Cycles
Wednesday, December 12, 2007 5:22 AM
I've had several stripper "relationships" that went through the same 4 phases - (1) First few meetings are wonderful, we really hit it off, and she couldn't be nicer to me, it feels like we've known each other forever. (2) I start coming in regularly just to see her and for the first couple of months she continues to treat me exactly the way I want her to. (3) Then gradually over time it seems like she starts to take me for granted, not being as pleasant or as courteous or as interested, eg. keeping me waiting an excessive amount of time for no apparent reason. (4) Then finally we have a heated disagreement, it blows up, the wheels fall off, and I lose interest.
Sometimes (not always) the disagreement stems from talking about or actually meeting OTC. In one case the first couple of OTC meetings are very nice but then she doesn't want to do it anymore. Another girl keeps suggesting OTC but as soon as I try to pin her down she backs off and it never happens, until finally I get tired of it and lose interest.
I'm curious to know how many others have been through this cycle. I'm also curious to know why it happens, why does a girl suggest or commit to some sort of arrangement and then back away from it? And in case you're wondering, I don't come on strong and I'm not usually the one to first suggest getting together OTC. In several of these cases I would have been perfectly content to keep the relationship inside the club but they started talking OTC. Do they think they have to do that to keep me interested? Why isn't a girl as nice to me on the 20th visit as she is on the first? In fact the only one who ever was became my ATF and my best friend.
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