I have been mulling this over for a real long while now but I find it very strange and am scared for my wallet. I have tried the escort service twice in my life (not back to back) and even when the girls both accommodated to recieving the money after sex, I just couldn't stomach fucking them. And I couldn't even smell them. So it ain't the odor (I've met girls who wanted sex but smelled like a skunk's ass and quickly declined because of it). This also happened with the street hoes who I get my head game from. Dont mind dropping the $20 (sometimes a bit more but sometimes a bit less) when I'm dating a girl that won't do that (not gonna dump her because of it). But when they ask if I want to fuck, I say no like the plague. Remember one hoe looked Model good and said forty for cfs. I said yes, but once it came time to stick it in, I just couldn't do it and just had her finish my bj.
On the otherhand, I oddly enough don't mind (compared to the former) dropping damn near $200 on the strippers for good food and lapdances. I could walk in the strip club and just be nonhesitant for lappers through the night without really asking for extras. Do I have a problem or something, because this does not seem normal in the slightest. Some may call me gay if not for the fact I like ass on my dick.
We all have our own idiosyncraticies. I wouldn't sweat that shit. Be you, not the next man. Plus, you're still young. No need to be worrying over paying for extras.
I spend in the club what a quality escort costs too, and it's a no extras club so it's not a substitute. I like fetish friendly escorts so when I p4p it's not like fucking my regular, who's model beautiful but very vanilla. I'm looking for kink.
Don't worry about your feelings about escorts. It's how you feel, and there's no right or wrong to it. If you prefer the SC, then don't spend your money on something you feel bad about.
Agree with the others - pay for and do what you like, or feel you want for whatever reason, and don't worry about it. Right now, I'm enjoying fantastic LDKs, but drawing the line at BBBJs or CFS. Jut a personal choice, and I may change my mind later.
I could relate, I kind of feel like I wouldn't want someone doing things they didnt want to.. id like a bit of passion and desire from them and knowing it's paid kind of makes mixed feelings unless they are an excellent actress lol
Try checking out an escort review site to help avoid the ones with bad hygiene. The Erotic Review is expensive ($30/month) but has saved me a lot of time and money by helping me avoid bad escorts.
As I'm getting older, I give less and less of a fuck what anyone thinks about what I do. Do what makes you happy as long as you're not hurting anyone. I like lap dances, hand jobs or blow jobs better than vaginal intercourse...so what? I'm going to give two shits what someone on the internet says about what I like or don't like...that's just goddam unamerican!
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Don't worry about your feelings about escorts. It's how you feel, and there's no right or wrong to it. If you prefer the SC, then don't spend your money on something you feel bad about.
Depends if you prefer female or male ass on your dick.
Im just crazy.....so dont let guys like me make you feel queer.....your going to out live my fucked up wayz
Lmfao. I probably do. Don't get me wrong bro, I like fucking my girlfriends just something about paying to stick it in the box gives me shivers