Comments by Pete22z

Don't expect too much. It is her job to attract customers, and she may actually like you. But don't get caught falling in love. If she wants to date you she'll let you know sooner rather than later. I never thought I'd date a dancer but I did. It was one of those perfect storm / 1-in-a-million scenarios. She was really cute, smart (a science degree from a pretty competitive school), funny, etc. She was in a tough spot in her life and I happened to have awesome timing that day. I'm 99% certain that will never happen to me again.

Dunkin Donuts and strippers? If only.

To each his own. Like I said I've never had to deal with confrontations in the club. Clubbing is a hobby that I like to keep on the down low and isn't worth a violent confrontation to me and or the possible complications that could arise from that. If I have to defend myself then I'll deal with that when it happens, but it's a lot easier to avoid it to me. I could see getting into a fight over a girl I'm dating... but over a girl who sees me as part of her job, not likely.

Wow I've never dealt with this either. I've been in situations where I've texted a dancer that I was coming in to see her and found out later that she was in VIP with someone else. I actually was pissed at the dancer. Not "I'm gonna get you" pissed, but annoyed that she couldn't ignore this other dude or at least let me know somehow what was going on so I wouldn't waste my evening waiting on her. She was guaranteed VIP time / $$$ by me. Anyway, you could probably let security know what your concerns are, but they probably can't do anything until the stalker actually does something violent. You probably need to seek time with your ATF when she's less in demand or seek another dancer/club. As many clubs as I've been to, I've never frequented one where I thought my personal safety was an issue. That's a deal-breaker.

Big Daddy's was actually the first strip club I ever visited (early 90's). From what I saw, I could understand why they were only charging $3. I think they made more money charging the customers to put their clothes back on.

My name is a bit different and in my earlier days I was paranoid about it. So I made up a fake one until the first time I met a dancer that wanted to get together OTC. Ever since then I've always gone by my real name. As a matter of fact, the last few dancers that I've met on a regular basis have told me their real names on the first visit.

Lots of college coeds and professional women at the club I visit. From my travels though I think its an exception. Frankly I like hanging out with dancers with a brain to go along with the T & A.

Attractive, funny, smart, cute, affectionate, doesn't lie (too much), courteous, doesn't dick me around, has to be petite. She should enjoy hanging with me almost as much as I do with her. Doesn't SEEM like she's just trying to suck every dollar out of me. All that and a lot of chemistry.

The few dancers that I've talked to on the subject will tolerate female customers. They generally don't like female customers because they don't respect the dancer's boundaries as much as men. Keep in mind the dancers were all straight. Not to say that there aren't a lot of grab ass guys out there, but I guess most guys just know how to act with a dancer. But I don't recall ever being to a club that won't let them in.

I agree with most folks here. After a while I think you can sense real from false. But even if you're wrong so what, you cannot read this stuff as gospel. Even in the best of circumstances one man's heaven is another man's you know. What I look for in clubs these days simply aren't that important to a lot of readers out there, but it's my impression. As much as some may dislike it, I just don't believe in giving graphic details about my visits with a specific dancer. If my ATF (or any other woman for that matter) gave me an amazing BJ, that's gonna stay between us. The last thing I would want is to alert management to her actions (assuming they give a damn) or LE.

On principle it seems unconstitutional since clubs and those issues aren't related. I guess it's difficult to come up with a shitty dad tax.

When I go it's not very often and I usually spend a lot. 3 bucks disappears rather quickly for me in clubs.

5 numbers I think. One was strictly to call in. The others were strictly for convenience as I became a regular. But they will text me or call from time to time to see how I'm doing (2 are no longer dancing). I half-heartedly tried the OTC angle without much success due to distance/timing.

I think I can relate. My ATF doesn't look like one. She looks more like a cute sorority gal from a ivy league school (assuming they have cute chicks) than what I would associate with stripping.

I always liked Trixies and heard good things about P.T's downtown but never been there myself.

I had a decent enough time at the Deja Vu. This one blond was incredible. Keep in mind it was a Deja Vu though.

3+ hours twice. They both turned out to be ATF's. Probably never again.

Back when I was still travelling to KC I frequented Bazookas. Had some pretty good dancers there. The lap dance areas were cozy but hardly private. Good times though.

I personally blame the f'ing Knicks...dumb no talent bastards screwed up everything!

One fav is affecting my career planning.

I like high heels in porn. However, I am getting sick and tired of seeing stripper shoes in every freaking scene. For crying out loud, when was the last time you saw a hot coed, secretary, nurse, cheerleader, in stripper shoes?

See how far I could get with fav# 3 maybe?

"Rehab" by Amy Winehouse.

I thought I heard somewhere that the drinking age had something to do with states qualifying for federal funding. Anyhow, I know the Cheetah has a full-service restaurant in it as well as the Pony. Does that make them exempt as well?