Would you GIVE MONEY to someone who WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU? A customer may be doing this when GIVING MONEY to a stripper who WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM and DOES NOT LIKE HIM! If a stripper REFUSES to see a customer OUTSIDE THE CLUB, doesn't that mean that she wants nothing to do with that customer? Why would a customer then GIVE the stripper MONEY?
This is the most you have ever participated in one of your own threads! Good job RL. Unfortunately you still don't get the point of strip clubs. You are supposed to go and have fun. It seems that you (and a lot of others here too) take things too seriously. The ladies are there to perform their job, for which they expect to be compensated. They are NOT there to be your girlfriend. You are through your tips purchasing an evening of entertainment and fantasy not a long term relationship. When you finaly get this concept through your head you probably will no longer be compelled to start all kinds of idiotic threads.
*** another little tip for you... It is rude to question a grown man about how he chooses to spend his money. It's not your fucking business.
I wanted to answer this question. I just gave some money to a stripper who I thought was not interested in me. Her pussy looked so nice on stage that I decided to give her a dollar. She moved it around real nice too. Then since no one else was giving her any money, I gave her another gift (one dollar). I believe I may have given her a total of $5 during the evening. Do you consider this to be a reasonable gift especially since I enjoyed looking at her pussy so much?
Pretty pointless post, there RL. I would have asked something like when you tip, is it just to show appreciation for a good dance, help her out, or to try and gain special attention? But let's go with davids's.
I try to be conscious of who owns the businesses I patronize. I don't care what race, religion, or nationality they are, but do care about their ethical and political beliefs. The reason is a porition of my dollar will go to the second I step in the door, and they may decided to give it to causes or purchase things that go against my values.
So, all things equal I'll go to the "clean" club and chose the dancers that are single moms. But you rarely get that choice. The clubs with dirty owners are usually more fun. That's where it gets to be a complicated decision. Those that say they'll spend money on an inferior product due to the owner being a scumbag, I admire.
Oh, and if the activities or beliefs of the owners pose a direct threat to me (i.e. white supremecists own a store and I'm black), then of course the decision is simple. I'd be a complete fool to give them any money.
It's when what they do will probably never negatively affect me personally that it's a struggle of the conscious.
Not really a gift, RL. You are, presumably, getting LDs in exchange. A better question might be if you were black would you spend your money at a store owned by the KKK? (Or maybe the analogy is if you were KKK would you spend your money at a store owned by blacks. I'm not sure who the good and bad guys in strip clubs are. Maybe it's if you were a Nazi would you spend your money at a stored owned by Bolshevists? Anyway, you folks see what I'm getting at. LOL!)
A stripper who does not like, or care anything about you can still give a killer lap dance. That is her job. If she really liked me, but gave zero milage private dances, I would say hello to be polite, but pass on giving her my money.
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*** another little tip for you... It is rude to question a grown man about how he chooses to spend his money. It's not your fucking business.
I try to be conscious of who owns the businesses I patronize. I don't care what race, religion, or nationality they are, but do care about their ethical and political beliefs. The reason is a porition of my dollar will go to the second I step in the door, and they may decided to give it to causes or purchase things that go against my values.
So, all things equal I'll go to the "clean" club and chose the dancers that are single moms. But you rarely get that choice. The clubs with dirty owners are usually more fun. That's where it gets to be a complicated decision. Those that say they'll spend money on an inferior product due to the owner being a scumbag, I admire.
It's when what they do will probably never negatively affect me personally that it's a struggle of the conscious.