Comments by jaredlucas (page 5)

OTC - all the way. For me it is the end game. Either or a few hours or a few days. More relaxing No clock watching and virtually no chance of getting arrested. Typically preceded by a couple of ITC experiences to establish comfort and gauge compatibility. Have never had a problem even with the handful of times I've arranged OTC on the first visit-

I'm going to a Halloween party as a devil with a stripper on a leash. She is all in. Should be fun.

On a related topic I am now using a second phone number on my smartphone. There a number of apps out there that will allow you to add an additional number on a single phone. Eliminates the need to carry two phones.

I was in hr for 10 years and found it to be stifling. Now in business development and having the time of my life and earning more than 2x my old hr salary By the way I am considered an introvert.

Some of those type of gals make their money OTC The club is just a place to scout out a horny PL ready to get it wet.

Typically my OTC experience is pretty good, however I tend to move towards this discussion only after a good ITC experience where chemistry is good. Even so, I want to be the one to choose who I spend my time with and don't wantonly accept OTC Invites if a girl suggests this on the first meet Up in the club. It's happened a few times and it comes across as an escort fuck when it is all said and done which is not my cup of tea. I prefer OTC to be more of a GF experience where multiple hours or even days (travel) are part of the experience.

Had this happen last year with a gal I had previously enjoyed ITC and OTC fun with Probably 15-20 times. I told her that the pregnancy test must be in error. When she insisted that she was indeed pregnant I said congratulations - who is the lucky guy? She said "you are" - I replied with "Unlikely Hun". then I revealed that I was vasectomized several years ago - she got pissed off or embarrassed or whatever and moved out of state shirtly thereafter. I guess she was trying to raise some cash for her move which she conveniently never informed me about. I struck her off my X as card list. ha ha.

Us desert rats in AZ have it easy. Typical floor dances are $10. Champagne / VIP is only $20-25 for very high mileage dances. Some clubs have no cover or very low VIP fees. I'm traveling in the upper Midwest this week and most of the clubs here in MN are at least $20 on the floor. Not nearly the same value The typical $300 pocket cash I club with in AZ often gets me a BJ or OTC action. Not so much outside AZ.

If I have to. Ha ha.

I rarely go in the evening. Too busy / difficult to get private time and too many wandering eyes. With the exception of one time Ive had my most memorable ITC and OTC fun pulling girls from the day shift.

I go to the club on my own time. If i get a Plea text I just invite them to my place. Free booze, smoke, toys and they will only have to have one PL slobbering / cumming on them vs 10 + in a nice

the PL next to says "way to take one for the team" ... did you just lose a bet?

$300 is typical.

25 to 29 is the sweet spot for me. Still young, lean, sexual and in need of mentoring and $$. its a Recipe for fun. If she is in to FFM threesomes and leans towards being BI sexual she goes to the top of the list .

I take my glasses off for close up fun My fingers and dick see pretty well otherwise. Cheers!

Shadowcat. I concur. I also concur with the Cinderella complex being alive and well as noted by twentyfive Like you, if they get Impressed by the things I have and places I travel to, I always tell them to have faith and that they will be there someday as well. I'm not a financial advisor, but I've shown several how to set up mutual funds that draw / invest from their weekly bank deposits. Knowing this type of " stuff" appeals to most of the younger gals I've met. It seems to be a message especially well received when I tell them I lived at home until I was 24 and didn't even buy my first new car until I was in my 30's Guess I was a late bloomer I am 51 now. To me, The real reason us older guys in the know get the attention of younger gals is that if we can blow $10K or $20K (or more) in the clubs and OTC fun each year, we have acquired some professional and personal "game" that vibes of confidence, stability and worth. The average 20 something guy can't offer that combo. To those strippers who value such things We set ourselves apart by pulling the door, weekend trips , picking up dinner tabs, imparting life advice, and providing occasional "help" when warranted. Our reward for this is we can have hot 20 somethings willing to spend hours or days in our beds. We are wise enough not to chase and understand our value while valuing our worth. We know There is always a shelf life when dealing with girls 20 years or younger than us so we enjoy it fully before it spoils. My two cents on the subject.

Monk Why post this question here? Makes no sense Unless you are a dancer and it is the end of the month ... and you looking for "help" In which case I will fix your car after you and your hot girl friend come on over for some physical therapy and spiritual guidance. Suggest you Go to an automotive forum for more serious advice to avoid smart asses like us.

I feel for you. Many of us have been there. Often times it starts out like what you described but you need to understand that at some weak Moment your non extras girl will become an extras girls. Somebody with better game , bigger wallet, bigger dick ... Whatever it is. Mayne just a lucky bastard at the right time will get her to suck his dick in the club. Or meet in a hotel for a big payday. When this happens it hurts. It also makes you grow up and realize what the real world strippers are exposed to. Have a great time. Have great sex. Learn new tricks in bed. Don't fall in love. Just Have fun. See others in the same club. Did I mention don't fall in love ??

I had a FWB that became a dancer. The FWB continued outside the club after she started dancing. Been going on about a year now. Never reversed it though. Typically still paying for OTC with other dancers no Matter how friendly we get. Only had a few freebies with other dancers over the past few years m. Guess I need more game.

Ive said yes a couple times - $300 once and $150 once ... Dumb thing to do. Each girl showed little appreciation in return. Now i just say Sorry Hun. I wont do that, but Id be happy to have you over to my place to earn it if you would like. About half the time they go for it. Today got a text from a former favorite who has since moved away. Asking to send her $150 for stage fee and a room to stay at tonite. I said sorry Hun. Look me up when you get back in town... well have some fun . Second time in two weeks she has asked for $150. ... I think she is on drugs... Who knows - something is going on. She used to a top earner when she was local to me.

All Thanks for your comments and sympathies. Still mystifies me. As I typically club in AZ where it is pretty much hot as hell all the time I'll start wearing zipper less shorts. Now I have a phobia against zippers. Ha ha I ended up going to the Doc for this. put some medical glue on the cut to Help junior come back together. Looks like I'll be out of commission for a 2-3 weeks. Don't How will I spend my free afternoons now. Ha ha

What is COI

my current favorite is 30 in 6 weeks. Rocks between the sheets t and a sultry vixen in public. Id stack her up against a 18-21 yr olds any day of the week

Strippers are more of a sure thing. Ive tried a few POF, Match, etc but had my best success with girls on Seeking Arrangement. Its a sugar daddy site... Pricey, and plenty of deluded girls thinking they are all that , but there is no pretense once you decide to connect to discuss an arrangement. Girls there will boink you in exchange for 'assistance" - just like your average stripper

I have had countless lap dances and this is a freakish first. Never even considered it a possibility until now. I'm sure it is It is related to her super energetic high speed grind - Most grinds are just nice grinds, not this one...