I always feel like somebody's watching me...and I have no privacy.

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HonestT
Okay, this is just an opinion piece. A few years ago I was frequenting a nice club in northern Columbus, Oh.  I had just changed jobs and received my unused vacation pay.  I was on a bit of a bender, and I would go every few weeks at night.  At the time the "pastie law" had not been enacted, so the clubs were much friskier and fun. 

I approached and started getting dances with Ocean (name changed), who was skinny with long, black, wavy hair. I think she was multiracial, but I never found out as we didn't talk much.  In fact, the first 2 for 1 plus 1 more we did, she only said a few words. I knew it was going to be fun one minute into the first song. I was being a gentleman with man hands to the side while she was doing cowgirl action. Then she grabs them and puts them on her butt cheeks.  

After the song she switches around and does her routine. Since I was sporting major wood I asked her to ride again. The whole time I'm complimenting her and really enjoying myself. She starts whispering that she's getting wet. I demand proof, and she goes into her panties and comes out with greasy fingers. I mock a mouth motion like I'm going to suck them and she quickly puts them in her mouth!

Being totally turned on I say, "you've got me so hot, let's do another song after the special. If you can cum I'll make it worth your while."  Ocean smiles and goes back to cowgirl, and I mean really rough riding. I grab her cheeks and help position her and get the pressure right. About halfway through the song she's sounding like a porno, and then pow! Orgasm. 

She's was shaking, breathing hard, sweating and moaning. I was totally pleased with myself that this happened. It would have been great if I reached the same conclusion, but dry humping has never gotten me there.  After catching her breath she said that she hasn't cum like that in months. I'm assuming that to be SS, but I'm pleased.  

Predictably the DJ calls her to the stage right as our song ends. Ocean is totally disheveled and she can barely get dressed. She shakily makes it on stage halfway through the song.   I chat with her after her stage set and then take off. 

For a while i sought out this experience with other dancers, with varying results.  Haven given my wife hundreds of orgasms and a few girlfriends a couple dozen, I think I can spot a fake. I have been insulted a half dozen times with GFs, and about as many with dancers. 

I revisited Ocean a few weeks later and was treated to another great ride. Only this time she was with another regular and couldn't hang with me after our 3 songs. While I'm enjoying half of the afterglow with a drink, I'm approached by another dancer, Skye, who heard Ocean's loud moaning. She says that I must have a big one (yada yada SS) to make Ocean act like that. Then she drops the bomb: "you know her boyfriend works here, right?"

Me: "What?? No. Who is he?" She laughs and says, "dance with me and I'll tell you." I said, "deal."

Skye wasn't as much of a turn on as Ocean, but we had fun. At the end of the dance, she tells me that the video monitor guy is Ocean's boyfriend! This totally freaked me out. Here I am groping this guy's GF and making her cum, and all the while he is watching it.   Suddenly I am some kind of softcore porn star? BTW, this club has a camera over ever chair stall, couch room and VIP suite. 

After leaving and contemplating the situation I returned a few weeks later for another ride. Before saddling up I bust her on the secret and she's barely defensive. After question three she just says, "can we not talk about my boyfriend?" I oblige and we go back for another riding session with similar results. Only this time after the dance she hits me with SS about her $600 car problems and such. 

I mention that I would only give _my_ woman that kind of money. She's completely unphased and asks if I want to be her new BF. I told her I would think about it, but we would have to do stuff OTC. She was fine with that sentence; I left after that.  Since I was at the end of my 3 month bender, I took a few months off. When I came back she and her BF were no longer there. 

I've always heard of dancers dating the managers, bouncers or DJs and never really thought about it. My question to the readers of TUSCL: 

Does it bother you to get dances (and more) from dancers who are dating the club staff?

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looneylarry
14 years ago
I'd be a little nervous and self-conscious about it. I don't know how she'd do any ITC and hide it. I doubt if they would try to be complicit in it--allowing ITC action because that would boost their collective income--since it could drive the usual crazy SC dynamics even higher. I'd be wary and I probably wouldn't even play along.
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GoVikings
14 years ago
nah, it doesn't bother me at all. i've never even thought of the possibility that a dancer could be dating someone that works in her club. its possible, but very unlikely in most cases IMO. i just think your situation was one of the few exceptions.

damn, this was a good read though.
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johnbrwon001
14 years ago
Nope. And if the guy is stupid and jealous enough to come after you you're perfectly within your rights to put him down hard and fast.
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HonestT
14 years ago
Thanks for the comments. Porn and the Internet have taught me that some guys like to watch their women with other guys. But both have also taught me that things are frequently exaggerated. lol

@OhioVoyeur: I think I'm with you for future encounters.

@johnbrwon001: Have you had to flex your muscles over stripclub shit in the past? I prefer to stay non-violent because you never know who's packing heat, but I have a few go-to moves that would get me enough space for a getaway.
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vincemichaels
14 years ago
Not as long as the bf isn't watching the monitors. :)
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samsung1
14 years ago
columbus has gone way downhill since the pasties bullshit started
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newmark
14 years ago
I think the BF watching would be a deal breaker, or at least a mood killer.
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Otto22
14 years ago
My ATF is not currently dancing because her DJ boyfriend knocked her up. It will be months before she is back to work, if then. I suppose any BF could have done the deed but I will continue to resent this SC romance until my ATF is back on my lap.
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HonestT
14 years ago
@Otto22 and newmark: yeah it really kills the fantasy. I guess ignorance is bliss! Are dancers more fertile than the average woman?

@Samsung1 and @OhioVoyeur: In 2007 Columbus was just fine, compared to most of Ohio. Then that conservative group from Cincinnati started loudly pushing their agenda, and snuck Senate Bill 16 in and Strictland didnt even sign it. Yet now it's law. Cincinnati was conservative enough without punishing the rest of Ohio. When Dayton became the new party spot, I knew it wouldn't be long before SB16 lovers would ruin it.
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Mr.Martian
14 years ago
Big Brother is always watching us.
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samsung1
14 years ago
Yeah back in 2007 Columbus was just fine for me. not looking for cheap $5 bar dances like in CrAkron.
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gatorfan
14 years ago
If somebody wants to watch a girl suck my cock go right ahead
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rl27
14 years ago
Columbus clubs have ebbed and flowed for years. Some old bar goes mentioned things were sleazy but great in the 70's. They were lame in the mid to late 80's when I first started. They got better around 1992 and improved steadily to around 1998, when the liquor board started cracking down, and the clubs got really lame. Slowly the clubs came back until by 2003 they were better than ever. From 2003 to 2007 they really took off, then as others said the stupid law in 2007 came around.
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SuperDude
13 years ago
Remember, in Detroit you can get shot for just looking a someone's girl.
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rh48hr
13 years ago
I don't I would have a problem with it. If you are going to have an issue with it, don't date a stripper! That's what they do!

HonestT- I like the title of your post, pulling out Rockwell w/MJ on vocals, nice.
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