Consistency vs Variety

11/9/2015 11:19:43 AM

When it comes to strippers, which do you value more: consistency or variety? In other words, would you rather have a couple of very good, very consistent, long term providers, or wound you rather play with a wide variety of strippers without developing any strong attachments or relationships with any particular girls? I imagine we all like some of both, but which is more important to you -- having a wide variety of strippers or having a few reliable girls who you can consistently count on for what you need? Why?

I lean heavily towards consistency. As my DS stories demonstrate, when I get an awesome dancer I do my best to line her up long term as one of Johns girls. I like knowing that I'm going to get exactly what I want, from a girl that massively turns me on. Plus I like getting to know the strippers and delving temporarily into their lives. I know it's all for money but it's often a much better GFE if you know her well.

Nevertheless, I recognize the advantages of variety. So I'm trying to branch out more. This week I've got a date with a new redhead in between dates with my regulars. That is what got me thinking about this topic. I almost didn't go after her because what I have now is so good and keeps me busy. But I think I need better balance and more variety in my strip clubbing. I can't fuck all of the cute ones who would be willing. No time for that. But I do want to have the flexibility to try out a new one here and there just for the excitement, especially redheads.

Thoughts?

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rockstar666

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9 years ago

Both! I love the easy relationships of my regulars, but I also go some nights when they're not there so I can find new thrills. I can't put one over the other.

Clackport

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9 years ago

Variety. I love all different types of women too much. I can't limit myself to just one or two girls.

Papi_Chulo

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9 years ago

Variety for me – even w/ civvies I often got bored sooner than later – even if I have a very good time w/ a dancer on a visit; I almost never want to be w/ her the next time I see her and want somebody new – I will usually want to be w/ her again if it's been a while – maybe at least a month.

Variety for me – even w/ civvies I often got bored sooner than later – even if I have a very good time w/ a dancer on a visit; I almost never want to be w/ her the next time I see her and want somebody new – I will usually want to be w/ her again if it's been a while – maybe at least a month.

Even on a particular visit; I often cut a good dance set shorter than I have-to so I can sample something/everything else – sometimes even during a dance, even if the dance is good, my PL eye will be wandering checking out the scene/other-targets (not always but def happens) – my SCing has very very little to do with anything emotional and it's 99.9% just physical particularly since more often than not I normally get very good mileage from almost every dancer in the black dives I hit (so it's not as if I'm afraid of losing a good-mileage dancer b/c the next-one may not be as good) – I def always want to see what's behind door #2.

shadowcat

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9 years ago

Overall I prefer consistency but a change of scenery is welcome once in awhile.

JohnSmith69

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9 years ago

Rech you're a funny little pervert sometimes. I like you better since you stopped being a troll. When do we get pics of the twins. I want twins.

just_the_nuts

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9 years ago

Rech that was funny mane

just_the_nuts

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9 years ago

In short Both but its a difficult balance

Papi_Chulo

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9 years ago

I prefer consistent variety

just_the_nuts

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9 years ago

Last few years i leaned on concintancy witch gives better sex

Next few years feels like traveling and varity witch will bring fun strange

shadowcat

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9 years ago

Damn Papi. Talk about being a Politician. :)

Mistah_Fetti_Morbuxxx

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9 years ago

Variety is the spice of life for me, but I do like to have at least one or two reliable girls that I know will take good care of me.

Papi_Chulo

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9 years ago

^ it was inspired by Yogi Berra - "it's like deja vu all over again"

san_jose_guy

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9 years ago

I've been quite surprised by how many of the regular posters on this board don't keep it going with their proven quality providers.

But on the other hand, there is still a great deal to be said for that ultimate power trip of See, Want, Get. Strip clubs appeal to this visual aspect.

SJG

JamesSD

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9 years ago

I think if I ever start visiting HKB, where mileage is high and prices are reasonable, I'll chase variety.

But in a relatively low mileage city, consistency is nice. Knowing my LDs won't be 90% air is nice.

twentyfive

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9 years ago

I like both consistency is great you know what you are going to get , but variety is impotant it keeps you from getting bored Luckily for me I have several different clubs to go to so,I feel like I have the best of both. I do have a few clubs out of my usual where I rarely go and I hit them when I want Strange.

Estafador

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9 years ago

If it comes to sex, then I'd rather have a few consistent strippers. But then again, sex with strippers don't exist in NY....unless you throwing elephant dollars and that's negligible.

jackslash

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9 years ago

Consistency. I like to find a few high quality strippers that I can rely on ITC and OTC.

san_jose_guy

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9 years ago

I can say that in everything I've done I've been looking for value. So that means finding quality providers. So I've gone for consistency.

Likewise I do like to know the women, and that has meant trying to stay in touch.

In the future I will have ways to stay in touch built in, my own organization.

So then I will be more going on the See, Want, Get system, a hormonal jungle logic.

Since they will be part of my own organization, the staying in touch will be already built in, so I'll be able to just run on spontaneous impulse.

SJG

Subraman

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9 years ago

I'm more of an ATF guy than variety guy these days, though 10 years ago I was exactly the reverse. I don't think "consistency" is what draws me to this, though. I think there's a lot more to an ATF than consistency, which sounds almost like stuck-in-a-rut non-adventurous boring to me. I like ATFing because I get better value than her non-regulars, I often get more mileage than her non-regulars (and I"m personally not interested in a girl who'll do everything for everyone), I know her better and sex is better with someone I genuinely like, and -- the very opposite of consistency -- the trust and closeness can lead to some heart-pounding adventures I wouldn't otherwise have with a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am stripper.

skibum609

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9 years ago

I like Variety because some women swallow and some spit and who does which always amazes me.

gawker

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9 years ago

I've definitely been one for consistency but that's changing. I just used escorts when traveling for about 10 years. Most were very good company, but frankly it was very impersonal. Then I met my ATF in a strip club.and after a period of adjustment she met my every need. I figure we've had sex over 200 times and she's been taking me ( and my money) for granted lately and I've met a couple of others that have piqued my interest, so I'm trying a new direction.

motorhead

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9 years ago

If i told you how few dancers I've been with in the past 6 or 7 years, I doubt anyone believe me.

I like consistency and I miss my ATF.

ButterMan

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9 years ago

Consistency I'd say. But after a while it all gets old.

mjx01

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9 years ago

Consistency.

ButterMan

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9 years ago

You need a good consistent team of about 3. that way you have both.

lopaw

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9 years ago

Variety.
If I learn her name then I've known her too long already and its time to move on.

reignfire

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9 years ago

Like tlkDo, I also like a consistent team of three dancers that I can always count on to give me what I want but variety just in case I want to add or replace one on my team.

rh48hr

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9 years ago

I prefer consistency. But like others there are times variety is needed.

PhantomGeek

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9 years ago

I have to admit, I like both. The club in Fargo and a couple of clubs in the Twin Cities, I keep on the look out for my regular dancers. But that doesn't stop me from enjoying a bit of a variety. Not only can that variety help keep some sort of spark with the regulars by introducing new ideas and attitudes, but eventually, a couple of those new girls can also become regulars I watch for.

DandyDan

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9 years ago

My initial response is that if I want consistency, I'll go to one of my regular clubs and see the usual girls I see. If I want variety, I'll go outside that circle.

If I have to choose, I prefer variety. However, if I am in one of my regular clubs, it's just easier to go with an old reliable dancer than a newbie, who may turn out to be awful. At my current favorite club, I try to get a new dancer for the last lap dance, but more often than not lately, she just doesn't cut it, which can be for a variety of reasons.

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