When your girl has another regular in the bar?
NJBalla
New York
If you consistently hobby you will come across this awkward situation. Your favorite girl having another regular in the bar. I have found some girls will try to ignore you and the other regular, only coming to talk if she thinks you will get swept up by another girl. While the pros will often take the guy who finishes quickest (1-2 songs) to then grab a drink with the guy who will do 4-5 songs with tip.
In my early days I used to just wait it out and let the first guy go, but now I just grab her first and let the poor guy wait at the bar. Whats your strategy? Use this as an opportune time to try out more talent?
In my early days I used to just wait it out and let the first guy go, but now I just grab her first and let the poor guy wait at the bar. Whats your strategy? Use this as an opportune time to try out more talent?
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If you like her and know her, should be banging her OTC.
SJG
Guy who sees a girl only OTC? Master-lock?
He is a RIL, a PL, if he only sees the girl ITC.
SJG
Fucking assholes
One time though that was when two of my regulars found out they were gay and then they both stopped seeing me :(
If I'm unwilling to appear at an appointed time, I sure ain't gonna insist she drop everything when I walk in. But if a dancer doesn't cruise over to a regular after she's finished with dude she's with at the time, then the regular's not as valuable to her as the regular might imagine.
I do get mild satisfaction when a girl I like declines the advances of another PL and comes over to me or stays with me.
At 3:00, after massage & shower she saw her whale who paid her $650. At 5:30 the third guy spent an hour with her and paid her $700 plus $200 for the hotel. At 8:30 I returned, picked her up and drove her home.
On several occasions when the whale was buying her something on line, he told me he "didn't do computers", gave me his credit card and had me complete his purchase. He and I will occasionally text regarding our favorite dancer.
^Agreed. I've adopted this practice over course of time as I've become pickier.
But for some reason, even though I’m fat, ugly, have a small dick, and don’t spend nearly as much as some others, all of my favorites still somehow manage to find extended periods of time to spend with me chatting, being groped, sucking my dick, or fucking me.
I wonder why that is?
Also from this and by establishing loyalty to each fave, I do get priority service. The only waiting I do is when she is already committed to another customer, and even then she will come over and tell me about how long she'll be tied up. Then once she's with me she is dedicated to me for 1-2 hours while others are having to wait on me for her.
Me neither. The girls are making the best choice for them when they stick with a good regular. 'course, I also make an appointment 99% of the time, so no worries about how long I might have to wait.
These days, I don't have a favorite or even a vaguely regular girl at my fave club, so I'm just like a regular schnook, I walk in and hope the hottest girl is free. Sometimes, she's not, but it wouldn't remotely occur to me to throw a tantrum over the fact that she's staying with some good customer of hers; I just find the next hottest girl. Eventually (hopefully sooner rather than later) I'll find a new CF, and it'll be me sitting with that hot stripper.
And to it I'll add if you go to clubs with multiple women you are attracted to and if you keep your emotions in check one guy hogging one girl isn't going to impact you.
Last summer I was frequenting one club in Northeast Ohio the most. I had multiple guys make comments to me, some of them genuine--some of them probably backhanded compliments because I had one of the better looking dancers locked down most Thursdays nights I went there.
It was her choice to stay with me--not mine. If you have an issue with her decisions either up your game or move on to another dancer or club.
In the same spirit, I'll never understand a guy sitting there sweating it out over a favorite and I sure as fuck can't be bothered to get up and try to take her from someone else. Either I am worth it to her or I am not. My favorites know that I am about as loyal as a stud dog surrounded by several bitches in heat. If I get to the club and she is otherwise occupied, then I am likely to turn my attention elsewhere.
With that said, unlike two_bits, I am not paying a girl enough to demand that she be on lock-down for the whole evening, nor for that matter do i give enough of a shit to even try. So while I won't sit idly by while she chats up other guys for long periods, I am ok if she wishes to take brief breaks to accommodate one-off dance requests.
As long as I've done this and will continue to do this, I'll probably never understand guys who get so wrapped up in one particular girl that they cannot change course as needed. Sorry, not my gig. If a girl invests the time with me I will show her some consideration in turn, but I don't need any one chick enough that I'm going to wait like some eager besotted fucktard in the hopes of eventually getting her attention and I sure as fuck won't chase after her for it.
In the case I mentioned above, our relationship was platonic. We also got together outside the club. We just enjoyed each others company. And if the truth be told, I think I became her father figure. Her family, as it were.
Many of us on here, however, reside in slower areas where the hustle is very different. Girls working in smaller city and countryside clubs often spend more time trying to make connections in order to sell dances. In fact, I am probably ruined for NYC metro area clubs after having enjoyed much more pleasant alternatives for so long now.
So you like twentyfive then?
Again, the best strategy for popular girls is to come at the beginning of her shift. She needs to pay for school supplies!
All of which means: enjoy an especially low-hustle 3 hours with your ATF. Or, be her PL hero, and buy some VIPs over the course of the game; make her the envy of her frenemies, and raise your stock as a customer so she'll stick with you on days the club is busier