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17 years ago

Craig's List computer help please - unrelated

I recently found something that I'd like to purchase on Craig's List. But when I try to contact the person listed it won't let me, I get a message saying they don't support...

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17 years ago

We've often talked about all the silly names that dancers use in clubs. But it seems to me that I've been running into an increasing nuumber of young waitresses, grocery store checkout girls,...

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17 years ago

Take the pledge

I've seen the light. I agree with Shadowcat, there's way too much unrelated BS on this board lately. I therefore hearby resolve not to post on any thread or respond to any...

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17 years ago

Lots of new people here

Seems like we have a lot of new people posting here lately. Which is great, welcome all. So as the senior member here (age-wise) I thought this might be a good time...

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17 years ago

OK it's your turn

I was going to post one more chapter in my "How she became my ATF" blog series but I probably won't get to it anytime soon. In the mean time, assuming that someone...

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17 years ago

When did you know?

When did you know that your ATF was indeed your ATF? Did it happen gradually, eventually dawning on you over time? Or is there some specific event or moment that you can...

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17 years ago

Have you experienced this too?

I went along for many years visiting strip clubs occasionally, maybe 4-6 times a year when traveling on business. Then one day I found a place full of girls who I liked and...

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17 years ago

Conversations with Wondergirl

Wondergirl and FONDL have been discussing some of her observations and thoughts following her tryout at Club Risque. I thought some of you might be interested in what she had to say. ...

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17 years ago

A question for you married guys

Seems to me that most of the comments here about blow jobs and full service etc. are by those of you who are single. What about you married guys - do you have...

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17 years ago

Laughter in clubs

Another thread made me think of something that I've never understood - why is there so little laughter in most clubs? We all seem to regard BBF as one of our favorite clubs,...

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17 years ago

Back in the game

I'm happy to inform you all that after a 2+ year drought, FONDL is back in the game - I visited a strip club earlier today. It was one of my old favorites...

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17 years ago

Merry Christmas everyone!

Hope you get to spend time with people who love you....

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17 years ago

Pennsylvania clubs

I've been stuck home alone all day because of this ice storm the Northeast is having (and I hope all you Midwesterners survived yesterday.) And I spent more time today than usual farting...

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17 years ago

I've had several stripper "relationships" that went through the same 4 phases - (1) First few meetings are wonderful, we really hit it off, and she couldn't be nicer to me, it feels like...

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17 years ago

Which do you prefer?

Obviously most girls lie between the extremes, but do you prefer a stripper who is mainly a girly-girl or a Tomboy? Ten years ago I would have said the former. Then I...

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17 years ago

Strip clubs and the changing role of women

OK, as advertised, here it is. I can think of about 30 different ways that the changing role of women in our society has impacted strippers and strip clubs, some positive some negative...

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17 years ago

Is dancer quality declining?

As many of you know, I haven't been to a club in a couple of years. I seem to have lost interest to a large extent. There are probably a lot of...

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17 years ago

I admit, this is a topic that confuses the hell out of me. I have no problems when I'm dealing with people who otherwise don't make much, like strippers in a club where...

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17 years ago

Did anyone else watch the CMA awards show tonight? It was awesome, and I'm not particularly a fan of country music, some stuff I like, some I don't, much like most other types...

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17 years ago

I remember reading here some time ago that someone (Bones?) said that the best clubs in the Tampa Bay area are in Holiday. I may have a chance to visit that area next...

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17 years ago

Why so many little clubs?

I often think about the place where my ATF worked. It's little 1-story flat-roofed cinderblock building on about a half acre of property on a semi-main road in a typical older commercial-industrial area...

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17 years ago

Naked customers

Just curious if any of you customers (not dancers) have ever been nude in a strip club. Once a long time ago I was in a little hole-in-the-wall club in the middle of...

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17 years ago

How long did you know your ATF before ...

... she became your ATF? Was it ATF at first sight/touch or did it take a while for her to grow on you? In my case I had a previous regular at...

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17 years ago

Why do we get so attached?

Many of us, including me, have commented here that we've become very attached to a dancer. I'm wondering why that is? What leads a guy in his 60s like me to feel...

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17 years ago

Hitting the trifecta

Sorry if we've discussed before, I'm not sure. But the thread on Michigan got me to thinking about something - I only know of one place, Key West, where you can hit what...

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17 years ago

Do you prefer different clubs for different activities?

I just wrote elsewhere that I don't much care for a particular GC but I realize that's not entirely accurate. If I just want to stop in for a drink and maybe a...

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17 years ago

This board needs an edit feature

for when the computer posts something (twice) before you're ready. The first word should obviously read Totally....

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17 years ago

Totally private rooms

What clubss have you been to where you and your dancer can spend time in a private room, just the two of you together? I can think of 5 - (1) Partners Tavern, Erie,...

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17 years ago

otally private rooms

What clubss have you been to where you and your dancer can spend time in a private room, just the two of you together? I can think of 5 - (1) Partners Tavern, Erie,...

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17 years ago

What's the best club that nobody ever heard of?

What's the best club you've ever been to that nobody else here has ever heard of? I actually have 4 that I'd recommend (I used to seek out such places), 3 in PA...

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17 years ago

Dumb ass things

What's the dumbest thing you've ever seen in a club, either a policy or some action by a dancer or other worker? Here's my "dumb" award. I once went to check out two clubs...

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18 years ago

Theoretical question about strippers

If I were to go into a club where I'm not known, find a dancer who I like (I like young and sweet looking), get to know her a little, then ask her if...

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18 years ago

During a recent visit to Walmart's, it occurred to me, not for the fist time, that when I'm in a place where low income people tend to hang out I see a lot more...

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18 years ago

What's the most unusual ...

What's the most unusual US club you've ever been to and what was so unusual about it? In my case I'd have to say Show-n-Tell Showbar in Philly. I've described it here...

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18 years ago

Her's a brief conversation that my ATF and I have had more than once. We're someplace together and see a girl with huge fake boobs, tight skimpy provacative outfit, too much make-up, kinda...

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18 years ago

Question fro Founder

Founder, I noticed that you erased my last post on the "stripper as therapist" thread. Could you please explain why so I understand the ground rules and can try to follow them in...

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18 years ago

Licensing requirements

I've been amazed to discover recently that some cities and states have licensing requirements for strippers. I never knew such things existed, I didn't know that there were places that consider stripping to...

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18 years ago

Stripper as therapist

Another discussion here got me to thinking about something. I know most people here go to strip clubs looking for a part-time playmate, and I always thought I did too. But when...

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18 years ago

Stripper as therapist

Another discussion here got me to thinking about something. I know most people here go to strip clubs looking for a part-time playmate, and I always thought I did too. But when...

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18 years ago

Serious illness?

Shadowcat's latest post reminded me of something that happened to me in a strip club about 10 or so years ago, and I was wondering if anyone else has had this experience. A...

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18 years ago

Something that's been puzzling me ...

Something that puzzles me a little is that my ATF has gradually become more modest around me than she used to be, and I don't understand why. The obvious answer is that she's...

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18 years ago

Do you like most strip clubs?

I really like the concept of strip clubs - friendly places where pretty girls provide erotic entertainment for guys at a reasonable price. Maybe I've gotten fussier with age, but I can think...

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18 years ago

For nearly a week a bird has been flying into the window next to my computer. It reminds me of the strippers (and others) I've known who keep making the same bad decisions...

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18 years ago

For those of you hoping to continue ...

For those of you hoping to continue clubbing after you retire, be advised that the IRS really screws retired people. If you're planning to supplement your income with your 401k, think again. ...

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18 years ago

I wonder whatever happened to ...

I wonder whatever happened to Chitownlawyer? I haven't seen any posts from him in ages. Think maybe he ran off with his ATF? Or maybe moved in to Brad's permanently? ...

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18 years ago

Interesting magazine article

The current (March) issue of "Men's Fitness" magazine has an article about strip clubs that addresses some of the issues we talk about here (eg. what do strippers really think of customers, do they...

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18 years ago

I recently spent 2 wonderful weeks at the beach with my ATF. And it occurs to me that a visit to a strip club is a lot like a mini-vacation - it's lots...

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18 years ago

Two groups here

Seems to me we have two fairly distinct groups of people here, with widely divergent interests: those who enjoy talking about their club visits and how much contact they get, and those (like me)...

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