Comments by dr_lee (page 2)

1) Moving to another city, obviously 2) Decline in talent 3) Really bad service

I don't consider any dancer a regular, even the ones I regularly get dances from. It's open season anytime I'm in a strip club.

I actually like SEEING dancers in fishnets, but getting dances when they are wearing them is a pain because they always get caught in buttons and untwirling is a pain. But I miss the classic lingerie look that some girls would wear, like nighties or silk gowns. Now it’s all bikinis.

I keep to myself. Not a conversationalist, so I’m not one of these guys who likes to sit with chicks for hours jabbering. Absorb atmosphere, watch stage, see a dancer I like, get a dance…the end

Brunettes are my preference because my standards for them are lower. I'm super particular about blondes. I don't favor skinny chicks, but I'd get a dance from a thin brunette over a skinny blonde. Between redheads and blondes, I guess blondes.

D'Angelo has been way hotter in other movies, including some (maybe all) of the Vacation sequels. She looked the most like a plain looking homemaker in the first one. She was actually hotter in the sequels.

I liked older dancers even when I was younger. Maybe it’s just he experience and maturity that makes them better to me. I wouldn’t go as far as 50, but relatively recently pre-Covid, I was with a dancer who told me she was 43 and was one off the best I’ve got dances from in years. There was another in the same club where I know she had to be over 40, late 30s at best, and she had possibly the best breasts I’d ever seen. And breasts are not as big a deal to me as they used to be, but this lady changed my mind! Lol

Christie's Cabaret in nearby Tempe is a good option.

Most definitely! Lol They’ve actually called me to see if I was going to show up at the club on a night, so they could be there to give me dances.

Things are kind of normal and not normal at the clubs I check out. Even with restrictions being lifted, everything just feels different. It's not even that some people still wear masks, just the whole vibe feels off. There's only 1 club that seems to have the same dancers, while the rest have a lot of newcomers. I think many dancers just moved to other cities or decided to change careers during the dark days of the pandemic. Also, not all clubs are going back to their normal days or hours. Some of them are only open a few days of the week and opening a lot later than normal. I already think the SC scene was changing dramatically BEFORE the pandemic, but now it feels like it's at an all-time low.

I prefer girls that are thick, with dark hair and nice legs. I can't do skinny stick figure girls. She can be thin, but has to have an actual figure.

Clubs seemed to be getting worse even before the pandemic.

Just things I don't like or care for in SCs 1. Carrying on long conversations with the club employees. I just want a drink or a dance or to watch the stage, not tell my life story. 2. Seeing the same dancers all the time. One club I go to has had what felt like zero turnover for the last 3 years. Familiarity breeds contempt. 3. Tipping on stage for two main reasons (A) leads the dancer into thinking I want a dance so she'll come bug me and (B) could spend that money on drinks. 4. When there are like a hundred open seats in the club, but customer or dancer decides to pick the seat right next to me, especially during the pandemic. You can't sit the next seat over? 5. Bartenders who just grab a drink before I can tell them what I want. Don't assume. 6. On the note of #1, loud talkers. Dial down the volume. No one wants to hear your life story or personal business. 7. Dancers who chew gum a lot. 8. Dancers who always seem to have a drink in their hand.

Different talent, and I’m being generous when I say talent

Honestly, seeing a lot of hot girls boggles my mind because the places I usually live and clubs I frequent don’t have my standards in general. First time I visited Miami, I was like WHOA!

For the 6 months nothing was open, I really didn’t miss SCs. Now that a couple I regularly frequented are back, I’m going too much. But so far it’s not great. One of the clubs has the same ole same ole dancers and staff and it’s boring. The other is actually better in terms of dancers, like virtually all new, but many of them have very negative attitudes. Maybe a couple other clubs I go to will open soon.

Years ago I had one in Vegas tell me she was 46. Before that I just assumed they were all young until I took a hard look at some of them.

Most of the time I just go with it because like you say, she may not come back later. I think some of them take it personally.

I remember when most dancers didn’t even have tattoos. It’s one of those things that I just accepted over time. Tats don’t really turn me off. A bad attitude does! I used to not care about personality if a female was hot, but I will turn her away quickly if she’s annoying with bad habits and attitude. So it’s more my acceptance of behavior that has changed. I just can’t with a girl being loud and obnoxious or slamming down drinks or not being able to shut up for 5 seconds. No longer interested. Give me quiet, subtle, charming.

I couldn't care less about being friendly with them.

Just a wild guess, I don't think everything gets back to normal for at least another 2 years.

Eh?

For me, it's about more what I DON'T like to see females wearing. Bikinis are overrated. I've always thought that only women with near-perfect bodies should wear bikinis and unfortunately, most dancers wear bikinis now. Also, I can't explain it, but I hate when dancers wear those ankle bands. It just looks so cheesy and unsexy to me. I don't mean the anklets, their fine. Those band things that look like wrist bands, but they wear on their ankles. It just looks strange. My 2 favorite outfits are probably when dancers wear long robes and/or teddies.

I’ve had more trouble with dancers sitting at my table than other customers. There was this one in this club in Philly one time where it was a Sunday night and virtually EMPTY and done some unearthly reason, she sat at my table when there were like 50 empty ones. And she wasn’t there to ask me for a dance. She was just being an asshole.

To piggyback on someone from an earlier post, PATIENCE has proved to be a huge virtue for me. In my early days, I wanted dancers to be hot and heavy from jump, but then I realized once you start at the top, there’s nowhere to go but down. In fact, I’ve had some dancers start out hot, then cool off after. I guess they were just trying to reel me in. Dancers that start off coy, shy, and indifferent, but then slowly over time get to know me and start to really like me and enjoy the dances to the point she becomes hot and heavy are way more satisfying than the ones who are like that from the beginning. I’ve actually had a lot of dancers that are like that. Deep down, they want to be turned on, but they want you to let them get there at their own pace.