Comments by johnbrwon001 (page 2)

Nope. And if the guy is stupid and jealous enough to come after you you're perfectly within your rights to put him down hard and fast.

I can only imagine the Albuquerque police are so caught up on their other cases especially the murders, burglaries, robberies, assaults etc. that they can devote time and resources to going after a man who did little more than hook up consenting adults for an exchange of services for money. And as far as "all of those impacted by the situation" by exposing the clients they are destroying far more relationships than if they had left well enough alone since most cheaters are rarely looking to dissolve their relationship.

Clubs are usually so dark that you have plausible deniability if it came down to it. Of course if you use your credit or bank card within the club then you can forget plausible deniability.

It works the other way too. The best topic of conversation with a new dancer is sex since that can put her in the mood and if you can talk a good game will get her almost as hot and bothered as you are.

Face and body as a package though the body takes precedence. A dancer with a great body can make up for a so-so face but even the prettiest face can't make a chunky dancer attractive to me. Which is not to say I don't like curvy dancers but dancers who are stocky and without hips I see enough of in everyday life that I don't need that in a strip club.

Not looking for anything long term or any kind of commitment from the dancers so their relationship matters little to me. Most dancers are pretty honest and upfront about their bfs or hubbies and most sound like complete losers. As long as they're willing to make me happy that's all I care about.

Sorry can't help with your photo upload problem Stilleto25 but always appreciate your posts. I've not run across too many shill-like posts and like Player11 I enjoy hearing about things from the other side of the pole especially details about what goes on backstage, in the dressing room and with management.

You had business dealings with her so you can speak to that at least and if you're so inclined the impression she made one you as someone who is kind, conscientious, etc. Just because she fucked you for money doesn't mean you have to ditch her. She's still a human being.

What's funny is that even if a particular dancer is not your type she's usually still attractive in a conventional sense and can win you over easily enough with personality, sexy moves etc. The girls I don't find attractive never look any better to me no matter what they do.

Like chukko I like to tip where it has the most impact i.e. at the rail to get the attention of a dancer. If it's a dancer I want personal attention from later a fiver is usually enough to get her attention. And for LDs I figure the best tip is to get another LD or go to the VIP room, but usually these are the same girls I've already given a few bucks to at the rails or on table dances.

Took a group of guys once and many of them hadn't been in a club before. They mostly sat quiet and respectful while I got progressively more sloshed finishing off a bottle of vodka I'd snuck in (it was a dry club). So if anyone was the asshole it was me but I think I managed to keep my obnoxiousness pretty toned down. One of my buddies did tell me though that I stank like a still so I imagine the dancers weren't too happy about that.

I was in Indy and bored and checked out a few clubs which were holes-in-the-wall and a waste of time. Then I found tuscl and saw that Brad's Brass Flamingo was in the top ten which was weird to me since you can't get fully nude in Indiana but when I actually got there and had a dancer basically took my hands and molested herself with them I figured out why. Also stopped by Hip Hugger in Kokomo due to tuscl. Eventually I want to hit Adelita's. Have friends in the San Diego area whom I've visited but back then I didn't know about Adelita or Hong Kong so never made the border crossing. If I ever visit them again I know I'll be spending some time south of the border.

Ohio? I've been to clubs in Cleveland, Columbus and Cincinnati but never found anything to write home about. Must be going to the wrong clubs.

It used to weird me out when guys brought girls into clubs but then I did it once and it's actually fun and funny to hear what a girl has to say about the attractiveness of dancers and their bodies. And I've found that dancers are a lot more lenient with female customers as far as groping on stage, so it's actually a turn on.

"The statement also said the Playboy brand was inconsistent with a community anti-pornography campaign the network was promoting." And if there's one thing Utahans know it's their pornography. http://www.pcworld.com/article/160566/utah_online_porn_capital_of_america.html

I would just straight out ask to see her naked and if you could take some nude pics. It's not illegal and if she's a cop she probably won't go for it. She'd also know you weren't a cop since you're not asking for sex directly. Not yet, anyway.

Seems to me that if maintaining good relations with all the dancers is a priority then it wouldn't be a bad idea to spend some time at the tip rail and spread some wealth around.

You can't ask a trick if she's a cop since she's under no obligation to tell the truth if she's working undercover but you can ask her to strip for you or to pose for naked pics since most likely a cop wouldn't go that far and it's not illegal to pose naked for money. I think I heard that bit of advice on Manswers.

Most dancers I've talked to were pretty up front about their dancing and needing to pay the bills to support kids, deadbeat dads, etc. The few that I've met claiming to go to school actually knew a thing or two about what they said they were studying. I treat dancers like any first date and give them the benefit of the doubt unless they give me reason to do otherwise.

It sounds like your Mexican honey might be thinking of you as more than a client which is bad news if you want to keep your relationship professional. Maybe an honest conversation like, "I like you very much but I'm not your boyfriend. We can have fun together but not if you're going to be like this."

I'm not asking for names although they do pop up in some reviews. I'm more interested in specific mileage and whether the girls are up for ITC or OTC. One person's "good time" might be another person's "meh" but if a review states a lot of two-way contact with boob fondling and petting the kitty then I have a much better idea what to expect.

You'd think a lawyer would be a little more careful about how she received her "gifts". I assumed most private escorts knew better than to ask directly for payment for services or receipt of same. If she was foolish enough to get caught then I would certainly not want to hire her for her legal expertise. Her other services, on the other hand...

Only recently started submitting reviews myself but I thought thoroughness was one of the guidelines for writing up a place although I can see how someone just giving an update to a club he already reviewed might skip particulars he already covered. Anyway I always appreciate more info the more detailed the better. It drives me a little nuts when reviewers say they "had a good time" with a wink and a smile but don't specify what that meant.

Agreed with gillydon. If you want to keep in touch with folks you don't want knowing too much about you personally, e.g. strippers, blind dates, mistresses etc. then having a second FB account under a pseudonym or nickname is a good idea. I'm surprised people put any kind of personal info on the interwebs but that's just me being paranoid.

All the clubs I've been to have been cool, usually a little below room temp. I always just assume it's for the dancers' comfort while they're on stage but it still doesn't keep some of them from sweating. I'd rather have a cool dancer I have to warm up than a sweaty one who's damp. If I were naked too then the dampness wouldn't bother me and even be hot but on my clothes it just feels uncomfortable.