To touch or to be touched?

I prefer mutual touching and that is what I get at my favorite clubs.

Mutual touching is preferred of course but if I had to choose b/w the 2 I would choose me touching the dancer – I love to touch, grab; grope, …

Yep mutual touching is preferred, but I guess what I'm asking is if you had to choose one, would it be you touching the dancer or the dancer touching you?

Both as much as POSSIBLE.

Both. The promise of me touching here is a requirement if I'm going to agree to a dance, and the delivery on that promise is the only way to get any more dances.

If I had to choose one or the other I'd rather she did the touching as long as it was hands all over. Tough call though.

Between the two options I'd say me touching her.

I prefer to touch myself.

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Looks like I ain't the only one.

Now touch me, baby
Can't you see that I am not afraid?
What was that promise that you made?
Why won't you tell me what she said?
What was that promise that you made?

@Moto-You made my day.

If I had to choose, let me do the touching of the dancer!

Someone needs to take Ranukam to a club where two way touching and more are available!

Slick, I was a young teen boy when that the "I Touch Myself" video came out and I wanted the lead singer in the worst way. Of course at that age I wanted ANY female in the worst way. I had to get a part time job just to pay for the Kleenex I was going through

Sorry, but I seriously don't understand the question.
Air dance = no touching either way
One-way = she touches you, but you can't paw her
Two-way = mutual touching (her and you)

Nowhere do I see a scenario where you'd be able to paw her but she would not be allowed to touch/grind on you. So, if two-way is available, why would you self downgrade to one-way?

I like touching them. The point of getting lap dances for me.

@electronman- there's plenty of two way touching available in my area, that's not a problem.

Perhaps I should frame this question a little different so that it's clearer. What do you like better, touching the dancer or the dancer touching you?

I prefer "both." Although, I'd say there is something better about touching her since that's not always available in my area.

Like most I also prefer both, but if I had to choose I'd choose her touching me. It's hot for me to watch a dancer exploring my body with her fingers and her lips & tongue.......yowza!!

Excellent question ranukam. Like the others I'd prefer both but if I had to choose one and extras was not part of her touching me I'd go for me touching her. Nothing better than caressing some soft supple breasts and a nice firm ass and hearing her moan from enjoyment. That increases my enjoyment.

If extras are not involved, I'd go with touching her too. Sometimes some lap dances don't feel any better than when a dancer sat on your lap except for what you can feel with your hands.

Me touching her. Me being touched is called sex at home.

I like mutual but the clubs around here all def are grinding. You will def be touched. I've found though that having a hottie grinding on you and not be able to touch them would be ridiculous. I like the way a 21 yr old hardbody feels. Gravity yet to set in and no kids is a wonderful thing. Asked one the other day if I could try her on for size. Wasn't sure if I could fit.

I'd feel greasy if I was the only one but... I wouldn't be happy if I couldn't grab some ass.

I'd prefer her touching me.. the fact that she initiates it is a turn on and if I don't touch I can stay out of trouble.

i like the dancer just grinding me hard and slow. no touching on my part.