What was your best dance

For some reason, "A Lap Dance Is So Much Better When The Stripper Is Crying" keeps playing over and over in my head.

The best dances I've ever had were when the dancer enjoyed herself as much as I did. No matter how far it went or didn't, extras or not, the more she enjoyed it the more I did.

That's a secret. If I told you what really turned me on, you might try to take advantage of me and clean my wallet out.

Although there have been a few exceptions, overall, the best LD's were at St. James.

I like slow and sensual, nipple sucking while she caresses my neck and head while she purrs in my ear. Leading to kitty play and DATY.

The best dances I've had all started with the girl getting down on her knees.

I'm in the slow and sensual camp. And there's gotta be mutual intimate touching involved.

lillybilly - do you have a cheerleader outfit?

Bed dances at wildside caberet rocked! Too bad a jealous boyfriend burnt the place down!

Had a great lap dance years ago when the girl had on a long sequined gown and elbow-length gloves. She didn't take much off, just sat in your lap and did the best impression of a girl who wanted to fuck you and devour you.

Another time the girl did some slow grinding, nibbling through the pants, allowed lots of nipple sucking and fingering, did some kissing on my neck and ears, lots of stick shifting, even snuck her hand into my pants. She liked to position my dick so the head was barely peeking above the waistband and she covered it up with my shirt tail. Then she could sneak some quick licks and sucks. Drove me nuts.

For me it's all about the tease and anticipation. I can get a quick emotionless fuck at home any time I want. It's the buildup and the thought of what's coming next that I like. Best dance I've had, I have the girl a hundred bucks and told her to let me know when it was used up...45 minutes later I walked out of the LD area a very happy man who'd been kept on the edge of ecstasy the entire time!

Best was probably when the dancer decided mid-dance to "go too far," and we went way too far. The kissing was so intense it seemed like she wanted to consume me. And the rest was something for which neither of us were prepared. We made a bit of a mess...

A latina dancer at Follies one time rubbed herself all over me, purred in my ear and whispered in my ear. Still get warm fuzzies thinking about that dance.

I'd have to say that my ex-gf gave me the best lapdances, as foreplay. She liked to ride my dick without actually fucking, getting herself off and usually me too.

I got a clothes-on dance almost that good once, from a girl in a SoCal club -- not the hottest by most people's standards, but cute in an art school chick kind of way. And damn, did she know how to move. Great personality too, a lighthearted GFE experience. Whomever gets to fuck her every night is a lucky man.

Anytime a load is left inside or all over a stripper

of course I recommend condom use for fucking, no condom for sucking see the condom topic

Haven't had it, as of now!

We were all alone in VIP, I had on gym shorts; commando, pulled aside. She took her bottoms off, and we proceeded to do a lap dance that got her so wet we made that squishy, squishy sound as she shoved her pussy against me harder and harder. Lots of DFK, titty and ass grabbing, until she collapsed in a moaning heap on my lap as I reached a body wrenching climax.

Then we stood up, I paid her $60, she asked me if I would buy her a drink and I said no and we both headed off to the restrooms to clean up. We did just about the same routine every week for about six months.

I never fucked her, and never bought her a drink either.

The best lap dance I ever had started with the dancer unbuttoning my shirt and grinding me practically non stop through 5 songs. There was lots of nibbling, and licking. In the second song she pulled down my pants and ground on my underwear. I don't know how I lasted through the next 4 songs.

My suggestion to any dancer - make it personal. Eye contact, watch what he enjoys and do more of that, enthusiastic kissing (if you're up for that), but most of all you have to enjoy what you're doing. Yeah, lots of the guys here want extras but I've had great lapdances with very little touching because the dancer seemed to really enjoy it and I've had horrible extras because there was no passion, no affection and she madenot clear she was just trying to rush.

I agree with mutton - build up the fantasy -- I've had dances where there has been decent grinding, but the girl was just going through the motions. No passion, no eye contact and didn't look like she cared, therefore I didn't care to give them a lot of my money. But the dancers who make you feel like you are the only one in the room, there is a lot of touching involved and at least look like they are enjoying themselves didn't necessarily have to be the best stick shifter (although that is always a plus).

i've had some extremely enjoyable dances, but like clubber says i haven't had the best dance yet.