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7 years ago
I went 2 times a week from August through December. Spent about $6000. I think I learned enough about mediocre "clubbing" locally. In 2018 I will shake it up a bit... Try some AMPs, escorts, maybe SeekingArrangement, perhaps drive out of town to a true "extras" club. If I can only afford local clubs once a week, that's OK.
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7 years ago
I have met dancers in N.C. under 21. They can work, but not drink. Probably many clubs just do not want to handle the risk of young dancers placing the club's liquor license in jeopardy.
I did meet a 20ish dancer once in a local dive that admitted she started before she was 18. It still happens but I presume is more likely when the stripper is recruited to the club by a friend.
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7 years ago
She knows where Gawker lives and will probably take Uber there even if he ignores her calls. This ain't over.
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7 years ago
I have seen enough times, a hot stripper head straight over to an older, dumpy looking guy. I figure the decision is 80/20. 80% is about making money, 20% is everything else (customer is nice looking, polite, good conversation, etc.) All these other factors can differentiate you from other middling PLs. But money is the ultimate trump card.
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7 years ago
The money doled out each night is certainly not evenly distributed. I am sure that on weeknights, a large portion of dancers in my area earn little... Maybe net zero to a hundred bucks. General rule, strippers who stick with it for several months are making money and it's all worthwhile. Think about the typical turnover you see at your favorite club... If the money was really that great, more of them would rough it out and stick to it.
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7 years ago
Stupid spell check. "gab with me"
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7 years ago
Stage shows can be boring for dancers early in the evening, when few guys are there. I have had dancers simply lie in front of me for 2 songs, wiggle their butts just "for the appearance sake of performing" and simply grab with me until they can leave.
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7 years ago
No age preference. Sometimes very young ones are rule-breakers in the club. Sometimes older ones really know what they are doing. I could dance with a 50 year old if she is well maintained. But lose interest quickly in pudgy-bellied strippers, and you see more of that after they have children.
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7 years ago
North Carolina is a major pickle producing state. You can get them as battered chips or spears at most barbecue places. They can be somewhat seasonal though... Not always on the menu in strip clubs.
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7 years ago
Confirms my recollection.... TUSCL has been around a good long while. Z-bone once said on his website in the mid 1990s that he would never be on TUSCL and that anybody on here claiming to be him is fake.
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7 years ago
Really boring Monday... I gave a local club a chance, they had about 5 dancers - two of them monopolized by a regular, and one who would not take the hint from my body language and short answers, that I preferred to be left alone. Bought only two drinks, tipped the persistent dancer $10 since she did give me a back rub and wasted an hour trying to talk me up.
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7 years ago
Well presumably she did not charge him for an incomplete dance, but generally that was not cool. There is enough time in a night to finish a song.
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7 years ago
I remember a feature dancer brought some kind of archway that sprayed her during a performance. I asked myself why this should be any big deal... Couldn't I go see wet girls in bikinis at the beach?
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7 years ago
I make a wry smile and say "I think I had an *accident*" and see if she grins too!
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7 years ago
First - Get a few years under your belt managing a normal bar that books live music... Learn to deal with all the craziness and unpredictability that comes with crowds and alcohol.
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7 years ago
Clubs in N.C. are tame but not as strict as TN and VA. The VIP room is usually a collection of sofas with a song counter or the DJ watching. Even a champagne "room" is generally a curtained area, not a walled room with a door..
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I did go to a SC on the 23rd... dancer and PL turnout was middling for the club. Spent about $200 in drinks and dancers on a girl. It uh, seemed as if she liked me. :-}
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7 years ago
Yeah, I had one text me yesterday to come to her club... I told her I probably won't be in the club much longer, getting tired of it and want to try out some new ones.
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7 years ago
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joc13firmly on the Atlanta United bandwagon!
I may try this too, I have several varieties that I usually sample at home. I think lap dancing would go best with a smoke that is not too cerebral and floaty-headed. You want some "body stone" but not too much of that either, it could make for a lethargic couch-locking experience.
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7 years ago
Saw my first one at a relatively upscale club a few weeks ago. Just a few guys throwing punches, no bottles over heads. But yeah suddenly everyone in the room was "paying attention to something" and it makes you realize how ambivalent the crowd generally is toward watching dancers.
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
Does 300 is beginning to rival Gawker in the "I can't believe I am really reading this" straining-credulity contest...
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7 years ago
3 times, but they were all Wal-Mart trips, and the strippers did at least set a modest budget beforehand with me.
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7 years ago
Ask them how much they smoke... Can be a half ounce a week. They are high all the time
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
I am beginning to give SA more consideration. After 4 months my local clubs are starting to bore me a bit. I am not even a heavy extras guy... But getting tired of the cameras, bouncer monitoring, etc. It would be nice to meet women who are more straight-up ready for OTC activity.