Comments by Lurker_X (page 7)

Clubs in my area are all camera'd so dancers usually do not want overt boob grabbing. You develop a technique of accidentally (ahem) leaving your hands in front of you so she can lean in on them... or on her sides, as she body slides down you with her back to the cameras. I really do not need to ask. She will push hands away if not open to it.

Stick to clubs that are not too upscale with lots of women to pick from. There are not really any in the Charlotte area that specialize in that look but when the roster is long, you may see a few. I suppose I might recommend Leather and Lace in Gastonia... It is a small and dingy club, dancers are too pudgy for my taste usually. But if you don't mind thick thighs and waists to go with the boobs, you may be OK with the choices.

There was a topless car wash for several years in Greensboro N.C. I think closed now though.

Well, beer is often overpriced in regular restaurants and nightclubs anyway.

Tried to, the escort I was going to meet asked to reschedule. It'll be her or a different one within a week. I have my cash ready.

It helps to have a separate wallet solely for clubbing... Keep the various credit cards and business cards out. You don't want to lose them in the club anyway.

I don't feel like writing a review if a club has recent ones that I largely agree with. It is quicker to simply slap a comment on the most recent review and add my two cents.

I will assume mdb is real and a cancer survivor. Contemplating death (or trying not to think about it) is stressful and can change a person. That said, he can't expect everyone on a public forum to like him or handle him gently.

I'm probably moving from low-grade to mid-grade. Last year I spent $6000 or so on strippers at several clubs, mainly enjoying the attention, some dirty talk, and various flesh-to-flesh sensations. Only 2 lapgasms during that time. But 2018 I'm going to mix it up more. Try escorts, massage parlors, likely do a few road trips to some real "extras" clubs.

I suppose I simply have unrealistic expectations to begin with. I'm 49 and weigh 193 pounds... about what I did 25 years ago. I simply want to meet women who are fit and well maintained, and those are in such high demand. I rationalize that I have to pay money to meet women who are.

Also means they made no money for two days. Should be good turnout tonight as ladies try to catch up their income from a mid week lull.

Sounds like SA has picked up some of the BackPage action. I see a lot of gripes from mongers on other forums that BackPage does not provide enough up front information now. Ladies try to get around that a bit by putting things like location, incall/outcall, prices and preferences online as "photos" but most of them do not. So it creates a lot of roundabout texting and communication lag, to figure out basic compatibility.

Why not allow both? Put a toggle button on the page for condensed view or display-all

I lost over 50 pounds and have kept it off for a year now. It can be done, but you must make permanent changes to your diet. I am not an exercise hound, mainly lost the weight eating lots of fruits, nuts, and vegetables and reducing milk/cheese and baked goods.

Scores clubs are not a chain like Deja Vu. They're independently owned clubs that join a common branding agreement.

Yeah the insurance adjuster will probably have his report reviewed by a couple of levels of auditors, I would think!

Playademan, yes there are "American staff" spas in my area. They have a reputation for being pricier than the Asian ones, service is more unpredictable. Girls will sometimes "go independent", since it is typical at a spa to share 40% to 60% of the massage fee with the management.

I feel like branching out from the club experience, and started texting BackPage ladies this weekend. I have one incall massage set up this week, basic price for an hour before tipping for extras, is about what 15 minutes in a club costs... We have a lot of threads about the demise of clubbing, and I have had several conversations with 30ish strippers who also tell me that the clubs used to be better. The internet has opened up numerous ways to meet loose women, while clubs have become more expensive with less privacy as they add cameras and open up VIP areas.

I only bring $100 bills if I have a long VIP already negotiated in advance. Saves some space in my pocket. Fives and tens are good to bring to VIP too, because she needs some stuff smaller than twenties to pay the couch fees to the club.

I won't go to a club if they seriously enforce a "no shorts" rule. Lap dancing is too expensive a form of entertainment for me to be deprived of leg contact wity the ladies.

Don't be a little bitch... Just tell a dancer that you like a position and want her to do more of it. (Tits in face, body slides, crotch grind, whatever) It is likely she wants more of your money and will oblige you.

Dancers are instructed to change positions to combat "simulated sex acts" in N.C. I have observed hand signals from bouncers to the girls that they need to make a change soon, or they'll walk over and give a verbal warning. To answer your question.... Try tipping bouncers, or go during dayshift when there is less scrutiny.

I suppose mongering is impacting my life a bit, I am choosing to manage my daily expenses in utilities, gasoline, lunches much more closely. Got rid of a PO Box I rarely used, moved more of my savings into high yield income funds to generate immediate cash.

Straight dances in a chair, six. But I have bought a 45 minute VIP on a couch where she alternated between dancing, grinding, and laying beside me.