scatterbrain brings up a good point. If I see her from behind, hair would be first like newmark. Why, well if it is long, jet black, straight, and shiny there is a chance that it is on the head of an Asian dancer.
1.face- this is easily the most important thing, she has to have a cute face.
2.then, overall body type.
3.then, ass, i'm an ass man so that's important.
4.then tits, i'm not that picky about these AS LONG as they aren't really small
5.then piercings and tats- piercings i don't mind, but too many tats is a bad, bad thing.
6.thing i care least about is costume- that doesn't matter to me much at all
If she is on stage, I am drawn to her dancing (true!). If she has a fluid grace and sensuality and can do a little pole work, I will quickly move from the back seats to the stage. If the stage show is outstanding, I quickly start tipping and let her know that I am open for VIP. Eyes, hair, roundness and firmness of ass, and personality all matter. If these are all good, then I can overlook some fake tits.
Since the poster said what do you first notice instead of what are you looking for, here's my order:
3 - ass since I'm an ass man. that doesn't mean a big ass, just I like a woman that can have a big or small, toned or soft, as long as it's not completely flat
7 - costume or lack there of. The less clothes, the more I notice you.
5 - definitely notice your body afterwards. Not drawn to really big girls, but also don't like the unhealthy looking skinny
2 - tits. Like all types of NATURAL tits. I typically ignore girls that have fakes unless I know from others that they give a good dance.
1 - face. Not a make or break though, all i care about is how well you dance. You can be a perfect 10 but give a horrible air dance
6 - tattoos/piercings. doesn't really matter to me, I don't pay attention to it.
4 - legs. never understood why guys care about legs or feet, but I'm sure I have fetishes that other guys don't understand either
- i've never cared about legs either, as you can see because that's the one thing i forgot on my list lol.
- the other thing i agree with is, number 1.....you're right about that, a girl can be drop dead gorgeous, but that doesn't mean she knows how to move or give a good lap dance.
The eyes on my ATF was the first thing I saw as she walked by. I was hooked in the first second. It wasn't till I got to talk to her to find out that the rest of her wasn't bad either.
5 - I notice body first, sometimes its dark and you can't always make out the face as well if they are walking at a distance. If it meets my criteria, Then I move on to ...
1 - Face - I have sometimes seen the body and been attracted and then had the face completely change my mind (all about the fantasy).
2 - Tits - I usually like some nice big funbags to play with, but I have been known to get a dance or two from some of the less endowed ladies if they had other things that caught my attention.
3 - Ass - A nice round booty is always welcome.
Then 4 (like a nice long pair), 6 (the less the better), and 7 (could care less about the outfit unless it is ridiculous, the outfit should be coming off shortly)
I notice whether or not her body is the RIGHT type. Overly large or freakishly skinny? I don't bother to investigate further. Fake tits? I don't bother to investigate further. Doesn't matter what else there is -- amazingly beautiful face, legs, hair, breasts, whatever ... I don't care, unless she FIRST has the sine qua non -- properly proportioned non-obese body. I don't find that very often. Small girlish and non-obese is better. Then the rest of the characteristics are just extra consideration.
Face and body as a package though the body takes precedence. A dancer with a great body can make up for a so-so face but even the prettiest face can't make a chunky dancer attractive to me.
Which is not to say I don't like curvy dancers but dancers who are stocky and without hips I see enough of in everyday life that I don't need that in a strip club.
Sure would be interesting to me if some of the ladies would answer the question, customers AND dancers. You know they evaluate their competition for our $'s.
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5. body type-in that order
for me, it would go...
1.face- this is easily the most important thing, she has to have a cute face.
2.then, overall body type.
3.then, ass, i'm an ass man so that's important.
4.then tits, i'm not that picky about these AS LONG as they aren't really small
5.then piercings and tats- piercings i don't mind, but too many tats is a bad, bad thing.
6.thing i care least about is costume- that doesn't matter to me much at all
Unless, of course, she's wearing a cheerleader outfit...
3 - ass since I'm an ass man. that doesn't mean a big ass, just I like a woman that can have a big or small, toned or soft, as long as it's not completely flat
7 - costume or lack there of. The less clothes, the more I notice you.
5 - definitely notice your body afterwards. Not drawn to really big girls, but also don't like the unhealthy looking skinny
2 - tits. Like all types of NATURAL tits. I typically ignore girls that have fakes unless I know from others that they give a good dance.
1 - face. Not a make or break though, all i care about is how well you dance. You can be a perfect 10 but give a horrible air dance
6 - tattoos/piercings. doesn't really matter to me, I don't pay attention to it.
4 - legs. never understood why guys care about legs or feet, but I'm sure I have fetishes that other guys don't understand either
you made some good point that i agree with
- i've never cared about legs either, as you can see because that's the one thing i forgot on my list lol.
- the other thing i agree with is, number 1.....you're right about that, a girl can be drop dead gorgeous, but that doesn't mean she knows how to move or give a good lap dance.
1 - Face - I have sometimes seen the body and been attracted and then had the face completely change my mind (all about the fantasy).
2 - Tits - I usually like some nice big funbags to play with, but I have been known to get a dance or two from some of the less endowed ladies if they had other things that caught my attention.
3 - Ass - A nice round booty is always welcome.
Then 4 (like a nice long pair), 6 (the less the better), and 7 (could care less about the outfit unless it is ridiculous, the outfit should be coming off shortly)
2 - big, natural
2 - C cup, natural
2 - B cup, natural
2 - all other naturals
2 - enhanced (only if I am drunk)
That about does it for me.
So, I'd go like this:
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and 6 and 7 are almost entirely beside the point.
Which is not to say I don't like curvy dancers but dancers who are stocky and without hips I see enough of in everyday life that I don't need that in a strip club.