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  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Strip Club Shootings?
    Shootings in/near strip clubs are not infrequent. At one club I go to in Philly there was an attempted murder/suicide in the lap dance room which if I recall only the suicide was successful (the dancer was critically injured). At another Philly club I go to I've heard of at least one shooting years ago in the club (they have a metal detector now). There have been shootings nearby, if not in the club parking lot. Heck my understanding is that there have been two shooting deaths in the parking lot of Spearmint Rhino in Vegas in the last 2-3 years. One of the most popular clubs in the country, Club of the Year 3 years ago. None of these clubs would be considered to be in bad neighborhoods, marginal maybe. I just do my thing.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Halloween parties
    "And this year Halloween is on Saturday. Could make for some great blowout parties for a change." Don't know what clubs you frequent? In my experience the chances are slim to none. In my dreams maybe...
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    15 years ago
    potheadpl
    Florida
    Went to Mons Venus last night
    Mon's is a no nonsense, down to business, wham bam thank you mam place. Wanna dance? Little to no small talk. Hot naked girls. Elbow to elbow, leg to leg. Guys spectating. If you're bashful you're not going to enjoy. Like the place, Nice change of pace. Have had many fun times here. Met a fave here, she's migrated to Vegas, and we still see each other 10 years later.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Halloween parties
    Dancers wear costumes every day. I've found they are typically not happy when the club mandates they wear a "Halloween" costume for a club party. I've encountered exceptions but it seems to be the general rule.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Best Show Bar award at the Vegas Gentlemens Club Convention
    "Feature Club" of the year was Red Parrot in El Paso, TX. That seems the closest fit to "Best Show Bar". I don't see Kahoots nominated. What you may be referring to is Club of the Year, Mideast. Kahoots was nominated for that. Winner for that region was Penthouse Club in East St. Louis. Don't know if the link will work but the info is on the Erotic Dancer website: http://www.edpublications.net/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=224:the-winners-are&catid=33:expo-2009-updates&Itemid=431
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    potheadpl
    Florida
    How often do you tip the bathroom attendant?
    I tip $1. I wouldn't want the job. Will take a mint or two. Will sometimes chat with the guy. On my recent Vegas trip I thought I recognized the men's room attendant at Treasures. Sure enough I knew him from OG, like 10 years ago. Nice guy.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    shadowcat
    Atlanta suburb
    Ever get a free(?) lap dance?
    At one of my clubs they often offer "free" dances during the 7 pm "Showcase". Dance is at your seat or bar stool and somewhat shortened. When I get them I'll tip $5. Often I'm with a fave and waive the "free" dance. When a fave inconveniences me (quite late or a no show) they will sometimes give me a freebie or two next time we catch up. A girl that I have a flat fee for an hour arrangement with will sometimes give me an extra dance or two "on her".
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    15 years ago
    shadowcat
    Atlanta suburb
    Rent a room for an hour?
    A significant portion of their business comes from affairs.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    londonguy
    Breathe, breathe in the air
    Girls that 'hunt' in pairs
    As others have said I really dislike the stealth attack. A girl stops by and you're hitting it off. Unknown to you she has a partner observing from a distance. Partner then walks up to you two and acts like she hasn't seen first girl all night. "How you doing?, Who's your friend?...". Then the doubles pitch begins. Unfortunately I fell for this a couple of times. It was later that I observed the repeatable pattern. Generally first girl is the more outgoing or prettier of the two.
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    15 years ago
    DandyDan
    North Iowa
    Unplanned encounters with the dancers outside the club
    Left a club one time and stopped into a Baja Fresh about a mile away. Placed my order and one of the girls from the club walked in and got in line. As SC says I believe the best approach is to let the girl make the first move. The girl spotted me and we chatted. She was by no means one of the hotter girls in the club but somehow she looked better in civilian clothes. Her order was for takeout, quite a bit of food, I think she had a family. Saw another girl one day in the same general area at a Walgreens or CVS or something. I don't think she spotted me.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    How long?
    Average is 2-3 hours as I'm typically meeting up with one or more faves. If I don't know anyone at a club it's liable to be more like an hour. Record is probably 5 hours or so. As others have said with the right girl(s) time really does fly by.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Any clubbing is good clubbing?
    I like variety. I go to extras clubs but more frequently to non-extras clubs. In any event I do prefer some hot laps but have had good times at clubs without laps or no opportunity to get one with a girl of my liking. As long as there's good eye candy, friendly girls and staff, and decent drinks I can enjoy myself.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Approaching a dancer when she is sitting at another table
    Another option if you know another dancer in the club is to ask her to check with your target dancer. She can have what appears to be a quick "girl talk" converation with the target, then report back to you the scoop on whether the target can break free or will be tied up for awhile. This has worked well for me in the past. Even if the response is it's going to be quite awhile it's good to know that so I can move onto greener pastures.
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    15 years ago
    shadowcat
    Atlanta suburb
    Discussing TUSCL with strippers
    Agree that few have a computer or actively use it if they have one. If I'm at a new club and girl asks me "what brings you here" I may mention I saw some good reviews on the internet. If she seems to have knowledge of the review sites, which seldom happens, I then may get into a discussion of the difference between TUSCL and SCL. If girls are aware of any site they are aware of SCL due to the free access. Girls aren't going to pay for a membership and few will write a review so TUSCL is not of much use to them. For us, an entirely different matter.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Vegas - where to go?
    I meant to add the girls will complain about how slow it is, so few customers. If management really wanted more bodies specials such as reduced admission and drink specials would bring them in. But you don't see it.
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    15 years ago
    Vegas - where to go?
    What's interesting about Vegas clubs is there are rarely any significant specials or deals in my experience. Maybe 3-6 pm happy hour but who wants to go then? I'm a long time OG customer, will probably be there Monday. I also will get to Treasures once or twice as I have friends who work at both places. In the past I've been to Rhino and Cheetahs. Many years ago to Palomino. Not a lot of specials other than for football games is my experience.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    jt001
    Georgia
    Spearmint Rhino Vegas - best time to go
    They have shifts there, 9-3 and so on. I'd personally suggest 9 pm or so, you'll catch the hotties early in their shift and it won't be as crowded so the selection will be the best. You'll also have a chance to get a seat. I used to visit a friend there around 10, still not too bad. Crowd picks up around 11 in my experience. I've never been there much past 12 pm, I'm not big on crowds.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Under 21 Dancers
    There's been a few notable exceptions but for the most part I prefer 21 or over. Tend to lean to late 20s early 30s for the experience and ability to have a conversation. I also like the option of having the girl drink with me. The faves I've had under 21, some as young as 18, have generally come across as mature for their age and their age didn't come up initially. After we hit it off on a few visits they'll say BTW I'm only X years old, when I can get away with it I cut off the wristband before I leave the dressing room. Or a girl that I've unknowingly been buying drinks all along all of a sudden on one trip will have the wrist band. She then confesses that she got "busted".
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    15 years ago
    Dancer changing her look
    I have/had a fave massage girl at a club I go to. Gorgeous brunette with smoking body. Egyptian background, dark features, wore darker makeup. Didn't see her for about a year. This blond comes up to me one night and gives me a hug. Huh? Finally I piece together that it's the former fave massage girl. Light blond hair, light makeup, looks All-American. White-washed her ethnicity, a real disappointment. And to top it off she now has these ugly ass tattos on her formerly attractive boobies. Ugh. What the hell was she thinking?
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Sugar Pie Honey Bunch
    Sweetie, baby, babe, daddy, and papi are probably the most frequent. One girl used to refer to me as bubbie.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    Dancer counting her money
    It's interesting, as much time as I spend with girls in clubs I don't recall girls counting their money in front of me. Or maybe I've been focused on other things. When girls have just come off stage they will sometimes flatten out and stack the crumpled up bills then stash them in their purse. But I don't notice them counting. At some smaller clubs the barmaid may come by and ask the girl if she's got singles to trade in. Then she may reach in and count out $20 or $40 worth. But as far as a dancer pulling out of wad of $20's etc and doing a count, don't recall that.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    The NFL Test
    Some clubs I know get the NFL Ticket. It can be a good option for us transplants who want to watch our team's game when not televised in our market. Generally not as crowded as a regular sports bar. Daytime girls, more motivated and often less bouncers. Have had some good times. Girls get the priority but if there's a lull I check out my game. If a girl stops by that I have no interest in it gives me a good excuse - "sorry, watching my game it's real important".
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    The NFL Test
    Continue checking out the stage. If the game is that important to me, I'm someplace other than a strip club.
  • discussion comment
    15 years ago
    minnow
    Any place that interests me.
    ITC Habits/Preferences
    Similar. I go to a given club to get dances from 1-2 faves. Most times I get dances from at least one other girl. I like variety and the way these girls come and go it's always good to be developing the "pipeline". I'd say 4 dancers is probably about the max in a given visit.
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    15 years ago
    judyjudy
    Michigan
    Competition between Dancers
    Stripclubspy, you think about it much more than I do. If I piss a girl off by getting dances from another, so be it. Plenty 'o fish in the sea.