ZoePi

Good responses guys. I guess I should clarify some of my assumed times - lol. What may have been 20 minutes felt like 2 hours. Unfortunately in where I live we only have 5 clubs spread all over the city. So sometimes making the commute to another club isn't worth it just for some titties - lol. But I do understand how it can be annoying to be interrupted whilst you are with someone. It really disrupts flow of your time/experience with the girl.

I had an ATF which kinda fit that. She could sell the fantasy but once the time was up her mood quickly changed to the next dance. She had a lot of body peircings and tatoos which is a turn off for me. But she was nasty and dirty when it came time for LD. But ultimately she was looking for a sugar daddy and became crazy possesive and I had to cut her loose.

One that killed my experience with one of my ATF's. When I was visiting with her she seemed bored and uninterested in visiting and chatting for a bit (looking off in the distant, checking her phone (texting), etc.) and immediatly demanded I go for a VIP dance. Afterwards, she began suggesting that I take her shopping, to buy her stuff, and to give her money to play the stage game with the girl on stage. It ruined everything by being treated like an ATM. Needless to say another one of my ATF's was working as well and I spent time with her which really pissed off the other one.

I would have to agree with both posters.&nbsp; I have recently met a dancer and have become completely enamoured by her.&nbsp; It did and does cost a lot of money to keep the relationship going.&nbsp; Most of the money was spent in the club to keep her from getting in trouble with the management while maximizing our time together to hang out and chatting.&nbsp; <br /> <br /> Although the topic of money is a sentive issue, it is a driving factor in the relationship considering the hundreds and thousands of dollars one can spend in a night.&nbsp; So regular trips to just hang out can get costly and rediculous&nbsp;just to get to know her better.<br /> <br /> It is difficult to discuss the issue of money without making yourself or her feel cheap or whorish if you are sincerely interested in the girl.&nbsp; However you must respect her job and the rules of the club if you wish to hang out and visit her in the club.&nbsp; In addition, be prepared to spend the money to support her job while visiting her at the club.<br /> <br /> The difficulty is again money.&nbsp; She is used to guys spending money on her for her time.&nbsp; How do you compete with that or do you?&nbsp; How much are you expected to spend on her and does she expect you to?&nbsp; Does she get upset if you can't afford to visit her?&nbsp; How do you know if she likes you/likes hanging out with you or is she just hustling you?<br /> <br /> <br /> <br />