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9 years ago
If your wallet is empty and your credit card gets cut up, you've met a ROB.
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9 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I forgot all about "My Fellow Americans"! Excellent buddy/road-trip movie. "Hero" with Dustin Hoffman and "Wag the Dog" were also great social commentary comedies.
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9 years ago
An extra $250 per month could really help pay that car off faster. After that, I'd probably bank it each month, then put that towards an annual vacation -- someplace, anyplace.
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9 years ago
I think I'd call Illinois more of a Great Lake state than a Midwest state. I think I'd also recommend Indianapolis. Most of the clubs there are pretty hands-on, except for the Red Garter, the only downtown strip joint.
Des Moines has some hands-on clubs; course, being a hands-on state, that helps a lot. Minneapolis has a couple of decent clubs, more hands-off than hands-on, but they're still pretty decent.
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9 years ago
I know they aren't allowed at clubs in Winnipeg, Manitoba. It's all probably going to depend on the country and the club and, well, the dancer.
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9 years ago
I have to admit, I like both. The club in Fargo and a couple of clubs in the Twin Cities, I keep on the look out for my regular dancers. But that doesn't stop me from enjoying a bit of a variety. Not only can that variety help keep some sort of spark with the regulars by introducing new ideas and attitudes, but eventually, a couple of those new girls can also become regulars I watch for.
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9 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Yeah, GACA, you can do this. You need to keep reminding yourself of that and, soon enough, the habit of not going to the strip clubs will be strong enough that you won't need to remind yourself anymore. Are there any non-sexual hobbies or interests that you have that you can explore? Have you ever checked into Meetup.com? You might be able to meet some folks with similar interests, something that'll get you out of the house once or twice a week at least.
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9 years ago
Oh, yeah, I give that a thumbs up!
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9 years ago
My folks were faithful through almost 56 years of marriage and probably for who knows how many years of dating beforehand. Mom may have passed away back in August, but I have no doubt Dad will remain faithful to her memory for the rest of his days.
It's really just how people were raised, how seriously they take their vows, and how much they trust and respect each other. Sure, there's been cheating since the concept of marriage and monogamy came into being, but since the sexual revolution back in the '60s and '70s, a lot of people seem to have taken that as permission to slip off the leash every now and again.
The sexual revolution was also a really major reminder that, no, human beings are not monogamous animals. It's hardwired in us to seek out and mate at most every possible time. It's only our social mores that softwired us into believing that we have to be monogamous and faithful, to a crippling and agonizing fault.
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9 years ago
NASA's definitely getting its money's worth out of New Horizons
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9 years ago
"If you don't comply you have to do an hour long VIP with jerikson, you have to go clubbing with SJG all evening and follow his romance system, you have to take Dougster and Rick Dugan out to dinner, or you and tdice have to get dances from his girlfriend."
Geez, wouldn't it be easier and more humane to stick white-hot pokers slowly through my eyes and into my brain while a starving horde of ants ate away at my manhood?
Honestly though, me and my life are so insignificant, it really wouldn't matter. I just won't do it online because I don't feel like getting hit by a deluge of spam, both the bad advertising and the bad pseudo meat byproduct.
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9 years ago
Two grand for 24 hours? Yikes! That's a lot, even for ANYTHING you want, especially for such an unknown and untested commodity. Have you tested her counter-proposal by saying something a bit more over the top, like you want to get a hundred of your best online pals (who you've never met before) lined up for that party?
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9 years ago
Is free pussy worth the price of no privacy and probably having to compromise on everything, including your time?
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9 years ago
I think I'd much rather spend my holidays with Hilary.
http://holidaywithhilary.com/
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9 years ago
OMG LOL
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9 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
That might've been where they held the first "Rocky Horror Picture Show."
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9 years ago
The only social media I use are the forums on a couple of sites, if you call forums "social media."
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9 years ago
Sclvr5005, guess the brain was filling in what it was expecting. I listened a little more carefully to the commercial tonight and, yep, I heard "Oh, jammit."
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9 years ago
I know a woman in the Twin Cities who started dancing at 16 in Hawaii, thanks to a fake ID.
I've also known dancers who were under 21 in the Twin Cities at clubs that served alcohol. The only employees allowed to even bring the drinks to customers had to be 21 or older. It's the same thing here in North Dakota, too.
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9 years ago
And what would happen if we didn't disclose our identities to one TUSCLer? Lose executive bathroom privileges?
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9 years ago
There's one dancer in the Twin Cities who typically greets her regulars with a little bit of a neck and shoulder massage, and it feels great. Her training and talent really show. But it also isn't a regular thing.
Do what you can to avoid lotion. It gets sticky to the touch and to your clothes if either you aren't allowed time to let it dry or if she doesn't take a hot towel to you to wipe it off. There's one therapist here who tends to spackle the stuff on, so I pretty much avoid her; add in that she's just an average masseuse on her best days, and it just isn't worth the price.
Try to get the masseuse to use non-scented oils. They don't stick, the skin absorbs them a lot faster, and, there should be no scent to arouse suspicions.
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9 years ago
Have to agree with the others: It's sounding like she's gotten to the point that she's starting to take you for granted. It's also sounding like you're about to the point where you feel (somewhat) obligated to pay her what she asks for. These are bad points to be at.
It's time to scale back with her -- see her less often and for a lower price point -- and to spread the wealth with some of the other ladies, in her club and others.
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9 years ago
Any club where the dancers are willing to talk to me, up for grinding on me, and, for the most part at least, attractive.
As for a club type, I think I'm more comfortable in more of a blue-collar club. They aren't so rich that I have feel like I have to put on airs, and they aren't so dive-y that I'm worried I'll get jumped in the parking lot.
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9 years ago
Her face really is very pretty, and I don't think her ass is *too* big or disproportionate. I'd probably have to see her in person to get a better idea of yay or nay.
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9 years ago
You're not going to twerk for her, I hope.