What is your success rate for OTC?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Yet another OTC discussion. And another twofold question. For you TUSCLers that OTC regularly, what is your success rate for getting OTC? That is out of all the girls that you have asked to see OTC, how many of them agreed to do it that day or even eventually if they didn't right away? And a follow up, after you set it up and the girls delivered on the promise, how successful was the OTC visit? That is did the OTC experience meet your expectations or was it more like a cold escort fuck (or even something like FKK clubs or Hong Kong but way more expensive) as opposed to GFE or even PSE? I tend not to be an escort guy, so that would definitely turn me off. But TUSCL is having me believe that OTC is a lot more common than i think.
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Ganntt chart? You Project plan OTC. You sir, are a god.
A lot of these discussions seem to be coming from guys who like the idea of OTC but are timid about pulling the trigger. Other guys seem to be trying to tease out a way to land a smoking hot sex slave for less than $100 per session.
Picking away at the minutiae is a good way to stall.
Even so, I want to be the one to choose who I spend my time with and don't wantonly accept OTC Invites if a girl suggests this on the first meet Up in the club. It's happened a few times and it comes across as an escort fuck when it is all said and done which is not my cup of tea. I prefer OTC to be more of a GF experience where multiple hours or even days (travel) are part of the experience.
I've yet to go into any club with the expectation of finding an OTC and I very rarely pursue the option.. If anything I take the entire experience as it comes with no expectations and no plans past that evening inside the club.
When OTC happens for me is when I find out they are on SA looking and if there seems to be a level of comfort and compatibility that goes both ways.
Overall under these criteria the times when there is an OTC it's been good and normally a repeated meeting.
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No..no...no...it requires a System and years of experience to pay for sex. More like general relativity than Q.M.
Remember - if you choose a dancer who always has drama around her - then there’s a good chance that drama will be both itc and otc.
TBH, it's never really all that much fun. Whatever my expectations are, even if they are met, which is rare, it's still just a mechanical act in exchange for money. I think many guys want to do OTC because it makes them feel good about themselves, believing that a dancer likes them and trusts them enough to open up to them during their off-hours. But it's never really worth it to me, in retrospect.
If a dancer is willing to be sensual and hands-on ITC, that will probably feel a lot better than anything I'm ever likely to get OTC. It might even be a better value, too. And plenty of them are willing to get handsy ITC. So does that mean I'll stop asking for OTC? No. Because I'm as mentally fucked up as the next PL. It's always best to admit one's shortcomings.
Not the young dancers.....LOL
my CF is the only dancer i've ever requested OTC from and i can tell she's never gonna meet me OTC
My ATF asked me so that doesn't count, a past CF turned me down flat, another past CF lied about being available just to string me along, and two said yes so technically I'm 2 for 4 I suppose. But this is only because I was asking girls I've already established a relationship with; 50% is silly high due to the small sample size.
If I asked all my regulars for OTC...Hmmm....I'd expect to get a 1-10 at best. I think at other clubs it would be reversed though. If anyone is struggling with OTC, it's probably par for the course so just keep at it.
Of course, some of them flake out on me. However, I have always had a good time in my OTC meets--GFE and all that. Sex OTC is so much better than sex ITC.
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Perhaps it could be they don't ask many girls for OTC and the ones they ask they already got a history w/ and have spent well on-her ITC, vs asking a dancer the first-visit one meets her.
SJG
Not *always*, but if I'm enjoying someone's company, and we seem to be compatible, I'm going to be much more comfortable in a place where I can lock the door and not be in danger of the the cops raiding the place. Not to mention being able to slow things down, and hopefully, be more relaxed.