OTC girl wanted me to choke her

A lot of younger girls are onto it especially after that fifty shades a grey book

I actually ask girl's to choke me out during sex as I get close to ejaculate... it actually increases how powerful it is

Sooo if you don't do it a man like me will...have you seen my sausage fingers

"Anyone else run into this?"

Yes. She's 21, blonde, submissive, long graceful neck. I play along without getting aggressive.

Somewhere in San Jose a creep is reading this and thinking... hmmm, "if I choke them I can save on the cost of duct tape".

Not OTC but I have run into at least 2 strippers that were seriously into pain while conversing or giving a dance in a club but I didn't pursue anything with them because S+M is not my thing. Just my opinion but people with those fetishes have some serious issues.

"Sooo if you don't do it a man like me will...have you seen my sausage fingers"

Lol

Gotta love gals with daddy issues.

Lol

Don’t actually choke her. Press lightly against the veins I her neck. It’ll give her the same lightheadedness that actual choking does, without actually stopping her breathing.

Being choked out is fun and it makes the orgasms more powerful!

A dancer was telling me about a date she had with a guy she met on the beach. She said that just as she was about to cum the guy strangled her. She said she'd only met the guy a couple of hours before and she thought the jig was up. Lol

Lol

Yep. One girl likes light choking, which was fine. Didn't really interfere with breathing or leave marks. Another girl wanted more than light choking, which was not fine. I cut things off with her because she was a lunatic.

I’ve had quite a few who loved being used hard - and who wanted to be choked hard too. The first time definitely was a bit dicey.

Recently - I was sitting at a table with a stripper - and she was showing me photos on her phone. She has a big dog in one photo - and I mentioned how I liked her dog’s collar. She began to tell me how much she loves being choked hard while being fucked. Otc with her has been wild!

I was with a girl in an Ontario club one night and she actually wanted me to bite her at the neck/shoulder junction. I told her that I just wouldn't do that.

It wasn't until later that I thought, "Yeah. Leaving an impression of my teeth in her would be just a brilliant piece of evidence in s lawsuit!"

That said, I don't think that was her intent, but you never know

10-11 years ago a couple of guys took dancer OTC here and she ended up stuffed in apartment closest. The guys took off to Florida and when caught said what they were doing is choking at her request. Prosecutor didn't back off with that.

It is a thing, especially the girls that like to be dominated...I’m not a fan for all the reasons stated above.

Latest OTC loves to be bound, ankles to her knees and face down. Oral, vag, anal all great and she takes it like a champ but I bought soft cloth and velcro so there would not be bruising as I don't need any hassles either.

I'm encountering girls who want to be choked more in the civvy world.

Don't cut off the air on a first pass. it's more about control than actual choking

My atf likes to choke lightly and be choked....she also likes to be dominated...unfortunately I think she's been abused in the past so I wonder....I kind of turns me on when she chokes me..

I'm thinking that @Dugan strangled this girl before stealing her purse.

JamesSD - in many cases that’s what the girls need to feel - a complete loss of control. Many civie girls get off from that feeling.

I’ve found a few fucked up whores who need the pain to find the intense pleasure of real orgasms. They can be amazing experiences - but definitely not for everyone.

@DC9428: “Call me old fashioned, but I feel like sex should be an act of physical affection”

Ok, you’re old fashioned. :)

Sex should be whatever the people involved want it to be.

If you want it to be about affection, great. Find someone who agrees and carry on.

Other people, however, might have different desires, and that’s OK too.

This may be an urban legend, but I heard about A married guy locally who pulled a dancer from Cheaters (when it was open). She convinced him, without much effort, into some very rough sex. At the end of it, she threatened to call the cops to report rape unless he gave her a pile of cash. He panicked and gave her all his cash and everything he could pull out of an ATM.

Even if it's all fiction, I would be very cautious about extreme sex with any stripper until there's a level of trust and familiarity.

Asking a stripper why she likes being choked is like asking about her relationship with her father. Just dont do it.

^^^ Truth

Lord girl last night just wanted to be abused lol...I mean slapping across face..chocking, spitting on her and even pissing on her.... if I didn’t do it hard enough she called me a pussy and to fuck like a man lmfao

@DC9428,

Well, I am concerned about the “sociological impact” of holier than thou fucktards, contards, and libtards who think that their notions of sexual morality and propriety have somehow attained the status of natural law, and so seek to impose them on the rest of us, by force if necessary.

The key concept you’ve neglected to include in your “concern” is that of consent. No rational person, including especially those in the BDSM community, condones non-consensual violence against other people.

Note that consent is required of all concerned. While rick’s paramour requested this, thus granting consent, he wasn’t comfortable actually doing it, thus withholding consent. So your “concerns” are unfounded here.

I had this happen to me one time YEARS ago. Dancer was really into hands around her neck while dancing.