Easy way to pull a stripper from a PL who wants to chat her up?
sofaking87
We've all seen it, a true hottie who has plopped herself down to chat up some PL for long stretches, sometimes even without the dude even buying her a drink. My question is how do you pull her from that PL, and get her to work her magic on you?
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Went to a local club the other night. Hands down the hottest stripper in town and without question the hottest one there sat with me for 6 hours. I bought a grand total of one dance from her and 3 or 4 beers.
Every PL in the place was staring me daggers. They'd tip her when she was on stage and she'd come right back to me.
I Don't know why she enjoyed my company but she did. I might actually even spend some real money on her next time. Lol.
Most of the time the hottie is sitting with a regular who drops big bucks on her even if you don't see it happening. My ATF has a regular who's this old guy who doesn't dance with her at all, but she's making a living off of him. (Funny thing; he was in once when I was so she was splitting her time, and he ended up buying me 5 dances! Nice guy huh!)
In any case, occasionally another PL will send a waitress over to my dancer to let her know someone else is interested. The stripper will either ignore it, or ask me if it's ok if she goes over and see what he wants. Usually I let her provided it's just a quick lap dance, often I don't. But in any case, I think the waitress approach is the best approach.
I hate to burst your stripclub bubble, this being all very exciting for you, but dude......
Dancers choose their customers, customers only "think" they pick their dancers.
You and a dancer have to "click" and they will leave any other PL in the club to be with you (provided they have already made that month's expenses).
90% of getting the hottest dancer in the club is building a relationship with her. (with some money thrown in on the side of course, hey it's her job stupid).
So start cultivating relationships and you will see your success increase. Then you will be the asshole with the hottie every other jealous bastard hates.
As others have said, don't assume she's not making any money just because you don't see it. She might have made it on that visit, be making it later on that visit, slowly getting paid for just company, or just putting in time in a relationship that extends beyond the club.
Also, while its true that the vast majority of the time strippers are all about the money they do occasionally take long breaks and just hang out. Sometimes its with outside friends who come in, coworkers who came in on a day off or before/after their shift, or even occasionally with patrons with whom they genuinely just enjoy spending some time with.
Sending over the waitress is pretty harmless, you may get her for a quick dance or two if she's shooting the shit with friends or an understanding regular. You may also get her attention if she's just taking a break from working the room to try a slow play. You probably won't get her to bail on a regular or even a new investment that looks promising. On the other hand, the cost is low and the risk is low.
If the dancer is with the PL then it's by her choice---respect that. If she wanted to come over to you she would. Just find another dancer.
I simply say to the waitress can you please let x dancer know that I would be interested in getting a dance from her, but if she is busy she can come see me after, or I will see her another time perhaps. I have on more than occasion have the dancer be extra friendly because she was happy to be requested. I only usually do this if I can see the dancer moving around a lot but not really heading my way, not when she is camped out a table.
I agree w/ timbuck – sending a waitress over is almost as intrusive as one walking up themselves.
If you are a traveler and a first timer to a club then it may take some observation time to get the lay of the land. Some of us can read a situation, some of us can't.
I'll take the middle ground here and see both TimBuck's view as well as Dolf suggestion on using the waitress. Papi probably has it right - use eye contact to let her know your interest. If she doesnt respond then move on.
Like Rick and some others say, there is no good way to know why she stays put - economic, personal, other.
Sometimes that PL is a regular that she might not want to piss off, so YMMV.
Sometimes I'll catch a glance from her and toast her from across the room.
Sometimes, another dancer will offer to bring her over.
Waiting for her to notice me is pointless.
Even if the guy she is sitting with isn't buying dances, if she is popular she will have other regulars waiting to get a dance from her. If she doesn't know you then there is no reason for her to leave her current customer to see you.
Now if you are one of her regular customers, then just walking by her and waving is usually enough to get her to stop by.
I have seen it many times over the years, where one of my favorites has a regular customer that comes in about once a month who she will spend hours with in the club sitting at his table, and will give dancers to her other regular customers when her big spending customer is taking a break, and other than visit the stage would not interact with any non regular customers.
One dancer who retired about a year ago, had this regular who would show up once a month and sit with her for hours, and would come just to see her. She would regularly get at least 30 songs from him, at $25 a pop. Most of the time he would just sit down and talk to her or give her a shoulder and back massage, and she rarely had to give him an actual lap dance for more than four songs the entire time.
When this big spender was there, the club would rarely call her to the stage. Unless you were one of her regular customers, she would likely not even stop by even if you asked her. When she saw me, she would stop by and always ask if I was going to get a lot of dances. If I said yes, then she would let him know.
That guy hasn't been back since she retired.
I have been the guy who had a hot dancer or occassionally two or more sitting at his table for 2 or more hours. All she was drinking was a beer. Sometimes two or three if she stayed at my table a long time. I would get a couple of ten dollar table dances of she had been sitting with me for an hour or two. I think she enjoyed my company. She said we were like drinking buddies. I thought she was hot. The problem I occasionally had was getting her to leave. She was slow to take hints that I wanted time alone so that other dancers could dance for me. She got in a habit of sitting with me for 2 to 4 hours almost every time I showed up no matter how crowded the club was. I remember I lost track of time one night. The club was packed. I had 3 dancers sitting at my table at that moment and most tables were full with no dancers. Orqobably only 8 to 11 dancers were in the club and I had 3 just talking at my table.
The one hot dancer was also popular and other dancers often came over. I liked it at times. After a long while it starts seeming like she was like a pussy blocker at times even though there were a couple of dancers that sneaked in table dances with me. I never really figured out why she wanted to sit and talk for so long. Eventually she got the message that I wanted more time alone to get other dances from others. Another dancer who sat with me a long time was about the same age as me and wanted to go out. I didn't get that vibe from the younger dancer. She was more like an air dancer. She was hot too though. I only bought table dances after an hour or two.
If her dances weren't air dances for the most part, I might have spent more on her. The dancer who wanted to go out with me didn't do air dances. She even bought her own drinks. For a while in the club I thought most dancers bought their own or already had one from another table. I thought it was nice to be a regular instead of the guy off the street buying the drinks.