Comments by Harderlap (page 7)

I don’t think it savage unless you had somehow indicated to the dancer you left that you would be interested in her. When I am with one dancer and want to tip the dancer I ask, “Do you mind if I tip the dancer?”. I had one say no or get upset. There is always the problem of how to deal with a dancer that you don’t want a dance from who is taking up your time and adjacent space. They usually go away after a few dances if I don’t show interest, but if they persist, I just say I am not interested in a dance or I don’t have money for a dance. They usually leave.

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Another reason that clubs deny single women entry is that they may be wives looking for wayward husbands and they don’t want to deal with the confrontation when it occurs. I have seen that once at an Albuquerque club. They let a single woman in, and almost immediately a man. Likely her husband or significant other, went running out the door. She followed, screaming at the top of her lungs at him. I didn’t quite figure out what was going on until the dancer who was sitting with me explained it and said that the bouncers were instructed not to let in unaccompanied women in the club for that reason. I am sure that it is illegal if anyone wanted not challenge it. It is fairly common to see a group of women in the club though, so that is not threatening I guess.

Not other TUSCLers, not sure how to recognize one other than striking up a conservation, which I seldom do with other men in clubs. But I did have a dancer once ask me if I knew about TUSCL and when I feigned ignorance she brought up the page on her smart phone. She said she had consistently good ratings, and pulled up a review that I had written that had mentioned her! I told her I would check it out. After having a few dances. She was one of the best at the club.

It has been in the planning stages since 2012. There is a photo of steel being erected. I too have questions about the viability of a strip club in Las Cruces. I remember that there was one east of town on 70 in the late 80s that got a reasonable business from visitors to White Sands Missile Range, including me, but it got a lot of harassment from the puritanical element in Las Cruces. They used to take pictures of people going in and out of the club, both patrons and employees and take out ads in the paper to publicize who was associated with the club. I think that the paper stopped taking the ads after awhile. I think that they will have to do a lot to make going there better than traveling the 45 minutes down the interstate to El Paso though. It will be interesting to see what happens.

Some (lots?) of people think that two dollar bills are bad luck.

TUSCL. I am still learning how to type and proofread before hitting the enter key. :^)=

I clubbed for 12 years before YUSCL existed.

The best strip club rule ever, and the only hard and fast one is "Don't use the ATM or a credit card."

Still waiting for your review on this club. Hope it is nearby.

If you are explicit with the details, don't name the dancer. If you name the dancer be general with the details. Read some reviews, you will get the hang of it. Next time you will know which dancer to get dances from. You just need to get over refusing extras the first time. Ask her to take it out.

Some gas engines and nearly all diesels use turbos to clean up the emissions. The turbo results in less unburned hydrocarbon emissions, particularly when the car is accelerating hard. In 20 years we will all be talking about electric cars on this forum and laughing that we used to drive turbos. :^)=

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Toast. I like peanut butter on my toast.

There were likely her friends and were tipping to show support. They brought along their boyfriends/husbands so they wouldn't get it on by PLs. What guy would turn down an invite to go to a strip club with their girlfriend/wife?

At least here in the southwest and in the midwest where I have traveled, the customer service I have encountered at Starbuck's has been very good. They have never failed to make good on any problems I have had and never questioned me when I said I had a problem. I know others who have had similar experiences.

It is fairly common for the waitresses to not to return the quarters with the change. Sometimes with asking and sometimes not. I think that Corvus and I must be waited on by the same person. i usually try to tip well, so if I know the price of the drink I will ask if she has the quarters and then add a tip on that. I used to make a bigger fuss out of this, but I agree, with the other costs so high in strip clubs, why sweat a buck or two to the wait staff? I also stopped making a fuss out of it when I received the wrong change, the waitress had rounded up, and when I pointed it out she said that she had trouble doing math and sometimes rounded up and sometimes rounded down in an attempt to keep her tray balanced. She was nearly in tears when she asked me if she owed me any money and begged me not to tell management. I don't think she was BSing me as when I asked her a few questions on how much drinks cost and how she made change, she got very confused and said she relied on the bartender to keep it all straight. I felt that she felt that I had power over whether or not she kept her job and I didn't want that burden. Having said all that after she calmed down she did admit her tray usually came out ahead and she wasn't sure why. And the barmaid came over after she left and asked if I had any problems with the waitress, admitting "she doesn't always get things right, but she can't really do any better." The next drink was free, served by the barmaid. I tipped her.

Two of them this month.

You will get a notification if it gets rejected, along with a reason why. If you haven't heard it hasn't been rejected. Be patient.

If you have to ask, you aren't clear on the concept.

I usually tip $1 to each dancer. Those I like or would like to have a dance with get $1 for each of the dances they dance, usually two per set. In most of the clubs I go to most of the guys don't tip every dancer, so if you do, you stand out. If I sit at the rail, I tip $1 every dance. If I get extra attention when I tip, I usually pull out another $1.

Read the reviews for Blue Moon Lounge in Phoenix. IF that is your sort of thing, you won't find anything like it in Dallas.

Pay no attention to the trolls behind their computer screens. As long as it is obvious what you mean, most of the people on here could care less if you use correct grammar and spelling. It doesn't hurt to check one's spelling and usage before hitting the Post Comment button. Not sure how many active participants there are, but there are lots and lots of reviewers that never or only seldom post in the comments section. If you are a newbie, you may want to avail yourself of the search function for your favorite clubs or clubs you are thinking of going to. Welcome aboard.

Just say in the review what you are saying here, and why; you expected less from Mpire and got more, you expected more from Camelot and got less. I value the verbage in a review a lot more than the numerical rating as the numerical rating is relative according to the reviewer. So the numerical rating isn't absolute anyway. Just explain your choices in your review and that will help more than an arbitrary, relative, or absolute number.

I suggest a trip to Albuquerque during the Balloon Fiesta. Take in the Balloon Fiesta in the morning and or evening, strip club during the day. You can have a good time at TD's North for the kind of money you want to spend and if you visit repeatedly over several consecutive days it will only get better.