Changed lapdance expectations
Clackport
Washington
When I first started strip clubbing, I was satisfied with one way contact, I just didn't want a air dance. Over time my expectations changed to two way contact, and I was not satisfied with one way contact.
Fast forward to today, and I don't know if it's because I was spoiled by my CF and ATF, or it's the thousands of regular dances I've gotten in my strip club life, but now my expectations are FIV and DATY at the very least, with a BJ or fucking being the ultimate goal. I'm not satisfied with two way contact anymore.
I live in a city where two way contact is the best you're gonna get, so I find myself not buying these overpriced dances anymore. I'd rather just tip on stage and spit game to these ladies working on OTC, much better value.
Are any of you like me?
Have your lapdance expectations changed over the years?
Fast forward to today, and I don't know if it's because I was spoiled by my CF and ATF, or it's the thousands of regular dances I've gotten in my strip club life, but now my expectations are FIV and DATY at the very least, with a BJ or fucking being the ultimate goal. I'm not satisfied with two way contact anymore.
I live in a city where two way contact is the best you're gonna get, so I find myself not buying these overpriced dances anymore. I'd rather just tip on stage and spit game to these ladies working on OTC, much better value.
Are any of you like me?
Have your lapdance expectations changed over the years?
31 comments
I view anything extra as gravy, and I'm usually not willing to pay for it.
With regards to DATY, my tongue is magical, and I don't put my tongue on just any ho. If she's at least a 8.5., and her pussy looks yummy, then yeah I'll want to dive in the buffet. But yeah I definitely don't want to DATY every girl I get a dance with. Only the special hoes...., Lol
If I lived in San Diego in LA, I probably would never set foot in a strip club. The civilian women are so average here, you wouldn't understand Mikey, unless you checked out Portland.
There is hope though, I should be permanently out of PDX in a month or so!
I'm with esta and ranukam on the 'young guys not going for ITC/OTC' thing, although I think I'm a bit older than they are. I also have other reasons for not doing ITC/OTC, but that has something to do with it.
Re: SCs turning into an alternative form of female interaction, this is definitely the case among popular black SCs in Miami and Atlanta. Go to KOD or Magic City - especially KOD - and it just seems like a regular club that happens to have dancers.
I don't live in Portland, but that is good to know. Probably it is just that they don't like to doll up, regional culture and all?
SJG
For example, if I were in Chicago, my options would be:
1. Don't go to the club
2. Go to the club and be disappointed
3. Go to the club knowing that I'm going to get no mileage but still make a good time of it watching
Really, it's when I pay a certain $$$ and I don't get the equivalent value then it's disappointing. If I hardly pay anything, I can still have a good time with the right expectations.
Now when it comes to lapdances, there are several places where I may not get full blown extras, but a heavy make-out session which is sufficient if it's the best I can find.
Incidentally, more than two way contact *is* available at least at some of the strip clubs here. It's just difficult to find, especially with a girl you'd want to find it with.
@shailynn- makeout session would be sufficient for me too. I haven't had one of those in the strip club in a LONG time. I'm craving for one of those. Maybe these strippers are intimidated by this young rich black GQ modelesque looking guy who happens to have a huge dick?
I feel myself in same bucket.
Sure, there are some clubs and locations where sex is hard or impossible to come by, but by and large, my 17th birthday set the bar, and that bar has been pretty consistently met ever since.
Once sex acts get involved its no longer a dance but a Extra. Like others i mainly go to clubs to get the sex.
Just like the OP i have clubs i see whitch extras are not sold so i save lots of cash just by stage tipping and spitting game for OTC
@tumblingdice seriously bro, what happened to you. When did you become such a racist? And you used to be such a cool dude too?
Just two way touching and all, nothing wrong with it, but not the best way to go. In San Jose's underground table dancing shows it was all two way touching, and for $1 at a time, right there in the front room.
Always better to play with the girl in the front room.
Paying like $20 for 2 way touching in a booth is not really what I want. Rather get her onto my lap and just hand her $20 without discussing it.
Doing "dances" to me it has always seemed like just a way to flatter a girl, like giving her money just to be nice, money for nothing. Nothing wrong with that, so long as you are being honest about it and not expecting anything.
SJG
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