To spend or not to spend

Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)


Many SCers say it's best to have a preset spending limit per visit and then leave the club once you have reached your spending limit – I think this is good/sound financial advice but don't necessarily think it's good “fun” advice.

I personally hate to stop having a good time at a club or not be able to get dances from a particular dancer I really want b/c I reached my limit for the visit – I rather enjoy myself as much as I can if I'm really having a good visit rather than “head myself off at the pass” b/c I reached my limit (YOLO is what I think) – I actually rather over-spend on a particular visit if I'm having a good time then throttle back and not have as many future visits rather than have more “average visits” per se.

Where do you fall-on on this conundrum?

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just_the_nuts
9 years ago
I've been thinking about this as well. One part in accomplishing this is by leaving quickly on bad visits thus creating a surplus of funds on night's that are going well.
just_the_nuts
9 years ago
@CrazyJoe---> " I think you just make up shit because you're really not doing the things you say you do on here"

For sure, not hard to look at the responses and see who is doing the exact equivalent of SW-style lying & posing.

Completely agree guys. MANG i tell you this board has some idiots.

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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
“... I've been thinking about this as well ...”

Great minds never stop thinking – kudos to you my good Juice mane
Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
“... The fun never ends, that is as long as I'm buying ...”

“I've got, too much, time on my hands”
Ch3ll
9 years ago
I try to set a limit, but don't like to cut myself short either. The limit works best when the visit isn't going so well anyway. However, if the right dancer comes along I'll usually bypass my limit a little. I think it's best just to go in with cash and leave the cards in the car or house. I just go pretty much and base my spending off how the visit is going though. I have a cap if you will though of $300. So far I haven't exceeded my $300 cap on a single visit.
just_the_nuts
9 years ago
My cap i at $300 as well but i do keep a extra $500 in my glove box just in case.

I also totally agree with leaving the credit and debit cards at home. Hell i go one step farther and cut my cards up then freeze them in ice....yep nice and safe
chessmaster
9 years ago
i usually bring 2 or 300 dollars cash and leave after ive spent that...unless i see another stripper i have to have. then i need my credit card to get more money to spend.
JohnSmith69
9 years ago
I take about $1K to most clubs so I'm ready for whatever happens. If it's a good night I might spend it all. Or I might leave with $900. The key is to be ready when the strip club gods bless your efforts, and you cant do that on a budget.

The few times I havent done this I have regretted it. For example the night I met the DS I think I had less than $500 cause I was planning on a slow night. Had to use plastic after I met her.
Subraman
9 years ago
I basically try to behave like a responsible adult, even if it's a super horny drunk responsible adult. 95% of trips, I keep to my limit, then go. I have the basic minimum RDA of self-control, so I don't have to do things like not bring my ATM card, or only bring as much money as I want to spend -- I can't imagine having so little control over myself that I have to leave my ATM card at home to keep my from getting more money, even drunk. I guess if you get pussy crazy, leaving the ATM and credit cards home is better than going broke, but I don't have that problem, and regularly bring everything in my wallet and extra cash, without dipping in.

Anyway, I'm talking about 95% of the time, above. The other 5% of the time, I leave room for awesome spontaneous experiences to happen. Some amazing girl wants to go strip clubbing with me right after her shift and then have sex (and I didn't expect it), or some other awesome spontaneous thing. In those cases, once in a long while when something truly special happens, I'll spend more.

I think the key here is, you want to keep to your budget the vast majority of the time, while having the flexibility to indulge those rare times when something really exciting might happen.

Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I used to leave my ATM card at home; then one night at the SC I had ran out of $$$ and was still soooooo horny that I actually held-up the bar in the same strip-club.
IHearVoices
9 years ago
I take far more to a club than I ever 'plan on' spending, but I never take more than I 'can' spend. I can't ball like some of y'all, but I'm at the point now where I usually have at least $600 walking in and can't imagine spending less than $300. I'm never taking my ATM card inside the club, though: heard too many stories, especially in NO. I'll leave and pay to re-enter first.
just_the_nuts
9 years ago
Papi lol
gawker
9 years ago
I'm staying home this week because I exceeded my limit last week. My current Fave had said she was working 6:30 to 1:00. I told her I'd be there early. I arrived at 6:30 and the evening shift dancers were just getting started. At 7:00 I texted her that I was at the stage. I asked the waitress if she had seen my Fave. No, but there's more than 30 dancers working. At 8:00 I texted are you here working? At 8:05 I bought a drink for an old friend who had given me a really good hummer in VIP years ago. At 8:30 they had a 2for 1 parade of all the dancers. Who comes out but my Fave. I apologized to the hummer and dropped her for the young beauty. An hour later I had to leave and when I got outside my phone chirped with the arrival of 3 texts sent by my Fave who had sent them at 6:30, 7:15, and 8:05 telling me she was running late, please wait, and be there soon.
In the 2 hour wait, I had stage tipped $100, had 3 drinks, 2 sessions from the rub girl and two lap dances with hummer and bought her 2 drinks (Patron & Baileys - yuck)
Bottom line - I spent over $200 while waiting for the main course and then $300 for the entree. Too much.
just_the_nuts
9 years ago
Dont lie gawker^^^ we all know thats just a warm up to you
TxVegas
9 years ago
I don't set a fixed budget, but generally have a guideline of what I intend to spend. But, I take the Forest Gump approach to the club, you never know what you are going to find there, so I try and have enough money no matter what direction my night takes.

I never have used an ATM in a club. I don't want to pay those fees.

I have never used a credit card, as there are tons of stories of tabs gettings out of hand and jacked uo when guys use cards, and I never fancied my chances of contesting a charge there. So, for me, its always cash.
skibum609
9 years ago
If I have to set a limit it means I cannot afford what I am doing. In that case I stay home.
tusclfix
9 years ago
My rule is only spend CASH and never use the club ATM.

I show up with a certain amount of cash but if I'm having a particularly good time, I may leave, get more cash, then show back up.

But I'm not going to start using a CC nor get cash from the club ATM.
san_jose_guy
9 years ago
You don't want to be using the club's ATMs, and you certainly don't want to be using plastic.

But then who am I to talk. Once in San Francisco I went across the street to the bank and had to get some sort of "counter check" or something. It was to get more money out of my account.

Anyway, my girl was advising me on how to do this at the bank. She knew all about it. It took a while. But when I came back she was right there waiting for me. I guess she had watched me go into the bank from the front door. She and the door man were watching to see when I came out.

Okay, but I only did this once.

It is not just a limit for your time at the strip club, it is overall living within your means and recognizing when something like strip clubs or AMPs have become an addiction.

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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
Thinking back, the above mentioned girl was really nice. At first it was, "I don't kiss". Well as she wanted to get more money out of me, she demonstrably reversed herself.

This was long ago when I was just learning.

But as I've explained before, no ejaculation services here. I turned it around back on her with DATY. It turned out being two times of that too.

She gave me her phone number, for OTC. I would classify this one as open, honest, friendly, straight up working girl. She'd of done whatever the club allowed, and then made up the difference OTC.

After we were done I did want to play with another girl. But this first one I sent off with a big bear hug. Except that I think she was afraid I was going to squeeze her too tight or try to carry her off. So beyond a point I just made a bear hug sound. I was squatting down to her height w/ stripper shoes to do this.

If I'd of taken her up on OTC I'm sure she would have been maximum escort grade GFE/MSOG.

SJG
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