Powerful Feeling

Yo go mother fucker

Yeah, that goes away the moment your money starts to run out.

You mean the dancer stopped performing mid song and walked away from a lapdance?

If you think that's cool, imagine the look on his face after you take a baseball bat to his mailbox! LOL! Or on the next night when you slash the tires on his car!

Well presumably she did not charge him for an incomplete dance, but generally that was not cool. There is enough time in a night to finish a song.

Theres always a bigger fish in the ocean of pl's...

I get the feeling you may be exaggerating a bit but if that was the case it's a douche move on her part and kinda shows her true colors and how one day she may treat *you*.

A dancer def has the right to choose who she wants to be with, but there are ways to go about that.

Sorry if my original post was unclear. She didnt leave the guy mid lap dance. It appeared as though she was setting him up for a good night, until she saw me. If anything it reminded me of that Chulo - that its strictly business and it could indeed be me one day, but that night, it wasnt.

Taxi driver - that guy was me for a long time, im no longer that naive (at least Id like to think so).

It’s a nice feeling - in a way. I’m more interested in enjoying time with a dancer (than getting a dancer from another customer).

As long as the other guy wasn’t pissed to the point of waiting for you outside of the club - that’s fine. As that type of OTC isn’t fun!

You know how women judge a date by how he treats the waitress ? I judge strippers by how they treat other customers. If she is prepared to treat someone like shit, she is prepared to treat everyone like shit, even me.

It's ALWAYS business. Feelings are not at play here.

JohnTitor, no truer words have ever been said.

Taxi Driver - Good comments for me to reflect on. Maybe Im not yet there completely yet. But hey, Im working on it.

It does seem a bit douchey to bask in the glory of being preferred by your CF "the nano second she realized I had arrived" and in the abandoned customer's anger. You could easily be in his shoes on another occasion -- what goes around comes around.

I was once doing a couple of $20 lap dances with an exceptionally beautiful stripper who was also reputed to be extra[s]-friendly in the VIP room. As soon as her regular entered the club, she finished our second dance and headed directly to him without explanation. I wasn't mad at him at all -- in fact, my attitude was "Good for him to land such a hottie as CF" -- but I vowed to myself never to spend another dollar on her, except for tips at the stage. There are right and wrong ways for a dancer to show her preference for a regular over an occasional visitor (as I was at the time), and her choice of the wrong way has cost her many hundreds if not thousands of dollars from me over the last few years.

In the meantime I've become a regular at that club and am sometimes the guy that my favorites will leave occasional customers for to spend time with -- but they do it nicely.

most everybody's ego has got to get stroked sometime...
:)

Before my CF became my CF she walked away from me when one of her regulars came in.
She was very polite and apologetic about it and she had only been sitting with me for a few minutes, so it was not a big deal to me. She said they had planned ahead to meet that day.
As JohnTitor said, its all business.

Now, if she is with someone when I come in, she leaves them as soon as she can to come to me. I don't like waiting for her when we have planned ahead, but I understand its all part of the business. She often comes over and tells me she'll be over in 10 minutes, but of course its always more like 30 minutes!
I can usually find another girl to pass the time with while I wait.

Purchased affection has never made me feel powerful, because it's purchased. It doesn't stop me from having fun, but I wouldn't get too high and mighty about it.

-->"She was very polite and apologetic about it and she had only been sitting with me for a few minutes, so it was not a big deal to me. She said they had planned ahead to meet that day"

As a PL who values the sanctity of the appointment, and who values strippers who value appointments, for me it would be pretty reasonable if I met a stripper randomly, but who had to leave because she had a pre-set appointment with a regular. In fact, I almost look at it as a good sign that she keeps her appointments, it's like the stripper version of "he's nice to his mother", that's the kind of stripper I want. I would prefer if she tells me up front, "my regular is coming in at 5 but I can hang out until then"; it's incredibly rare that strippers give such advance warnings (for a variety of reasons), but no worries in any case. She should, of course, be apologetic, explain herself, say all kinds of lies to make me feel good ("I'd way rather be sitting with you, but I HAVE to go; I'll make it up to you!"), and perhaps give me an opportunity for one last dance, but all good beyond that.

-->"I don't like waiting for her when we have planned ahead, but I understand its all part of the business. She often comes over and tells me she'll be over in 10 minutes, but of course its always more like 30 minutes!"

Some PLs here get irritated about this, but I don't share this view. If we have an appointment at 4, I expect her to be free at 4. Yes, it's all part of the business -- and the business decision I expect her to make is "make sure I'm free for my 4:00 appointment with my regular". I'm a valuable customer, at least in my own mind, and if she can't furnish the experience I'm paying for, no hard feelings, but if there's another stripper in the club I'm interested in, that's who I'll be sitting with the entire rest of my trip (I normally pick one stripper and stay with her my entire trip, she gets all my $). 10 minute wait, no problem, but I'm not waiting 30+ minutes for my appointment. Tick tock and all that, 30 minutes in I'll have a different stripper, and she might be candidate for my new CF.