Dancer Asking Me For A Character Reference
Friday, June 17, 2011 3:01 AM
Last summer I got involved in a bit of drama with a dancer I saw for some OTC action. My actions with her in an Alberta SC got her blackballed. I felt guilty and gave her cash to cover her lost income. She used the cash wisely - enrolled in a technical institute in an industrial instrumentation technology course. The girl has just completed her first year of the course and is seeking a summer job. She has asked me for a character reference to add to her resume.
I had one romp with her when I came back to Canada in March; but the truth is: I really don't a thing about her character. Do I write an innocuous, bland reference for her? A glowing paean? Decline her request?
I have two concerns. I am an employer and I take the matter of employee screening and hiring very seriously. I am also a horndog and do not want to lose the services of this darling in the future.
Advice, please.
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