Why do strippers ask about your wife and kids?

They are concerned for the welfare of your family. They do not want you to spend all of your money on them.

OR, more likely, They know that a devoted family man is not going to spend all his money on them.

I never ask about someone's family. It's absolutely a taboo topic. Now if they bring it up and want to talk, I'm all ears.

It's making conversation. They have to talk about something.

Could mean that they dont want to deal with any drama that may come up. Could also mean that they may limit their talents on you. Could mean they think you have a stack load of money for supporting your family. Could also mean they are just curious. So many reasons and you will likely not know for sure if its a legitimate question on their side or a hustle tactic.

It's call "small talk". Lie, they're probably not listening anyway. Or tell the truth, they probably don't care.

They assume most guys are married. I am proud to not be in that category anymore.

I think it means they are wondering why a married man might come to a strip club when he has a wife at home. In other words, I think they are planning ahead, trying to learn what NOT to do one day as a wife. How to keep your man at home. Now another option might be, maybe they like you and figure if you're at a club maybe your marriage is going downhill and you might become available. Third option- most have a kid or two themselves. All women love kids, right? So maybe its just a conversation starter about a topic they like.
Last option- who the hell knows???

Its the first thang they do.......or was that the last thang they do.......oooo well look its what happens before they fuck you : ))

Its the first thang they do.......or was that the last thang they do.......oooo well look its what happens before they fuck you : ))

Beats me. I've never been married so it's a dead subject if they bring it up.

They have ball and chain envy

Mostly making conversation. Maybe feeling out your overall situation, not any particular thing, which may be different for different girls.

what gmd said.
Is it a smart topic to bring up to customers who most likely are uncomfortable talking about that stuff? Probably not. If you don't like the topic, change it to something you would like to talk about.

Trying to determine how your responsibilites effect your recreational dollar.

LOL gatorfan... "ball and chain envy" is quite likely

OR,

wife + kids = you ain't geting any at home = potential ATM!

It is the same for me as it is with Vince.

They freak when Itell them, "Never married, no kids."

They are making conversation and probably trying to verify your not some pimp or x con. It does not bother me to talk to them about my being married to them. I dont remove my ring when I go into SC. Strippers are very understanding about married men wanting to see naked young hot girls or get variety. Keep it need to know as they are probably just probing to see how much money you can spend. Rarely do they get into why I would come to strip club or cheat on wife. If they quiz you on this just mention "My wife wants a business relationship due to female surgery and menopause issues."

Dudester knows why they freak out because they know it will take them double as long to lie, thieve and whore his money out of him. Are married customers looser with their cash than single ones. topic y/n?

there are many reasons why strippers ask about a wife & kids

@Stiletto25 - Interesting that you say it's a taboo subject among dancers. That's been exactly my impression! In twenty years of club-going, I think only one dancer actually ever asked me if I was married. (I was at the time. I don't remember now, how I answered her question.) Since then I've had the impression that it was a taboo subject among dancers! For one thing, when I'm in a strip club (when I was married), I didn't want to talk about my wife with other dancers, anyway. Perhaps most dancers sense that and don't bring up the subject themselves.

"They freak when I tell them, Never married, no kids."

Freak how? I've never had any Dancer "Freak" when I've told them that I've never been married & have no children.

Pretty early in my SC career, I had a hot girl on the way to the couch room out of the blue say "You must love your wife very much." I was wearing my ring, but we had not discussed it. She did not say it in a snide way, but I that was the only way I knew to iterpret it. I said, quite truthfully "Thank you, yes I do." I am sure she was as perplexed as I was. It did not seem to affect the quality of the dance.