Prurient Curiosity

My GF knows about my addiction ur I mean hobby. She isn't entirely thrilled about it but she tolerates it as long as I don't lie about it. Which is hard considering she thinks I only need to go to the SC every so often and I think I need to go as often as I can. My GF wouldn't be down with outside FS but she can handle the fantasy factor I guess. With that being said I am counting down the days until my next big city visit!

I'm not in this situation but I had a co-worker whose wife was quite supportive of him banging strippers or even other women (civies) as long as he was open about it. He did take up the opportunity provided a number of times.

I'm VERY curious about what is REALLY going on in the TRUE thoughts of the wives, girlfriends, & female significant others of the men who go to Strip Clubs regularly or semi-regularly. I have an opinion about it that I'll keep to myself for the moment.

GMD, is a "wide" another name for a "broad'? :-)

I am single but have a very close relationship with a female who is married. Ours is a non sexual friendship, but she wants to know every detail about my strip club activity. Especially all the details about the extras in the VIP rooms. I enjoy telling her about it almost as much as she does hearing about my adventures.

Only in my dreams, gmd....only in my dreams.

"I am single but have a very close relationship with a female who is married. Ours is a non sexual friendship, but she wants to know every detail about my strip club activity. Especially all the details about the extras in the VIP rooms. I enjoy telling her about it almost as much as she does hearing about my adventures"

Good for you. It is quite NICE to have a relationship like that with the opposite Sex.

They know we have cocks enough said

Single and plans are to stay that way. I've been in a cynical mood lately, so I can only imagine that SOs that tolerate extra-relationship activities (beyond just looking) are amasing amunition for later use against you.

" I can only imagine that SOs that tolerate extra-relationship activities (beyond just looking) are amasing amunition for later use against you"

That's 1 of the reasons why being single is BEST if you want to FUCK any willing Pussy whenever the small Brain below your waist dictates it is time for wet warmth!

What mjx01 said. He sums up my perspective perfectly.

My GF is a dancer, and my only SC activity these days is with her. She buys me dances to tease me, but if things went too far she would be upset.

There are dancers she has asked me not to interact with at the clubs we go to and in the group she works with and stays with in Las Vegas. Even the "nice" ones might try to get her man, just to entertain themselves.

She's quite conventional in her love life and would be very hurt if I cheated on her.

Strangely, some women seem to like the idea of a man of huge sexual appetite and experience, but despite that chooses THEM. Makes them feel extra hot I guess.

"She buys me dances to tease me, but if things went too far she would be upset"

"She's quite conventional in her love life and would be very hurt if I cheated on her"

"Strangely, some women seem to like the idea of a man of huge sexual appetite and experience, but despite that chooses THEM. Makes them feel extra hot I guess"

Hmm...

As you know, I have a wife who is death on SCs, porn, chat rooms, dating sites, etc. So what little activity I do must be so covert that the CIA has asked me for pointers. So I am the polar opposite of gmd. What is odd, though, is that she assumes that every guy that goes into a SC will get a happy ending and has built her attitude accordingly. For years I have tried to assure her that that is not the case in SCs. And I have never gotten ITC or OTC action. But if she only knew about the shit you guys throw around here, she would feel completely justified in her extreme puritan stance. So while I have been trying to convince her that there is nothing going on at SCs, you guys have been reinforcing her fears. I can't win for losing, lol.

I remember one dancer who I slept with the previous weekend was definitely not ok with me spending a lot of time with another dancer even accusing me of sleeping with the other dancer quite angrily in the club when I was there. Threw me by surprise because I wasn't expecting any of that drama. I told her I wasn't sleeping with the other dancer. I didn't understand why she was so upset to start with, I didn't consider her to be my girlfriend just because I slept with her. I usually thing guys are better off the less girls know. They throw everything out of context and make accusations over nothing. Even a Dear Abby column article I read today had a wife who claimed her husband was communicating online with other females and his wife thought that was terrible. I was thinking give me a break. He is talking to other people online. It's not like he's fucking her and getting attached. I guess females see things different. I did read somewhere some females were more concerned with their guy getting attached to somebody else rather than if they fucked but it didn't mean anything. However some girls are all upset if you even look at another girl. I won't put up with any of that crap.

Being single is best......I'm devorsed tho : ) so I would say that ! But I just can't stop fucking civis tho ! But I'm a peace of shit 2 so

Hmm. My girl has no problems with strip clubs, porn, etc. IN THEORY ONLY.

Any time I have told her about any of the above, she has a minor freak-out. Thus, I don't tell any more. I don't do any extras in clubs, so I figure I am following the spirit of her opinions on the matter. I do wish I could be honest about it, but I tried, and it won't change any time soon.