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5 years ago
Going with Jameson here.
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5 years ago
I rooted for Debi Thomas.
Carmen Electra.
(I'd vote for Electra anyway)
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5 years ago
Stylez.
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5 years ago
Toe, easily. Cleavage is common.
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5 years ago
I prefer to be approached: if I have to walk up to someone, I may as well go to a bar or dance club. I have learned that I have to walk up to some girls for various reasons, but for the most part I like to lay back and let the action come to me.
Sometimes I run into the same problems that everyone does (girls I want disappearing, girls I don't want approaching me) but that's part of the game. One thing that makes me different, though, is that I almost never sit at the club. I just feel like a target when I sit, so I stand and walk. Girls have told me that it makes me appear unapproachable. Ah well.
All that said, Dugan probably said it best when he said to go with your gut. I don't do VIPs so my gambles are small, and I've learned to cut women off after one dance if necessary. That's so important: don't accept substandard performance - however you define it - and don't wait for things to get better. One underrated but obvious thing that affects the beginnings of our interactions with dancers: the endings of our interactions with past dancers.
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5 years ago
When I need to count, I wait until no dancers around. If dancers are around, I just go in the bathroom and count - usually in a stall. Flashing in front of dancers seems to be full of downside, much of which has been discussed above.
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5 years ago
Nadine, easily. Sinclair has that Kapri Styles problem of cross-eyed nipples.
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5 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
I've reviewed 56 places on here, so I'll say 60 to include pre-TUSCL visits and places that have closed. I know of at least four of those (Coco's, the place in Atlanta formerly known as Foxy Lady, Pleasers, and the former bikini bar in Tallahassee that started it all for me...oh, and this place that used to be in Lauderdale called Ecstasy...and Goldrush in Atlanta). So yeah, somewhere in the 60-65 range.
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5 years ago
Any mention of rules and/or instructions.
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5 years ago
Kiana Tom, easily.
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5 years ago
I'll go with Lisa Ann.
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5 years ago
The one I'll mention that I don't think anyone else has is an obviously fake hair color, particularly if that color is blond (looking at you, Cuban dancers at Tootsies). Even worse are the dancers at black clubs who'd be marked absent in night school unless they said something, but I don't see them that much.
I'm a fan of pretty much any dancer who looks natural and proportionate. "Why didn't you list implants as a turnoff"...one, some implants make women look proportionate; and two, you pretty much have to give a pass on implants here because so many women have them.
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5 years ago
I'd say that average is about right for me, but it goes up considerably if I'm out on the town. We're kind of liberal when it comes to those matters.
Interesting that this post originated from Atlanta. Maybe I should listen to some Killer Mike.
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5 years ago
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AtAboyStill learning to proofread
1. In order of preference: triangle, landing strip, bush, waxed.
Triangles just do it for me visually. I'm at a point now where that will greatly increase my probability of getting a dance from a girl (even though my preferred dance position precludes me from seeing it). Landing strips are cool, but they don't point to the pie like triangles. I've never seen a bush in a club, and it seems to me that most clubs wouldn't allow them. Closest I've seen have been in black dives, where it's often too dark to tell anyway. Total absence of hair does nothing for me.
I don't do anything in the club, but when DATYing I prefer hair because I can do two things if necessary: floss, and lick off excess. The latter is particularly helpful.
2. I go through the whole process before hitting the club (and will tonight).
The only thing I don't do is wash my hair, which is short enough that it's not necessary. My MO is pretty much the same as what DTS described. I agree with the OP that it's a courtesy to the dancers, but it just makes sense: I want girls to get close to me, so I make it inviting for them to do so.
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5 years ago
I can't think of any clubs in South Florida that have one. Only club I can think of with one is Savannah's in Harrisburg. I want to say all the black clubs I've visited have a wand/frisk procedure, but the others haven't (I'm not counting Follies for obvious reasons).
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5 years ago
Someone - I think Papi - mentioned this previously at that particular club. I think the mention was that they check you like they do when you go to a regular club, checking under your pants for a waistband. Of course, anyone could just go to the bathroom and take off whatever once they got inside.
In general, I have no problem with dress codes even though some club owners may think I look like the type they want to keep out. Shoot, as we all know - and have to remind people whenever a related post comes up - slacks or dress pants are better to wear at the SC than jeans anyway. Also, it's pretty easy to make an outfit with basketball shorts look more 'respectable' than one with pants or slacks (matching helps a lot). I've gone to plenty of clubs dressed in such a manner and been complimented - almost as often as when I wear dress shirts and pants. As long as people look presentable, most clubs won't care - code or otherwise.
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5 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
False - at this point, there's no girl who really captures my attention like that at my favorite club. At this particular club, the talent has fallen to the point that it's my least favorite aspect of the place.
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5 years ago
This is way too easy. Any encounter with Megan has the possibility of also including Sue Bird, who I love. Megan (and hopefully Sue) would get the business.
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5 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
I worked in the office of a legislator who's a friend, and her one rule was to not go to any clubs within her district. Since the only club in her district is Vegas, I happily accepted her terms. If I ran for office, I'd likely follow that path. I doubt I'd club in Broward, and no one outside Broward would really know who I was.
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5 years ago
Getting turned on enough in the LD area to want to LDK. Money just evaporates at that point.
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5 years ago
As rhb said, context matters. I don't use the word (I'm black, in case anyone's wondering 'which' word) and it slightly unnerves me when black people use it. Other than a delirious white guy in a hospital...actually, make that two in different instances...I can't recall the last time I've heard a non-black person say it in person.
Online, different story. I've seen it used by people I know and people I don't know. People I know, I try to let it slide simply because I don't believe them to be racist and they didn't use it in a racist manner. People I don't know tend to not get that benefit of the doubt, as I have no reason to delve into what the context is - mainly because of the anonymity and 'distance' factors. Obviously, racist usage doesn't fly at all.
As alluded to earlier and as rhb said, context really matters. Without them, words are completely abstract. One person could call me that word as a term of endearment while someone else could call me a 'reasonable person' with all sorts of underlying contempt.
Would it be nice if people were more considerate of others' situations and didn't feel like said consideration was some sort of control? Yeah. However, that train left the station a long time ago and the trip was one way. Just have to do the best we can and limit the cases in which we find ourselves in uncomfortable/disrespectful situations both online and offline. For online activities in particular, I've found the ignore feature to be rather useful.
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5 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I'll notice a dancer's moves if she's really good: I can think of maybe five times this has happened. I'm more of a regular dancer than most SCers, so it's something that sticks out - mostly because dancers usually try to look sexy and/or get money as opposed to actually dancing. If a girl can really dance then I think she might be fun and my interest level goes way up.
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5 years ago
I've gone when sad a few times and found that it was a terrible idea. I tended to spend more, and most of the time the good feelings from the club were fleeting. It's operating from a deficit, which generally is not the move.
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5 years ago
I actually told my cousin this story this afternoon, so it's fresh in my mind. I was in Houston on an internship after my freshman year. Didn't know anyone, first time I'd been on my own, about 1200 miles from home. I was miserable to the point of telling anyone who'd listen that I wanted to go home. My dad told me I was staying out there, though.
A week and a half in, I decided to explore the nightlife. Went to a club and saw these two girls: one looked good, but the other was much more attractive. For some reason I approached the less attractive girl - who, again, looked quite nice in her own right. We danced together to a couple of songs and then she went to get something to drink. Ran into her again and danced a little more before she stepped off the floor again.
At the end of the night we ran across each other and she asked what I was doing. I told her I had no plans and she asked if I wanted to head out with her. Silly trusting me didn't even think about the possibility of her setting me up for a robbery and just followed her to her friend's apartment - yup, same friend she was with. We talked a little bit in the living room and her friend gave her a blanket. She brought it over, we started making out, and it was on.
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I think I'm in favor of more clubs. SCs have different vibes, and I may feel like going to different spots based on my mood...and generally speaking, options are always good.
I'll say that for regular clubs, though; I'd prefer fewer. SCs are pretty much required to have 'some' talent, so they can stand to be spread out.