"come to the club" siren texts
Lurker_X
North Carolina
Wednesday, September 27, 2017 5:11 PM
What do you do? Shrug and ignore unless actually going? Begin a little debate to see if she wants to persuade you? Negotiate expectations, and maybe become persuaded?
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If I'm in the mood (or on the fence), I'll text back "Convince me." That may lead to some playful banter and sexy pictures. That will usually help me make the decision. I'll also usually try to get some sort of reassurance that if I go, I won't be sitting there watching her sort through six other guys who answered her call. That's hit or miss, really.
If I'm just not feeling it or she isn't really engaging with me, then I beg off.
Sample response I sent to a dancer last week "I don't feel like going to the club tonight, but I can help make up for a slow day by picking you up at the end of your shift. What time do you get off?"
Works with most of the dancers I text with since I generally only exchange numbers with girls who are open to otc.
But, if one of these girls does start offering a "special deal" I could be persuaded.
I’m better now, after years of intense therapy.
I try the "convince me" tact if there's a chance I could go. I try the OTC play on occasion, too.
Sometimes, the girl is just bored at work and wants to chat.