Comments by komey1970 (page 2)

How someone wants to spend their hard earned money is up to them. Would you turn down that much money if someone wanted to pay to you for conversation?

RL - it would appear that YOU don't get it. DandyDan said that in the past, he used to try to get phone numbers and such. However, he does not do that anymore.

I don't think that most tourinsts who go to Canada already have passports. For example, Niagara Falls is practically a tourist town, and I'll bet no more than 1/3rd of US tourists going there have passports. I know that has been a destination of several bachelor parties from where I live and I'll bet few in the parties I know about has a passport.

I think regular dress pants would be best - that way it could be easier to cover up if someone goes by. That would be accented by a lose fitting shirt that can cover things as well.

For me, the girl doesn't have to be slender, but she can't be fat either. So I guess that would mean that she would have to be fit. I generally don't get dances from girls that I don't find attractive. I think I have only done that once or twice. Some girls that I don't care for are real nice, but I wouldn't take them back for a dance.

When I do a review (not often - just don't go to many differant clubs), milage is a factor. Milage doesn't always have to mean "extras", though. Clubs where I received an air dance or two will rate lower than one-way contact. That will likely rate lower than a two-way contact would for me.

I don't think this has been mentioned that the quantity of girls is almost always lesser in the afternoon than the night shifts. Of course, the number of customers is generally lower as well. I think the local clubs might have a better chance of finding some nice looking girls, but the more well known ones not as such. For example, the local club I go to has some decent looking women that will work the day shifts. However, one club that is relatively well known that I go to a couple times a year (none yet this year) have let me down in the afternoon shifts the last couple times I have been there (maybe because I have been on the tail enf of the afternoon shift)

If a club has a web site, most of the time they will have pictures of dancers there. Whether or not it is up to date can be debatable.

So what if they are? How does this affect you?

Some clubs will run discounts during the day, but many do not.

Please keep political stuff off this message board. Thanks.

FONDL, I agree with the premise about church and state not really being seperated. I guess an arguement could be made that it ties in with morality threads here. I just think that I would almost rather read RLs ramblings than some politcal stuff here.

I'll agree with the majority here. The only differance is that I might tell a dancer I came from the casino or something like that. I don't tell them I won a lot of money, usually I say I broke even.

FONDL, I can understand that. Also, maybe when the girl knows her shift is almost over, they don't care if they make any more money. But the first club I mentioned is seemingly infamous for lack of mingling, where the second club is usually more friendly. I might start going to the second club more often, especially if none of my favorites are working the first club.

I propose the "quick pick". That would be where all the girls are out in the open and give a sample of what they would get in a lap dance. This would happen at a special time so all the dancers would participate for about 10 minutes.

Most dancers who do extras will let you know. For asking, I probably would do it ONLY if the club has that kind of reputation. Otherwise, you may get slapped, and possibly tossed from the club. The only "sneaky" way around that is to say something like "I wish I could take you home" or something like that. That will most likely get you either a laugh or a possible offer.

I'd be willing to bet that a LOT of people going to college are doing so to better themselves financially, not just strippers. I only took a lit class because I had to take a liberal arts class and it fit my schedule.

Why should I care about why strippers do what they do? I'm not there for their enjoyment, they are there for my enjoyment. If they enjoy it as well, all the better.

I rarely pay a cover charge anymore. Most of the time I get there before the club starts to charge. One club, the person who collects cover just lets me through as a regular.

a) 80% b) 90% If you treat strippers with respect, you generally will get respect back. There have only been a couple strippers that didn't do that.

Youngest - claimed to be 18, but I would be willing to bet she was younger than that. Oldest - I think one was in her 50s but looked good. She certainly didn't look it, but I am guessing about this from overhearing some conversations.

Most of my favs have been A cups. I think the reason they became my favorites is that they would talk to me before and after our dances. One funny story about my first ATF - I was playing pool waiting for her to dance, and there as a bit of a line. I'm about a 50/50 player usually. Well, before I started, she gave me a kiss. I won that game, and told her. So she gave me another quick kiss. I won the next game. This happened for about 5 games in a row before I lost.

I agree with shadowcat that initiating contact with a dancer does lower your negotiating position. I know some clubs where you almost have to initialte things, and I will do so if it has been a while since I have not been contacted by a dancer and I see a dancer I like.

"After you do get the dances then leave some doubt in the stripper's mind whether you really enjoyed her efforts or not. (You can hint at it, but leave the room for uncertainty.)" I have to disagree with this statement. I don't necessarily mean to give an extra tip (unless you really think it was deserved). But little things like a smile or telling the stripper you enjoyed the dance is not a bad thing.

You got me. I admit it. I look for a girlfriend in strip clubs. For the time that I am there. Once I walk out the door, the stripper is no longer my girlfriend.