I always feel like somebody's watching me...and I have no privacy.

Okay, this is just an opinion piece. A few years ago I was frequenting a nice club in northern Columbus, Oh.  I had just changed jobs and received my unused vacation pay.  I was on a bit of a bender, and I would go every few weeks at night.  At the time the "pastie law" had not been enacted, so the clubs were much friskier and fun.  I approached and started getting dances with Ocean (name changed), who was skinny with long, black, wavy hair. I think she was multiracial, but I never found out as we didn't talk much.  In fact, the first 2 for 1 plus 1 more we did, she only said a few words. I knew it was going to be fun one minute into the first song. I was being a gentleman with man hands to the side while she was doing cowgirl action. Then she grabs them and puts them on her butt cheeks.   After the song she switches around and does her routine. Since I was sporting major wood I asked her to ride again. The whole time I'm complimenting her and really enjoying myself. She starts whispering that she's getting wet. I demand proof, and she goes into her panties and comes out with greasy fingers. I mock a mouth motion like I'm going to suck them and she quickly puts them in her mouth! Being totally turned on I say, "you've got me so hot, let's do another song after the special. If you can cum I'll make it worth your while."  Ocean smiles and goes back to cowgirl, and I mean really rough riding. I grab her cheeks and help position her and get the pressure right. About halfway through the song she's sounding like a porno, and then pow! Orgasm.  She's was shaking, breathing hard, sweating and moaning. I was totally pleased with myself that this happened. It would have been great if I reached the same conclusion, but dry humping has never gotten me there.  After catching her breath she said that she hasn't cum like that in months. I'm assuming that to be SS, but I'm pleased.   Predictably the DJ calls her to the stage right as our song ends. Ocean is totally disheveled and she can barely get dressed. She shakily makes it on stage halfway through the song.   I chat with her after her stage set and then take off.  For a while i sought out this experience with other dancers, with varying results.  Haven given my wife hundreds of orgasms and a few girlfriends a couple dozen, I think I can spot a fake. I have been insulted a half dozen times with GFs, and about as many with dancers.  I revisited Ocean a few weeks later and was treated to another great ride. Only this time she was with another regular and couldn't hang with me after our 3 songs. While I'm enjoying half of the afterglow with a drink, I'm approached by another dancer, Skye, who heard Ocean's loud moaning. She says that I must have a big one (yada yada SS) to make Ocean act like that. Then she drops the bomb: "you know her boyfriend works here, right?" Me: "What?? No. Who is he?" She laughs and says, "dance with me and I'll tell you." I said, "deal." Skye wasn't as much of a turn on as Ocean, but we had fun. At the end of the dance, she tells me that the video monitor guy is Ocean's boyfriend! This totally freaked me out. Here I am groping this guy's GF and making her cum, and all the while he is watching it.   Suddenly I am some kind of softcore porn star? BTW, this club has a camera over ever chair stall, couch room and VIP suite.  After leaving and contemplating the situation I returned a few weeks later for another ride. Before saddling up I bust her on the secret and she's barely defensive. After question three she just says, "can we not talk about my boyfriend?" I oblige and we go back for another riding session with similar results. Only this time after the dance she hits me with SS about her $600 car problems and such.  I mention that I would only give _my_ woman that kind of money. She's completely unphased and asks if I want to be her new BF. I told her I would think about it, but we would have to do stuff OTC. She was fine with that sentence; I left after that.  Since I was at the end of my 3 month bender, I took a few months off. When I came back she and her BF were no longer there.  I've always heard of dancers dating the managers, bouncers or DJs and never really thought about it. My question to the readers of TUSCL:  Does it bother you to get dances (and more) from dancers who are dating the club staff?