true or false: the only reason a particular SC is your favorite
gothamyte
from that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
is because (know it or not) you're in love with a dancer there.
is that true or false?
a random dancer pointed this out to me, once.
after she said it, i thought about it. and i was like, whoa I guess you're right.
i guess what i'm trying to say is that until she said it, i always assumed i also kinda liked the ambiance or the SC itself or i just liked being an anonymous pervert in a corner sometimes.
she was like, "no. it's a dancer here that you're in love with; i dunno who, but that's what it is."
is that true or false?
a random dancer pointed this out to me, once.
after she said it, i thought about it. and i was like, whoa I guess you're right.
i guess what i'm trying to say is that until she said it, i always assumed i also kinda liked the ambiance or the SC itself or i just liked being an anonymous pervert in a corner sometimes.
she was like, "no. it's a dancer here that you're in love with; i dunno who, but that's what it is."
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I choose the club first and then try to find a girl I like in it. Even if you found the perfect girl at a shitty club, you can't have fun with her. Better to go to the club that let's you do everything you want, even if the girl might not be perfect for you.
until i thought about it.
and the key word here is "favorite". why any club becomes your "favorite"--even if it's your favorite for a short while, is because there's a particular dancer there that you're in love with.
i'd have to admit, she's...probably right about it...in all of my cases, when i think about it.
I’ve had a couple of favorite clubs over the years. And I’ve definitely not been in love with a particular dancer who worked at them. In lust, certainly; but love, ah, no.
My favorite club tends to be where my favorite stripper is. There's some exceptions, but that's usually the case. It doesn't extend to me being in love with her, but most of the time its the stripper that brings me to the club.
Visits to strip clubs have nothing to do with love but everything to do with LUST.
No matter how much I enjoyed time spent with a stripper, I am always eager to move on to the next one.
It’s very rare for me to make repeated visits to see the same desploogination service professional.
Where my ATF worked. Both long gone.
SJG
Of 5 or 6 in area it has the most, and best looking dancers.
The music is not too loud.
The lighting is not too dark.
Plenty of variety of fun, fit dancers.
Busy enough, but not too crowded.
And it's two miles from my house. All the others are 2.5 to 8 miles away.
I ain't the one. I'm not falling for any woman; civi and/or strippers.
If my ATFs or CF go somewhere else to entertain, I won’t follow her.
I already have a wife, I'm not looking for a club version. I like variety. The longest any girl has been a favorite of mine is one year but even then I was sprinkling other girls into the OTC mix.
Honestly, I don’t know what it feels like to be in love since my marriage failed many years ago. And frankly, I don’t want to know. Hope I never feel that way away. I’m done.
The only emotion I’m interested in is pure lust, the kind that results in an uncontrollable erection.
I like PTs better than Baby Dolls because it’s BYOB.
I only have a favorite dancer at a time and she gets all my dance budget. She moved to Baby Dolls from PTs so whenever I have the urge for some dances, I go to Baby Dolls. If I just want to socialize and drink, I go to PTs.
Now, THAT is what we should all strive for!
i appreciate everyone's input on this
wasn't expecting any responses
I frequent mostly TL clubs and not FN because I like to drink when clubbing and the FN clubs near me are no alcohol. Club choice is governed by combo of best looking girls and mileage I'm satisfied with.
If there's a club I don't like a lot I'll still go there to see a fave, but if the fave departs I cease that club as a destination and go only if I'm in the neighborhood. I previously had unhealthy attraction to some faves but that's in the past.