Comments by curiositycat (page 2)

Sorry to hear you have had bad experiences with female customers, but i can understand why. The ones you mention, they are in the club for all the wrong reasons. I come into the club to see hot women, amazing poledancing, and get good lapdances. I tip well and I am respectful. I'm guessing it is rare to see unicorns like myself and lopaw and I say this because I am told this by almost every dancer I get private dances from. What is a shame is that at some clubs I am automatically deemed unable to enter the club because of the before mentioned female customers. That upsets me because I come for the reasons clubs exist in the first place. At least give me a chance to prove it before denying me access to beautiful women.

If you go to the ranch let us know how it turns out..I looked into one at a time and there isn't set prices and sounds like involves a selection process in a lobby..I'm not to keen on that idea

I've walked out with, then got in separate cars to meet elsewhere. It varies by club management and usually more cautious places are ones that have been busted before for some reason or another.

I never grope until they tell me to grope or grab my hands and grope themselves with them. Usually works out fine in both cases lol.

I'd prefer her touching me.. the fact that she initiates it is a turn on and if I don't touch I can stay out of trouble.

B) not give a damn..it happens..they give out numbers for slow days

**sigh** I didn't even get to see it. Women in underwear are sexy regardless of style..gstring, boy shorts, boxers mmmm yeah.

If the girl I am eying is being chatted up I usually wait til her time on stage and go up to tip and ask her if she would give me a dance after her time on stage. I haven't been denied yet.. as for being a regular that my cfs sit freely with, I wouldn't have a problem with another PL coming up to her, it's her job and I am happy for her make money. On the other hand if I went out of my way to come see her by her behest and she disappears the whole time I'm there, you best believe I will grab a bunch of dances from someone else.

I appreciate that type of info..I finally got denied access last month because of the escort rule..I think they should give me the benefit of the doubt and see that I spend money and get lappers just like anyone else...but I guess its those few that ruin it for the rest of us...sigh. I didnt write a review similar to the one above where I got denied..but I figure its their loss not mine..plenty of other clubs let me in and I spend accordingly

RIP dancer and I hope they catch whoever did it though I do wonder why they highlighted the fact that she was a dancer considering they had no leads. I don’t recall if media always titles murders based on occupation. .sounds like they are trying to frame dancing in a dangerous light.

Good point skibum609..i think she loved him more than he loved her in this case. I think it is bullshit to change for a person, especially if you don't want to. You just end up resenting them anyway. Sounds like the judgemental guy made her question her views on dancing, it happens. Different opinions come about that make you question your decisions, I think she needs to revisit why she liked dancing to feel better about going back again.

If 600 dollars is equivalent in value to you as an average persons 50 then all the more power to you. However if u saved up for a long while and waited to come up empty, that is rough.

I could relate, I kind of feel like I wouldn't want someone doing things they didnt want to.. id like a bit of passion and desire from them and knowing it's paid kind of makes mixed feelings unless they are an excellent actress lol

I would stay out of it..It is not worth getting involved. As much as you like a dancer, it probably took a lot before the club got fed up enough to fire them. I hear enough about flakiness/lateness/drama I'm surprised there is any dancers left working lol

@soonersam: thanks for the clarification. Cant believe that they would meet someone in a club and think that way. Jealousy is a powerful thing though. @slick:your analogy is great, but perhaps I wont 'eat' the other pizza, just look at it to stay out of trouble heh. @jackslash: that is kind of what I am afraid of. I think she is more comfortsble me going to her club so she can keep an eye on me. I don't want to go to her club because then they label me as hers and its not the same experience. I was going to go to a different one and told her about my plans and she asked to go. Which was fun, but couldn't tell if there was an ulterior motive. @estafador:free snatch is good. Good point, it does make me decide whether looking is worth possibly losing it. @tumbling:when she does get in your face for it, what is her reasoning? okay all in all it sounds like I should go if I want to go and if it causes a problem then I have to decide whether to keep clubbing or keep the girlfriend. I think for now while things are good I'll lay low until I absolutely get the urge to go and just be honest and see what happens.

Papi: yeah I think her unique perspective will be possible that she would be okay with me still clubbing. sooner:hmmm..no I am not saying that at all.. I love that she is a good dancer and I am never possesive of her at work. I am wondering if it is okay for me to still go to strip clubs if I am seeing her/have a gf. She says its ok that I do, but I worry it will cause issues if I do..

I had a slow down because there was some catty girls being bitchy in the club and it was just too much estrogen and drama.. so I took a break for a month until I had the urge again. another time I got too many sob stories that I was tired of talking to dancers.

Ive found weekends have the most girls and best quality..weekdays are hit and miss

Seat of my pants goer..and dependent of fluid funds im willing to lose ha. The only time I have planned a trip is when ive been in withdrawal and set an actual date to finally go back

While sitting close to and with my arm around my CF, a drunk customer creepily came up to us, sat right next to her and proceeded to give us the third degree of our relations and asking if we were interested in going home with him. Another time I went out to the smoke area for some fresh air and was stared at by this guy the whole time. He eventually came up to me and started hitting on me and telling me that I was too pretty to like girls.. I was like WTF, and went back inside to like more girls despite him lol

I haven't got propositions from female customers in the club. I've had some from the male ones though lol. As a woman who frequently goes unescorted to clubs, I haven't had any club turn me away so far..but it might help that I immediately ask for lots of tip money when pay the cover.

Duomaxwell that link is hilarious

phone, sometimes review on a laptop

nice update.. I can't imagine the cattiness that occurs during PMS time from that one. Sounds like the club dodged a bullet from her quitting

I dont think all strippers drink too much..some have even told me they avoid it so they dont do anything stupid. I had one dancer doing lots of shots who then came up to me for a dance..well it was mind blowing because she was horny as hell I guess. She invited me to a swing club that she wanted to check out..she asked me what I thought..I told her I thought she was drunk.