jaredlucas
Arizona
Comments by jaredlucas (page 4)
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7 years ago
JohnTitor
don't sweat the petty things-pet the sweaty things
Be still my beating heart.
Lol. Ha ha. Ha. Of course. You are the only one.
Kudos to Upright!! Good one!
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7 years ago
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Oh my. Dude is Taking one for the team.
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7 years ago
tristanJ
It may help to know that I found my CF after similarly getting stood up - in your case (and mine) our then CF ladies texted their expected absence so that's a plus. Shows they care to nurture the custy - dancer relationship.
For that reason I wasn't bent - especially after meeting my Present day CF as a result.
After a couple of years of regular hobbling I have learned that There are plenty of fresh ladies coming to work everyday if you ever tire of your CF behaviors.
Lastly, like it it not , texting or snapchat is how millenials typically communicate.
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
Subraman - yes good points. Thank you. Should have known better. I think because my OTC had arranged "no charge@ threesomes with civvies multiple times before, I just assumed this was another one. Especially after the third wheel told me she was a nurse.
On the previous occasions where my girl sswayed girls home after a nite on the town I would usually tip her another c note. One time it was 2 c notes when she arranged a foursome - this time the money was for the other girl which caught me off guard. Not a big deal. Would have likely said yes anyway.
Going forward I will clarify expectations so I don't have naggung thoughts on what should be just an awesome memory
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
Bj99. Posh. Ha. Ha. Good ones.
I better buy a lottery ticket next.
If my luck holds out Maybe I will be retired tomorrow.
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
It looks like the extra girl is a player. She just be texted me to let me know she was in town for another week and wanted to get together today.
To test water I replied I'd love to, but the holidays and a bad run at the casino last nite have me a little tight so I can't offer anything other than drinks and dinner - she says don't worry I just want your "Cock inside me again". She is coming over for dinner and jacuzzi fun this evening. Wow what a country. Ha ha.
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7 years ago
flagooner
Everything written by this member is a fact.
A. And then on to the next 9 or dime
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7 years ago
ajvj
Georgia
I only pull it out in VIP. In fact I am always unzipped even before taking a seat in the back room. Never fails when junior starts standing tall that the dancer will help herself to a squeeze , kiss or whatever else is on the menu
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7 years ago
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Had an impromptu OTC visit this year with a highly motivated dancer who was in need of a couple of Benjamin's. Was fun ... Will repeat
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7 years ago
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I think Friday and Saturday day shifts will be fruitful for guys that have game and cash to spend.
I'm hanging with a long time favorite OTC on Friday for cocktails dancing and general debauchery
On Saturday I will meet two fresh hotties For an ITC threesome at one of the local clubs.
Down for the count afterwards as my December SC bill was way over budget
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
Subraman. Well said. My perspectives mirrors yours. What I was getting at is how many of the dancers accept the concept that trading money for OTC fun is prostitution.
My limited experience with this topic tells me that almost none of the girls accept that their Itc extras or OTC trysts are considered to be the dirty " P " word
Rather it seems they tend to view themselves as independent contractors of simply dancers.
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
wallanon
In my mind the distinction is clear. I found it a bit surprising that one of my long OTC friends was deeply offended at the label.
Was curious how others might weigh in on this.
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7 years ago
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Yes I've taken a CF to other clubs multiple times and had a blast each time. Can get a little pricey though
On the plus side as my CF is very BI we have arranged threesomes between Her and other dancers.
Nothing like watching two crazy hot Mammas go at each other. Highly recommend it
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7 years ago
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
Sounds at least like miscommunication, as per Rockstar, but quite possibly your gal is burning bridges.
Based on what you shared it seems like she was asking you if she could come over but you wanted to "talk" instead.
You didn't answer her question. I would have said yes I'd like you to come over what time will you be there ? Since you didn't answer she may have assumed that OTC with you was not in the cards that nite and she blew you off figuring that you wouldn't mind giving her $50 for at least offering you OTC - or maybe thinking she would be extra friendly ITC next time she sees you - yes that is stripper logic.
As far as her "heading out" maybe she was going to grab a bite or a drink or maybe had another OTC date. Who knows??
The point is that her question on whether or not to she could "come over" was never answered.
Only the stripper gods know the real answer as to why she went awol, but if she was willing to run a scam on you for $50 I suspect she has other bigger fish to fry and isn't too concerned about riding your bone any time soon. If you do get back on that horse remind her that you will be withholding $50 - if she balks you are definitely being played. cut off all ties immediately if that plays out. Delete her phone # in her presence and forget her name. There are too many others to have fun with who are Just as good as Bambi
Also, As noted previously, IF you only lost $50 to a ROB you got off pretty cheap. Count your blessings
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7 years ago
Liwet
If she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
Random member. LOL.
Good one!
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7 years ago
Doces300
You can run but you will only die tired
For $1000 she should bring another lady and you all spend the whole night in bed.
Of course One of them does the bagel run in the morning while you lay back and get another nice BJ
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
Thanks guys. I guess she got a little bent because I had her real name, b-day etc. Needed it for airline tickets on a few trips we took.
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7 years ago
jaredlucas
Arizona
Subraman
Would certainly prep a wing man if I had one .
In this case I Just happened To run into my old friend there. It had been about 5 yrs since we last conversed
I'll definitely make it a point to alert anyone I run into that I use a stripper name if we club together.
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7 years ago
PrimetimeSchein
Michigan
Getting Asked for a tip when undeserved always irritates me. I just say no thank you.
On the other hand I would tend to over tip if services are above and beyond the call of duty.
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7 years ago
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
It's the bible and manual for effective , cost effective and sexually be satisfying visit to the club. Wish I had discovered it 20 years ago.
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7 years ago
gentleman6555
New York
Ask her for a threesome and focus on the third gal. Amazing how this brings them back around. But the difference is that you are in the drivers seat. Works like a charm.
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7 years ago
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Yup. All VIP and OTC available with various servers and bartenders at Curves or raiders reef in Tucson.
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7 years ago
TXbananas
NTX
$1000? Really?
She better be bringing a couple friends to make it a foursome. If not $300 tops
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7 years ago
Juslovin
Illinois
if a tip is earned a tip should be gladly paid. Otherwise just say no thank you.