How often do you go for dancers that aren't your type?
chessmaster
Illinois
For those that have a "type", how often have you enjoyed dancers outside of that category? I normally like and prefer thick, big booty types(still do) but lately ive been trying more spinners and skinny(but not anorexic, yuck) dancers and they've been alright. I normally tend to ignore the spinners with no ass so i forgot how great they can be sometimes. Of course they cant grind on me with their ass but otherwise some have great technique and can be quite "friendly" in the ld room.
Tldr; spinners are fun(in moderation of course).
Tldr; spinners are fun(in moderation of course).
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"then some other girl who I'm not interested in plops herself down next to me and starts chatting." You would say no to a waiter that plops a meal in front of you, why not a dancer? Don't be rude and don't drop hints tell her no thank you, you are waiting for another dancer and tell the hottie you are tipping you want her to sit with you or have a dance with you when she gets off stage.
I do tend to be pretty picky, so i rarely dance with a girl that's below an 8 (generally attractive overall in face and body) from my personal ratings. Even then, i still prefer very attractive (9 and up). On the rare occasions i dance with a 7 (just above average), it's usually because she's still one of the relatively hottest ones there, or maybe she's a butter face (like a 9+ body and 5+ face) or butter body (9+ face and 5+ body) or she spends a lot of time with me and is very friendly or has a better personality. Even if she gives a great dance, i still don't tend to get repeat dances from her.
My biggest problem is when i still get dances from girls that aren't my 1st, 2nd or 3rd choice if my favorites or preferred dancers are there. They might still be quite attractive, but i usually feel i could have just saved my money instead of dancing with them especially if i've danced with them before and wasn't just trying them out to see if they have favorite potential.
If a girl you know you're not interested sits next to you right when you want to stage tip a hottie, and she sits next to you without asking (otherwise, if she asks to sit, i would say i'm actually waiting on someone), i would just make very quick pleasantries, like less than a minute, then say it was nice meeting you and then shake her hand, or touch her arm or something or nothing and leave the table and go to the stage. She should get the point and won't be back at your table or wait for you while you tip the hottie. And definitely don't buy her a drink.
Yes. This is where her technique(or lack of) comes into play. the ones that can maneuver around your dick without grinding their bones on you can be great.
Lol, "bones on my Dick". But those slim spinners often times have the Phattie Chocho..
I agree. It just so happens i find a phat ass hotter than a flat bony ass all else being equal.
Excellent point! I try to let them down softly but keep my options open. I've had many times where sober i would think nothing of a dancer, then later, after a few drinks, she looks marginally better(or my standards lowered) and i took them for a dance aand it was better than expected. But she has to be decent looking to begin with. No amount of alcohol would change my mind about a less than a 6 maybe.
I myself tend to be pretty polite, generally soft spoken, and i guess what you call a nice guy, which i supposed isn't all that attractive to a lot of girls IRL, but strippers might love that shit as i seem like an easy mark. Still you have to understand that dancers lie all the time. White lies or straight up SS. They're not interested in the vast majority of customers as it is. They don't care if you're not interested in them, if they can still separate you from your money.
They know that you are probably lying yourself when you drop those gentle hints, but not being firm allows them to keep their foot in the door (if we're to keep using the salesman analogy) and continue to bother you or bother you later. So that is why i prefer for them not to sit down in the first place or i physically remove myself from their presence if they sit down anyway (and i don't let them sit on my lap if i don't consider them physically attractive) as this is quicker and more effective than waiting for them or continually "dropping hints" until it becomes a more emotionally charged situation. So if they introduce themselves to me and sit, then very shortly later, i see them off and leave.
Now if i have time to kill and they seem like somewhat pleasant girls, i'll converse with them, pick their brains a bit and let them shield me from other dancers i don't want to dance with. Even then, i'm careful not to lead them on, and i'm still not spending any money with them and always can still leave the situation and leave her dry. That's her problem; she didn't have to sit with me and i didn't ask her to. When they ask if i want company, i say it's up to her how she spends her time. That should let her know that her time is not my financial responsibility.
I like thicker women. PAWGs are not easy to find, but great when you come across one. I did a couple dances with this beautiful PAWG a couple months ago and she had nipple piercings and I didn’t even care because she was gorgeous from head to toe with a big ass :-)
I even quoted your post. Please explain if i took it out of context.
What possible self worth could i extract from this thread?
$10 dances - sometimes
$20 dances - rarely
Later I found that the fun of strip clubs is in learning to engage way off type, with all of them. You only have to get along with them in that limited and controlled environment.
SJG
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