credit. People who run these places are often real dumbfucks, with an attitude problem on top of that.

Current GF is early 30s, I'm late 40s, 13 years older. Had a fling with a mid-20s dancer 3 years ago - 19-20 years younger. In general, girls younger than that don't interest me.

I don't seek sex from strippers at the club but I seem to wind up with them on the outside. I'll go along with C and D. But also, the smarter ones can make small talk forever and deal with awkwardness, so they're easy to get a along with on dates, at least before the craziness takes over. They can also separate sex and love, and are down for a good time on a date and/or a good fuck with no commitment. Basically, crazy party girls. I find them through other venues but surprise, a lot of them happen to be strippers.

Most of the clubs I go to seem to have safe parking, but I never leave anything visible inside my car anyway. I drive an "economy car" as well as an older, but still modern looking, Mercedes S-Class. The Mercedes is actually worth less. When I drive the Mercedes I get a much warmer welcome. I'm sure the doormen pass the word about who/what just drove up.

I'd have to say that my ex-gf gave me the best lapdances, as foreplay. She liked to ride my dick without actually fucking, getting herself off and usually me too. I got a clothes-on dance almost that good once, from a girl in a SoCal club -- not the hottest by most people's standards, but cute in an art school chick kind of way. And damn, did she know how to move. Great personality too, a lighthearted GFE experience. Whomever gets to fuck her every night is a lucky man.