Dancer refused my stage tip

I've had two different experience similar to this kind of.

First I went up to this chick and she let me motor boat her breasts, she flipped around and shook that ads in my face and even stood up and waved her sweet smelling pussy right in my face...she never once asked for a tip so I just walked back to my seat and she never had an issue

Second time I was at a different club and I went up to tip this hoe and she would look at me but never come over. I stood their what felt like two song's and I was the only guy showing interest into tipping her...she would glance over at me but seriously would never fucked walk over...so I never tipped...fuck that broke hoe lol

I've never been comfortable with tossing single's around so I've always wait for them to lift the g string to single the tip...I'm just more comfortable that way...I feel like its more polite and respectful.

Any time I watch or observe a client tossing money at a stripper they always look very narsasitice and disrespectful towards the girls..almost like insulting them with the money....I hate the move when guys toss money on the floor and make them bend over to pick it up...I honestly feel like its degradation to them...so I don't do it

My goal is to respect and enjoy these ladies and return be treated in the same way. I know on this site I might as a joke come off as a doosh or jerk towards strippers but in real life I'm probably the most respectful and generous guy in the club...it still gets me sex ...very good sex I might add

I think some girls see it as a cheap move that I'm pulling off but the smart ones catch on and just single more often with me with lifting of the side g string...I've been known to build money dresses on strippers if they single often enough....all I'm looking for is good loving up on stage....very often girls tell me I'm a very sensual person

Tip to strip, not strip to tip."

Well then this dancer will not be getting money from me.

If a stripper refuses your tip, you have more problems than we can help you with.

Hell I usually never hit the stage these days until song two because that's when the boob's pop out to play

I don't think you are giving us the whole story, based on what you said. I've refused tips before. For me, I won't come over if another dancer goes and sits w a guy who came up to tip me. If you do what you describe and go up, wait for her to come over, and then leave, other girls will see that as rude too, and you could get kicked out depending on her standing with the club and how mad she gets.

Unfortunately true if she is a bitch

Playing psychological games with strippers is rarely satisfying. Just move on.

I rarely see girls refuse tips on stage. I think there's more to the story, but sometimes a guy doesn't know exactly what's going on.

I can only think of one occasion when a stripper refused my tip. It was at a black dive with Papi. I later learned that she wanted me to throw the money at her. Apparently the two steps required to walk over and pick up the money from me is just too much work.

I agree with Bj99. Something is missing from the story.

DisRuptive1, did you pull down your pants and expose yourself when you handed her a dollar? That's kind of non-ace. :(

Never had this happen

But this thread reminded me of the one and only time a dancer refused my lap dance request because she "doesn't do $25 dollar dances"

This happened like 3 or 4 years ago, and to this day, I still can't believe she turned me down

I live in an area with multiple dancers. If a dancer is acting bitchy or moody, not taking her top off or doing other stupid crap, leave her alone unless you feel like you have to throw your money away, In a club with multiple dancers, give extra money to a dancer who at least seems to appreciate it more and I think you'll get more satisfaction rather than wondering about the girl with the attitude problem.

If you want to get even, make it rain on other dancers who were nice to you but sit like a rock when she goes on stage.

Could be something more to this story. I remember going to the stage and thought I approached the stage quicker than one other guy. Dancers often go up to guys in the order they approached the stage even though they get to pick. Anyway she went to get a tip from me first. The other guy left the stage acting like the dancer didn't want his tip. I'm wondering if someone walked away acting like a dancer didn't want his tip because she got a tip from someone else first. He may not have seen me standing there or some guys act like if they aren't approached first, dancers aren't interested in their money. If that's the case, I think it's arrogant at best. I saw this the other day from a 20 something looking guy.

I actually don't mind if dancers get tips from others first while I'm standing at the stage. I get more time standing up close without paying. Of course if I walked up first I can see someone thinking it's disrespectful to go get tips from others. If the dancer has danced for me a lot, she will often get to me sooner rather than later.

If the stage is crowded or I'm a new face, I'll sometime set a dollar down to let the dancer I'm tipping and not just watching. It's been a while since I haven't been approached if tipping. The closest to that was at Club DV8 in Portland, but if I had bothered to wait for her slow moving ass to get around to me she would have. Just had someplace else to be.

I've had the opposite happen with one particular dancer. Over a period of years, I've tipped this dancer on stage. While she accepts it with a smile, she never approaches me for a dance. After years of trying to figure out what's wrong with me, I finally noticed that she only approaches younger customers. Us old guys never get a shot. That's her right. I've stopped tipping her.

I'm going to re-post jack's reply:

"If a stripper refuses your tip, you have more problems than we can help you with."

This is also helpful and something I typically do myself, from wall's post:

"If the stage is crowded or I'm a new face, I'll sometime set a dollar down to let the dancer I'm tipping and not just watching. "

Refused my tip, $20, the one time I was in Portland, long long ago, still no touching, no booths or back rooms, and I had already given her lots and lots of money. I was coming at that time to not liking being married. Or I should say, it was already turning into hell.

SJG

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"I remember going to the stage and thought I approached the stage quicker than one other guy. Dancers often go up to guys in the order they approached the stage even though they get to pick. Anyway she went to get a tip from me first. The other guy left the stage acting like the dancer didn't want his tip. I'm wondering if someone walked away acting like a dancer didn't want his tip because she got a tip from someone else first. He may not have seen me standing there or some guys act like if they aren't approached first, dancers aren't interested in their money. If that's the case, I think it's arrogant at best. I saw this the other day from a 20 something looking guy."

I have seen strippers go to every other guy at the stage except me even when I was at the stage before some of those other guys multiple times. I usually leave the stage without leaving a tip.

^often I would have otherwise left as much or more than all the other pl's she went to first.

^ in that case either two things.

1. The others are regulars of hers or people she considers very hot.
2. She might not be very interested in you.

I'd stop tipping her. If she never approaches you when you're sitting down, you're not her type. Don't worry about it. Some people fall for people you never expect and then some people are all over others. I've been ignored by dancers before. I think most people have.

I remember a dancer who thought she had to get a dance from me. I rejected her big time. She went into a corner of the club and I didn't see her approach anyone else. I didn't think she was ugly. I just wasn't that interested in her but my patience wears thin after 15 minutes of arguing. She was likely new to dancing and must have liked me. I would say give it a break with any particular person either sex. When they have no one around if that day ever comes, try again. They might be more receptive and want some company.

Don't over think it bitches are crazy

@bj99

It was a slow night despite being Friday, only about 6 girls in a dive club and the same amount of guys over a 4-hour period. I remember the manager (a former dancer herself), came over to some dudes that hadn't spent any money at all and asked if they needed any one dollar bills.

I had spent some time with another girl, tipping her on stage a few times and I spent about $10 to buy her some food from the food truck outside the club (she had already spent a bunch of time sitting and talking with me so I still came out ahead). I didn't get any dances from her because she had a thing about being stroked (even just her lower back or knees or whatever). But she was good conversation. I think I spent a total of $19 on her for about 2 interrupted hours of her time.

Saw another decent looking girl in the club that I hadn't seen earlier. She went on stage so I went up to the side (was the only guy at the stage), watched her do her 3-song set, left a $2 bill, and walked back to my seat. She walked off without picking it up. The next girl that came on stage pointed out the tip and that is when she verbally refused it.

That's strange. I'm guessing she expected you to put it down sooner. Sounds like she wasn't familiar w the club, if that's normal, or was high. I don't think you should antagonize a girl who is already working at a dive bar tho.

rane1234 --> "Don't over think it bitches are crazy"

Haha. This is also good advice.

Pretty female bar tender that I had tipped before many times, once declined for a long time to pick up my $1 tip. Seems to have thought I was leading her on. She was not a dancer and not into the concept.

SJG

Some (lots?) of people think that two dollar bills are bad luck.