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13 years ago
I prefer long hair more for how it feels than how it looks.
When you're on your back and she's going down on you and her hair caresses your thighs or when you're reclining on the sofa and she's licking your ear and her hair brushes your naked chest or when she's straddling you and you have to brush her hair away from her neck so you can get access to it...
discussion comment
13 years ago
A good dancer won't say "no" outright because like any good service provider she wants your business and if that means stringing you along so she can indulge your hopes and fantasies while she gets paid for her time then that's just good business.
Anyway I thought the whole point of going to these clubs was to find girls who weren't looking for any kind of commitment beyond what was in your wallet.
discussion comment
13 years ago
I would check out the Milwaukee club reviews on this site.
discussion comment
13 years ago
I get the feeling some people are purposefully vague not to be coy but to protect whatever good thing they think they've got.
If that's true then a specific mileage rating would defeat that purpose.
What competing site are you referring to where they go into such ratings details? The Erotic Review?
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13 years ago
mmdv26, I have an older friend who wasn't a 60s child but came of age in the 70s before AIDS and never used a rubber with any of his girlfriends.
Of course anything you could catch back then (except herpes, of course) could be cured with a shot of antibiotics which a high-school friend of his needed after catching the clap from his promiscuous girlfriend (balls swelled up to grapefruits).
But pretty much everyone I know now uses a rubber pretty regular even though the chance of catching AIDS for a non-gay, non drug-using guy is pretty damn low.
Still, like others have been posting, if a strange girl lets you bareback her chances are she's letting others do the same and you have no idea about her other partners.
Damn, it seems like sex used to be so much simpler before AIDS, and now we've got to worry about HPV too (though we've got a vaccine for that).
I should find an AIDS cure or vaccine just for my own damn sex life.
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13 years ago
I guess I should have been more specific and said barebacking with a stranger whether you paid for it or it was a one night stand.
If you're with someone you trust who either you know practices safe sex when not with you or is monogamous with you then barebacking is much less of an issue.
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13 years ago
The OP does have a good point because most of the time I use "private dance" to mean "lap dance", i.e. contact, but I have been to places where the girl will give you a lap dance with bikini bottoms on but once they come off it becomes an "air dance".
Then again there are other clubs where the girls will provide full contact even with their bottoms off and that is always better.
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13 years ago
I've had two dancers kiss me after meeting them and getting dances from them for the first time and both times I like to think it's because I have a talented tongue and hands and gave back as good as I got.
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8 years ago
Great advice!
Speaking from a customer perspective, I've spent time with all types of dancers, and even if I have a specific type, a friendly and engaging personality is probably the most beautiful attribute a dancer can have.
Conversely, I've seen many strikingly beautiful dancers with killer bodies who turned me off with their aloof and bored attitudes.
The suggestion about eye contact is spot on, and reminds me of one of the most memorable dancers I ever saw. I barely remember her body or face, but will never forget the way she eye-fucked me from the stage. Didn't get a private dance from her, but the way she looked at me like a jungle cat looking at something especially tasty was one of the most intimate and electric connections I ever felt with a dancer.
One question I always have is how dancers deal with smelly and/or unhygienic customers. I always make a point of showing up to a club like I would an important date, and a lot of dancers have commented on how nice and clean I smell, leaving me to wonder just how gross the average customer is.
Of course on the flip side I've come across dancers who maybe didn't have time to wipe or deodorize before dancing for me, which I didn't notice earlier but when writhing against each other becomes something unavoidable. In those cases I try to gently position the dancer in such a way that minimizes my closeness to whatever was offending me.
Anyway, thanks for the great write-up and perspective from the other side, so to speak!
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13 years ago
santiago you're absolutely right that society is puritanical when it comes to our private lives but absolutely sex-crazed in the public and commercial spheres. It's fucked-up, backwards and while both sexes suffer females get the worst of it.
kumasdaisy, just wanted to join in the chorus of thanks for sharing your insights and personal experience and also to ask what you're studying. In college I studied a subject I love but then went back to school for an advanced degree in something more useful.
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13 years ago
I always thought a college prostitution ring would be a great win-win for students not just as customers but also as sex providers, both male and female.
Those who have money can fund the education of those who don't and everyone's getting laid. What could be better than that?