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9 years ago
Once I went to Foxy Lady (ATL) and a girl said she wanted to take me home (no mention of cash). It was the night the Zimmerman verdict was announced. After thinking I was a cop for a while, we talked about the verdict and about living in Florida as she used to live here. Led to a string of dances and then she asked about it. I hesitated because of my Spiedy sense and my desire to go to Central Station later - I like SCs plenty, but I'm a dance club aficionado at heart. I wanted to revisit the offer later, but I didn't see her the last half of the night. Probably for the best.
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9 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I thought about it, but the only time he'll be anywhere close at a time I can go is 4/8 at New Orleans (5 hours away). Between the fact that I'll just be getting back from Dallas and the strong possibility that he may not play - it's the fourth to last game of the season, and NO isn't exactly NYC or Chicago or Philly in terms of basketball tradition - I decided not to chance it.
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9 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
This discussion makes me think of a couple lines from an old school rap song...
"If a --- wanna holla then you a playa if you hit them ends and get the dividends -
But you a pimp if you can get the same --- to wanna freak your friends
Cause I study P-I..M-P...ology, but logically: be learnin these ---- biology: obviously, well..."
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9 years ago
This is my life in Tallahassee: every time I go on BP or wherever I see that from 90% of the non-black women (and maybe 20% of the black women) there. I doubt I would ever have the courage to partake anyway, but that obviously makes things so much more difficult.
That said, that attitude is pervasive among civilian women here too - which is why I'm counting the days until I leave.
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9 years ago
Uusally, no...but I have gone to SCs in such situations and had fun. It really depends on the regular dancers: if they're cool with it, then it could be great.
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9 years ago
Tell her that if she doesn't move, her seat's about to get real wet...and sticky.
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9 years ago
I want to say Hillary and Palin on some "so I can sell the story" stuff, but my life might not last long enough to spend the money and I have no heirs. So, the list as normal:
1. Scarlett Johansson (and it's not even close)
2. Kim Kardashian West
3. Sarah Palin (something tells me she knows her way around a bedroom)
4. Britney Spears (I remember the pictures, but it might be alright - and I can sell that story without fear of death)
5. Jessica Simpson
6. Hillary Clinton (yeah, I'd bend it over)
The others I either have no knowledge of (Emily, Courtney) or no interest in (Pam, Gwyneth).
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9 years ago
I found out during my last SC trip(s) that the neat little pocket on the inside of my basketball shorts can hold about $450 in 20s, 10s, and 5s pretty easily.
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9 years ago
I believe it was shadowcat who said something to the effect of "if I have to ask a girl for a dance, it probably won't be that good anyway" once. Carried that with me like an emergency $200 ever since.
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9 years ago
This here laptop. My PS4 is second.
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9 years ago
A thousand times this. I hate that term, and if a dancer ever referred to me that way I'd tell other patrons that she forgot to shower that day.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
^ What Dolfan said, although it's (obviously) less likely to happen in places where the going rate is higher. Most likely, she has to do something I don't expect...but I usually just get more dances if she's that good.
As far as a physical aspect, no...her looks are what get her in the door. Once she starts dancing, only her dancing matters.
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9 years ago
Wore shorts for the first time to a SC a couple weeks ago. It was rather enjoyable. Like most things in life, there's a time and place. I'd probably only do it at that one club, but it's fun there.
Even clubs that don't have official dress codes have 'unofficial' codes. If everyone's in jeans and you have a suit, you're no better off than you are if the situation is reversed. I usually wear dress pants and a collared shirt, but I got the same amount of attention when I went in a T shirt and shorts. I think being clean matters more.
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9 years ago
I'm cool with $25 since it's what I'm mostly used to. It's the going rate in South Florida and at 2001 in Tampa, although I usually get offered the 3-60. There's no chance of me going higher than that, which limits me to Passions when I go to NO.
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9 years ago
If that means "grinding on me for the whole song, not doing that leg garbage, and at least looking like she's into it", that's all I need. I'd do that all night long.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
^ What ranukam said. I'm a near-guarantee to get at least two dances from every girl because I don't think I can really get an accurate read on her dancing from one song, but that's the one thing (other than simple amount of air dancing) I look for. If I only get one song from a girl, she did something wrong.
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9 years ago
I agree with the people who said Miami...but if the club you went to in Atlanta isn't Follies, you messed up. Tampa is also seriously underrated, if you include the surrounding areas (particularly Pasco).
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9 years ago
Mine haven't changed, but they were always high to begin with. When I started SCing, I was used to going to regular dance clubs and getting all the grinding action I wanted from civvies for free (I started going to SCs when that action started to dwindle). Why on Earth would I expect less when I'm paying for dances?
I'm with esta and ranukam on the 'young guys not going for ITC/OTC' thing, although I think I'm a bit older than they are. I also have other reasons for not doing ITC/OTC, but that has something to do with it.
Re: SCs turning into an alternative form of female interaction, this is definitely the case among popular black SCs in Miami and Atlanta. Go to KOD or Magic City - especially KOD - and it just seems like a regular club that happens to have dancers.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I take far more to a club than I ever 'plan on' spending, but I never take more than I 'can' spend. I can't ball like some of y'all, but I'm at the point now where I usually have at least $600 walking in and can't imagine spending less than $300. I'm never taking my ATM card inside the club, though: heard too many stories, especially in NO. I'll leave and pay to re-enter first.
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9 years ago
I enjoy the club atmosphere enough that I can go to a club, not get dances, and be alright. If I walk out four hours later and only get two dances, I'm cool for the next night.
Crazy as this may sound, when I'm in a mixed club the first thing I think when dancers don't approach me - especially if they approach terribly dressed guys right next to me who think Walmart is a luxury - is that it's racial (thanks, BP).
In general, though: one of the great things about SCs was that I didn't have to approach. If I have to initiate, I may as well start putting regular dance clubs back in my rotation.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Stage isn't important to me at all. I hardly even look.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
The part that got me was 'after' - if dude told the bouncer that she said that afterwards, the bouncer would've either agreed to me paying the going rate or been in the longest standoff. 2001 staff has always treated me well when I've gone, though.
Wait: now that I read it again, the difference is only $10. It's worth $10 to know who's a ROB...but I'm never paying more than $25 for a lap anyway and always get 3-60 specials at 2001. He made a lot of errors.
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9 years ago
Had number exchanges Friday and Sunday at Follies. Both nights, the action pretty much went the same way: small talk (including them saying they wanted to see me later), dances, request. For some reason I decided to put my number in their phones and both of them texted me to essentially give me their numbers. They're playing a game, so you have to play yours.
To that end, the girl who got down to business Sunday got more from me than both of them combined in less time than I spent with either of them individually...without any VIP.
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9 years ago
I agree with the consensus - shoot, why are we playing around: it mostly applies to civvies as well.
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9 years ago
37, but in terms of SC experience and entertainment interest I probably rate like I'm 27.