I have been seeing strippers ITC for over 15 years. But I am fairly new to the OTC game. In January I met my Mexican honey on several occasions OTC and she was great. I returned to Mexico in April and scheduled two more OTC visits with her. She was a complete train wreck each time. Way too much drama!
Last weekend I arranged a date through a Tijuana escort agency. The whole experience was great!! The lady arrived on time and performed as promised. She was appropriately dressed and sober. Very professional. I know this is not enough experience to draw any conclusions. So I am wondering what you guys think?
It sounds like your Mexican honey might be thinking of you as more than a client which is bad news if you want to keep your relationship professional.
Maybe an honest conversation like, "I like you very much but I'm not your boyfriend. We can have fun together but not if you're going to be like this."
My admittedly limited experience suggests that escorts are way preferable to strippers. They have a system set up so all the suggestive talk, cajoling, scheming, etc., is removed. You schedule them for the time you want, show up, do the deed, pay the agreed upon price, and you're on your way. Which is what you want from a stripper anyway, so why go through the hassle?
I've got to stand up for strippers. You get to see them and talk to them before you buy, and you get to judge their looks and how much you would be willing to pay. Escorts, on the other hand, must be contacted over the phone or internet, and they may not match their photos.
I agree with Jack however my current fav who I meet otc I met at a strip club. I did her both itc and otc and now she no longer strips but has reg job in insurance and does escort with me. She is very good in bed and tells me "I would rather do this" (see me for sessions - escort work) than work at a Strip Club. She is married and also has a profile on SA. Most of the other girls at the club (extras friendly) prefer to do itc. Basically they use the club as a whorehouse.
ECCIE is a great site for both SC Review and Escort Reviews. Many of the Hobbyists there prefer meeting escorts. Otc with strippers as with any provider varys between each girl. On ECCIE there are many horror stories about lousy escorts too.
Whether escort or stripper performance can vary between each girl. Having done a lot of them over the last several years you have to sort thru the roll and pluck out that gem specimen as a keeper. The dicussion boards on ECCIE can give you a good insight into these issues. Another site that is a source of providers is SeekingArrangement.com or SA. Many of these gals are civilian gals wanting to get in the game but there are many providers working off this site too.
The whole shop, meet, talk, and often even try ITC before you buy aspect of strippers can't be beat. Escorts, based on comments I've seen elsewhere, can be a real crapshoot, with out of date and photoshopped pictures as common as current, real ones.
Strippers, at least locally, also look to be less expensive over the long run. I've seen lots of ads for hourly rates that double or triple what I can usually negotiate for at least a couple of hours, if not significantly longer.
The down sides? Unreliability, of course, but this is mitigated a great deal by the fairly common ability to try them out in the club before pulling the trigger on trying to meet up. The drama and bait and switch problems can also be avoided by spending time in the club. Having to spend time in a club can also be a problem, if you don't *have* the time, but numerous posters on the site have related ways to ameliorate that problem as well.
There obviously are people for whom and circumstances for which escorts are a better option, and I won't even say that will never be true for *me*, but it hasn't been true yet.
biggb011 - While Adelita's is excellent, not all of the girls are as eager to please as an escort might. An escort might be cool with MSOG too, whereas that isn't going to fly in Adelitas. One thing about AB (and HK), when you take a girl for arriba (sex) by default you are with her until she makes you cum (once) or 30 minutes are up. Some of the girls will stay and chat with you till the very end (these are the real keepers) but most won't. This is fine with me but for some minute men that could really suck. I could see where an escort could be worth considering, given all of this. But Adelita's is still a very amazing place in its own right.
Many escorts are former strippers themselves. Or are current strippers making some dough on the side. Best is to find an escort you like - stay low key with the cash - and encourage her to introduce you to girls who are just trying out escorting. If you are their first hookup and you get the digits you can stay involved with them even as they decide not to do escorting after all.
With low mileage in OH, what works for me is to follow strip club evening with visit to escort for 1/2 hour - already had couple hours of foreplay!
There's advantages to both. With escorts you know what you are getting in terms of service and price if you use a reputable agency or a well reviewed girl. From my experience the downside to booking an escort over there is price, some girls seem to charge way too much compared to comparable girls that are strippers and do OTC. And some girls that are working as escorts shouldn't really be doing so.
snake, LMAO, thanks! finding a stripper who will do OTC is a crap shoot. some clubs have very strict rules about asking for it, or dancers offering it. the result is usually either the stripper getting kicked out of the club, or the customer getting banned, so be sure before you ask. if it was a case of just wanting a fast fuck for money, I'd go with an escort. if you're visiting her ("incall"), and don't like what you see once the door opens, you can always say 'Thanks, but no thanks!' and book. you can see the stripper, sure enough, but you don't know if she's any good in bed, whether she'll even *try* to be good in bed, or (worst of all) how she'll react afterwords. I mean, is it worth getting laid by a good-looking stripper if she starts getting as the OP's dancer did? escorts, it's "find them, fuck them, forget them", end of story.
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last commentMaybe an honest conversation like, "I like you very much but I'm not your boyfriend. We can have fun together but not if you're going to be like this."
ECCIE is a great site for both SC Review and Escort Reviews. Many of the Hobbyists there prefer meeting escorts. Otc with strippers as with any provider varys between each girl. On ECCIE there are many horror stories about lousy escorts too.
Whether escort or stripper performance can vary between each girl. Having done a lot of them over the last several years you have to sort thru the roll and pluck out that gem specimen as a keeper. The dicussion boards on ECCIE can give you a good insight into these issues. Another site that is a source of providers is SeekingArrangement.com or SA. Many of these gals are civilian gals wanting to get in the game but there are many providers working off this site too.
The whole shop, meet, talk, and often even try ITC before you buy aspect of strippers can't be beat. Escorts, based on comments I've seen elsewhere, can be a real crapshoot, with out of date and photoshopped pictures as common as current, real ones.
Strippers, at least locally, also look to be less expensive over the long run. I've seen lots of ads for hourly rates that double or triple what I can usually negotiate for at least a couple of hours, if not significantly longer.
The down sides? Unreliability, of course, but this is mitigated a great deal by the fairly common ability to try them out in the club before pulling the trigger on trying to meet up. The drama and bait and switch problems can also be avoided by spending time in the club. Having to spend time in a club can also be a problem, if you don't *have* the time, but numerous posters on the site have related ways to ameliorate that problem as well.
There obviously are people for whom and circumstances for which escorts are a better option, and I won't even say that will never be true for *me*, but it hasn't been true yet.
With low mileage in OH, what works for me is to follow strip club evening with visit to escort for 1/2 hour - already had couple hours of foreplay!
Why are you guys talking about hockey?
finding a stripper who will do OTC is a crap shoot. some clubs have very strict rules about asking for it, or dancers offering it. the result is usually either the stripper getting kicked out of the club, or the customer getting banned, so be sure before you ask. if it was a case of just wanting a fast fuck for money, I'd go with an escort. if you're visiting her ("incall"), and don't like what you see once the door opens, you can always say 'Thanks, but no thanks!' and book. you can see the stripper, sure enough, but you don't know if she's any good in bed, whether she'll even *try* to be good in bed, or (worst of all) how she'll react afterwords. I mean, is it worth getting laid by a good-looking stripper if she starts getting as the OP's dancer did? escorts, it's "find them, fuck them, forget them", end of story.
Personally this is a huge thing for me, maybe not for others.